Singles & Dating - 12 January 2007

I have been dating my bf for about a year and a half. I am completely head overs heels in love with him. I have been in much longer relationships before but I never felt this way about any of those guys. My bf now makes me happy. He loves me for who I am and he doesn't care that I am not a skinny girl. I am barely 5'2" and weigh about 155. He says he likes my pudge. I am not self conscious around him. Even now when I get around him I still get those butterflies in my stomach like a school girl and puppy love. We are both adults and long out of grade school. I am afraid to tell him exactly how I feel because I am kind of scared that he will run screaming in the opposite direction. But everything that I am keeping inside is really taking a toll on me emotionally. Should I tell him how I feel or should I give it a little more time until we have been together longer? Your opinions are greatly appreciated.

2007-01-12 16:58:56 · 11 answers · asked by slvrcss 1

does anyone here go to Nigeul Hills Middle School?

2007-01-12 16:57:48 · 2 answers · asked by mbjack0407 2

I have a guy friend that's turning 16 next week, and I'm wondering what he would like for a present. We both like each other but we're not going out. Also he's a very dedicated basketball player.

I'm in need of some advice =) please and thank you!

2007-01-12 16:57:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think of young girls dating older men? How much older is too old?

2007-01-12 16:57:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im extremely worried something will go wrong the first time i have sex.

Ive just started dating this girl, and im very nervous. I know she isnt a virgin, and im guessing she would expect me to at least have been with one person before.

If you started dating this guy, and suddenly the big moment came, and it was a shocking let down, what would you feel? say? or even think?

Im not worried about what i look like, its more my performance, of not knowing what to do, being early or not rising to the occasion.

I get very nervous and overthink things, but biggest problem was when i first tried to have sex, i was so nervous i just couldnt rise, and its haunted me since (but there were external factors as to why i didnt). And the girl broke up with me day after, and its just in the back of my mind, that it may happen again.

2007-01-12 16:55:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-12 16:55:19 · 3 answers · asked by Pretty1 1

2007-01-12 16:54:49 · 35 answers · asked by beautiful 1

what does this girl wsiper when i am around whit her firends and one time i go shake her hand and want back to sit she wusper lound to her firend hes cute and then the girl looks at me when i look back she looks somewhere else fsat?

2007-01-12 16:54:43 · 12 answers · asked by zaheer a 2

all i need is ppl to tell me what they think love really is..i want to hear it from others perspective...what is love to you.??

2007-01-12 16:54:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am planning to give the guuy I have a crush on a note that says "If you only knew how much I like you" written in French. Do you guys think I should do that? If not, please suggest something. Thanks in advance!!

2007-01-12 16:53:45 · 34 answers · asked by Kat 1

Insist on buying dinner all of the time? Even When I'm the one who says "lets go out." The other day she took my Card away from me until the waiter got back with the reciept. Why doesn't she want me to pay? Granted she makes more $ than me, but I don't thaink that's her only reason.

2007-01-12 16:53:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i feel that i am chasing him which i probably am, and i want to stop, i want him to chase me, if he really loved me like he said he did, he will come after me right?

2007-01-12 16:52:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have never been betrayed by a man in my life. Before the man I am in a relationship with now I was a regular on the dating scene and have always had good relationships.

I just can't bring myself to fully trust him, despite knowing he would do anything for me and loves me unconditionally, I feel like I have turned suspicious and jealous, I just can't help it! I'm not sure whats wrong with me, I know everyone has there insecurities but I can't say I ever had.

How do I change my ways and block out these jealous feelings?

2007-01-12 16:51:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok when we're laying down like spooning or just snugglin he's always telling me that my breathing will spike like my breathing pattern changes if you where a guy what would it make you think if a girl did this when you where spooning or something because my b/f acts like its a signal or somethin and when he asks me about it i say i dont notice it (cause i dont) and he says something like your giving me mixed signals!!

So what would you think if your girlfriend/love did that?
(He's 17 im 16 no sex goin on)

2007-01-12 16:50:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was goin out wit sum1 4 3 months then when we broke up a few weeks later i thought we were back together but he used the words "for old times sake" .....What the hell man???

2007-01-12 16:49:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been 5 months, we just understand things in chatting. I am honest to him 100%, but he ask me somthing that aside from my ex who else I get sex, then I say my 1st bf, I think he get mad at for not telling him abiyt it, but I think its no big deal. but he keeps on saying that I cheated my ex bf for having sex with my 1st bf while im in a relation,, pls. need advice I love my bf now I dont want to loosee him.

