ok so i have been with my boyfriend for 3yrs and so now he is moving away and 2 a new school soon. Last night we talked on the phone and talk about it,and he said that he loves me and isn't studdin those girls at the new school he about to go to. also that he isn't gonna let 3yrs go to waste just because he is moving. my problem is that i dnt really believe him when he said he wouldn't be studdin those girls at his new school and stuff! im worried that he will and i believe he will... i feel bad that i feel that way though. what do u think i should do? would u just break up or would u try to work things out or do u think we can work things out! also if u believe that it can't be worked out how do i get ova him and move on? thanks for the advice!
2007-01-12 13:13:08 · 30 answers · asked by ♥Classii1♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. You are both so young and there's plenty of time to be tied down to one person. Have fun while you can!
2007-01-12 13:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by katydid 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that you and his ages may be part of the answer here. Is he just leaving for school from high school? Or has he been out of high school for awhile? I know from experience that if its right out of high school, its may be hard for one or both of you in a completely new situation such as going away to school.
By ultimately just remember you are both human and everyone makes mistakes. Whether or not he/you do or don't just depends on fate. Whether or not you would choose to forgive and forget depends on how much you two care for each other.
I wouldn't worry though, because if he's not, your own doubt will still be evident in your voice when you talk. I hope this helps!
2007-01-12 21:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by sapientia2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is the big thing here, I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for 7 years, but Ru happy if not get out now ,befour its 2 late,and u hate each other,give it a go wot u got 2 lose girl,and don't just give up on 3 years x
2007-01-12 21:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by misty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem... my boyfriend is in Taiwan, I'm in Mexico... (yeah, exactly the other end of the world) and we're still dating... the difference is, my friend, I trust him... I think you should have dumped him long time ago... I don't think this will work for you, specially if after all these years you couldnt get to trust him
2007-01-12 21:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by L007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all i think u need to ask ur self if he has ever done anything to you to not trust his word. has he ever cheated on you or let you down. If your answer is no then you need to look at your self and ask your self if you have ever done anything that he wouldn't approve of and your afraid that it might come back around to you. if thats not it either then you really need to find out what the source of your fear is. and what about if he does go away do you think that you might be looking yourself and how would you deal with that if you choose to stay with him. emotion are a very hard thing to control. you need to ask yourself when would you two get together to spend time with one another. and would that be enough to keep your relationship satisfied. Long distant relationships are hard to keep going. and to keep satisfied. you need to look at the pros and cons of the situation and at the end of it all if your heart tells you to stay then stay. try to make the most out of it but make sure that you both trust one another. if your heart tells you to leave, well, my advise to you would be to leave. trust your heart because you deserve to be happy too. either way good luck.
2007-01-12 21:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by azeris23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how far he is from you long distance it not easy and he will most likely find a another girl but i did,t so i would wait for until he gets out of school and find him, then see if he is going out with a another girl. at the mean time put your mine in school work till you are done. also phone him or e-mail him if you can,t be with him.ask him if he wan,t to be with you.still or is it easier to disappear till summer at less. give him the choice,
2007-01-12 21:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to work things out.
If nothing works, then that's something else. Move on...He is moving away...long distance relationships sometimes do work. Depends on the two people.
I would wait to see how far it goes.
If nothing works, then I would move on .
Best of Luck
2007-01-12 21:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by latinapr1229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if you have been with him for 3 years and he hasnt done you wrong...then you have nothing to worry about... never expect the worst out of problems.... all ways think positive thoughts.
2007-01-12 21:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want this to work you can make it happen, however you have to be completely honest with each other and it has to be something you both want. If all else fails trust your instinct you should know him better than anybody!
2007-01-12 21:27:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to work out. You have to trust him. If you worry about it is that going to make him not do it, no. Just let him know if he messes up once your gone. Let him know not to take you for granted and you two will make it.
2007-01-12 21:17:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