2007-01-12 16:49:43 · 1 answers · asked by Khakeru 1

I am fifty years a male I was married for over twenty years I have been singel for a couple of years now I have tried most of the dating sights with no results. It is a whole different world than it was back when I was dating. I dont know how to start over I am so behind the times Im trying to catch up. Wemen are so conplex just about the time you think you got them figured out you are proven wrong. I dont know mabie I am trying too hard or mabie I am just to old and shouldnt be trying to find that somone special that can touch my heart and and give me cold chills with just a touch. I dont think I ask too much I want someone who can love me for who I am not look at the rough looks that a hard life has handed me someone who will look deeper to find a heart just waiting for someone to take it in.My dream of someone to hold and talk to, someone who I can tell my secrets to and she would know she could do the same.Mabie I am just to old fashioned. Am I just living a dream or just give u

2007-01-12 16:49:06 · 11 answers · asked by walley 1

Whats the difference between being someones girl and being their girlfriend???? Oh and this is middle school im talking about.

2007-01-12 16:48:01 · 11 answers · asked by meganbookreader 1

My boyfreind and I have relationship for 2 years and have lived together. He has night shift like from 11pm to 8am. I know he is really tired. Even though we didn't have sex for 2 weeks, I can understand. But I catch him he was watching porn and masturbated yesterday. I really don't understand how could he do that? It was his off day which I was waiting for. I was sleeping next to him. He used to wake me up when he was horny. But now....
Does he feel boring from me or not attractive? It doesn't make me feel good. I am really sad.Is it normal?

2007-01-12 16:47:31 · 15 answers · asked by BBABO 1

my friends boyfriend found out that one of her close guy friends likes her and he said if he likes her he's gonna dump her!!(her boyfriend acts like he's 5) so she asked me to ask the guy if he likes her and he said he would only tell me the answer if i either showed him my chest or my vag**a!! would you have done it???
Please help?

my friend really wanted me to do it!!

2007-01-12 16:47:31 · 9 answers · asked by ghetto fabolous 4

me and my boyfriend are having a baby in feb. but the only problem is what to do when its born. he tells me to move in with him but i think it would be better if he would move in with me. should i move in with him or should i tell him to move in with me?

2007-01-12 16:46:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been trying to reconcile my ex-girlfriend for some weeks now, but she tells me she already has a guy that she don't want to cheat. Now, I'm going to visit her on her birthday, she has already consented to my visit. What gift would you think appropriate as I still hope to plead with her to take me back. I already told her that I am coming to plead her to take me back. Because I still love her. Please, what gift do you think is appropriate and efficient?

2007-01-12 16:43:53 · 22 answers · asked by Lisa L 1

Broke up with ex in the beginning of september. We have both had a new relationship since then. I am out of mine and she is stll in hers. We ended up going out to dinner last week and we ended up sleeping together again. She said it was a one time thing and that it can't happen again. The whole time she was over she was hanging all over me like when we were together then she just shut off those feelings the next day. I really don't know if it is a wise idea to hang out anymore. If it has happened once I don't really think it won't happen again. She also wasn't telling her boyfriend we were hanging out. She finally told him we went to dinner this week, but nothing else. Should I just stay away. I actaully still have feelings for her and she knows this. I don't honestly know what to do. Any advice would be great.

2007-01-12 16:43:08 · 4 answers · asked by john 2

2007-01-12 16:42:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-12 16:41:27 · 25 answers · asked by nina rachminiwati 1

Im 12, i look 16, act 16...Okay, i had this boyfriend, we went out for over a year and then around september the time had to come i had to break up with him because i couldnt keep on hurting him. While we were going out i would mess around with other guys and some how he'd always end up finding out? But then after we broke up i dated a 16 year old.. and he got really mad, and he started calling me names all the time, he would tell me i look like a tramp, he calls me a **** because of me cheating on him and my thong always hangs out.. and he would always have something to say about that. But deep down i still have a soft spot for him but now i just kinda ignore him calling me names, but it still hurts a lot. I am kinda labled as a tramp though. Good advice please!

2007-01-12 16:40:11 · 18 answers · asked by Rebecca 1

have you ignored the guy or girl that you liked and suddenly they come to you saying that they miss you? or have made someone admit that they like you by playing this game? does this game work for everyone?

2007-01-12 16:39:41 · 11 answers · asked by Gel G 2

2007-01-12 16:37:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy I've liked for three years thinks I'm a joke and I hate him but I don't want to how do I get over him?

2007-01-12 16:37:11 · 8 answers · asked by Sexy Diva 101 2

I'm a 5'9 asian in Los Angeles subrub and I like short caucasian lady. But my friends and my relatives want me to marry an asian girl. I want to have sex with caucasian but I am afraid that I might break their hearts if I don't marry them. I am thinking too much, am I?

2007-01-12 16:36:54 · 8 answers · asked by imissu8 1