Singles & Dating - 10 January 2007

and why do so many girls who have boyfriends or partners want auxillery cyber sex chat pals?

where will it all lead? some kind of new complex customized polyamory?

2007-01-10 01:49:49 · 5 answers · asked by lowroad 2

OK I DREAMPT THAT MY BOYFRIEND HAD TOLD ME THAT HE WAS CHEATING ON ME WITH THIS GIRL FOR 3 MONTHS AND THIS GIRL HAD BEEN IN OUR RELATIONSHIP BEFORE LIK HE HAD A THING WITH HER WHILE WE FIRST STARTED GOIN OUT IT WAS SO WEIRD I ALWAYS HAVE DREAMS WITH HIM AND THE SAME GIRL WHAT DOES THIS DREAM MEAN PLEASE HELP ME OUT CAUSE ITS REALLY BOTHERING ME ALOT THNKS

2007-01-10 01:48:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I care about this guy a lot I just don't LOVE him like one is supposed to when dating someone and even moving in with them. We're stuck in this lease for a house for 7 more months but I want out now! (Out of the relationship, I mean) It's not an option to get out of the lease early in my case. There are plenty of spare bedrooms that I could move to if we did break up before the end of the lease...I'm just afraid he'll be weird about it and it will make the next 7 months of my life a living hell. I don't know what to do...

2007-01-10 01:48:06 · 3 answers · asked by kestrelk8 6

2007-01-10 01:47:28 · 2 answers · asked by :o) 3

we would seperate. he gets mad when we discuss our problems. but he never gets mad when we have a sit down and talk about who gets what if we seperate. we both live together for 2 yrs. so what would you think this meant. also we got a big screen tv together. we share the payments. he told me if we seperate i have to take on all the payments. whats your opinon. let me remind you, if we break up it will be becuz of him cuz he is emotionally unavailable.

2007-01-10 01:46:46 · 7 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4

Need help with a break up: My gf of 2 years said she needed space on the 1st, she said that she wants to ...
continue to date me, but doesn't want to say if we are still together or broken up when I ask her directly. She said she wants to limit communications and only go out once a week and see where it goes. She told me she is not sure what she wants. Yet she told her best friend that we were still together just taking things slow, starting over. If that is the case why won't she tell me that? What does she really want? How do I get her back? Do I go on dates with her or should I ignore her and hope she comes around?

2007-01-10 01:45:47 · 10 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4

My BF is a guy I dated a long time ago and we are back together and have promised new things. But I have a problem he wants me to stop some of the things I do but if I do I won't really be me. My ? is this I care for him but I don't want to change should I change for him or go with a guy that cares about me and likes me for who I am?

2007-01-10 01:44:49 · 22 answers · asked by spawnof_thedevil 2

What is the perfect weight for a girl because I am 122 but I am really small i waer 1's in teens but i am called fat?

2007-01-10 01:44:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

For false advertising.......?

2007-01-10 01:43:52 · 18 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4

Would your parents/grandparents freak out if you brought me home to meet them?

2007-01-10 01:40:41 · 4 answers · asked by spun_up_06 4

Howdy! I wouldn't say I was a pervert or anything, but I sometimes like to look at porn on the internet to get me aroused when I'm in the mood. However, all the movies always seem to end in the guy blowing his load all over a girls face! Now, as far as I'm aware, this isn't really a common occurance in every day life?! Have my friends and I just not been with the right people? Do girls get off on this or is it quite rare and just something they do to please the guy?! Cheers!!

2007-01-10 01:39:18 · 22 answers · asked by crazyoldben 2

I am baptist. And I have made a promise to myself and to God that I wont have sex. Is there something I can do to stop or help me ingore the urges. I have for kids so its obvious that I already have done it before, I just dont want to go back to the life I used to live

2007-01-10 01:39:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy that I like and I have told him kinda I said that my step-brother said for me not to like him and that I had told him I'll like him if I want. He just smiled and laughed. My friend says he talks about me and said he said that he likes me. But I gave him my # and he didn't call. I asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said yea so I said oh I thought they were lieing to me and looked away kinda sad. But I seen his face and he smiled a half smile. Is he playing hard to get or does he really not like me is my bestfriend just saying that so I feel better and am happy??? Tell me the truth no stuiped stuff.

2007-01-10 01:38:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Without feeling totally slack.....

2007-01-10 01:38:10 · 10 answers · asked by Andy N. 1

lol

2007-01-10 01:37:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this one guy that I have been seeing. He always tells me how beautiful he thinks I am and how much he loves touching my body(not in the gross disgusting way, he is happy rubbing my neck). I am by no means fat but I am bigger. He is tall and slender. Anyone see a problem with this? When he tells me that he thinks I am hot and all that I just smile and kiss him. I don't know if it's the truth or if he is just saying it to make me happy. And the way I have gotten the message, he doesn't want me to meet his friends. Is he embaressed? I am a young woman so I should be able to handle it no matter what, but I'm starting to wonder things....

2007-01-10 01:37:13 · 9 answers · asked by Dianne 2

what can i do with my boyfriend that would make him happy our anniversary is coming up and i do not know what to do. please help

2007-01-10 01:36:49 · 3 answers · asked by soccer_chick3 2

my boyfriend called me at like 4:30 last night and said he would be over at like 8 8:30 ish he never showed up and he wouldnt answer his phone do u think hes trying to tell me something??? or do u think he just got caught up in something???

2007-01-10 01:33:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

some times my bloke will come home from work and he say his going to the pub for a couple of drinks, he always shouts out he wont be long, how stupid am i cos he always returns home at 4- 5 am in the morning , i cant sleep till his in, plus he is also so sick the following day at least throwing up until 8pm .
i always get the hump am i right to.

2007-01-10 01:33:22 · 37 answers · asked by hayley b 1

My girlfriend broke up with her ex about 2 1/2 months ago. Shes with me now but ive known her for about a yr. I liked her straight away and she liked me. She broke up with her ex and she didnt hear anything from him but then he called a couple of weeks ago and asked her to take him back. She said no. They talked for great lenght that first time and she told me that he'd called and that he wouldnt call again. But he did the next day. She then told me that shed tell him that it wasnt a good idea for him to call again. But he did. I backed off and let her be. I didnt make demands or pushed assuming shed sort it out. But i found out on monday that hed been calling her loads of times and theyd be talking for hours each time.I feel really hurt by this and my gf basically said that she didnt see any reason why she should stop talking to him. We talked and we came to an agreement that shed only talkk to him every couple of wks...............

2007-01-10 01:33:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and I were having a long distance relationship. I have just left him for my career two months ago. Things were all ok before I left. However he wrote me a break-up letter today and told me that he doesn't feel the same way anymore. But he was the sweetest guy I could ever be with. All the things he did for me was so wonderful and more than a normal bf would do. He is now extremely busy with his life but I seriously thought things would stay the same. However he has changed and stopped contacting me. I emailed him a couple times and I got his emails back too. He sounded ok and was sweet. But the thing i don't understand is that why he can change overnight and telling me that he ahs been feeling neglected. He thinks that I never truly understood him. He wants to call it off and move on. How do I get him to contact me again? I am not doing anything right now cuz I think we need a few days off. I know I need to be mature to talk to him. Please help to make him understand my feelings!

2007-01-10 01:32:20 · 7 answers · asked by Citychick 2

I AM A MAN AND LOVE U ALL SWEET LADEIS PLEASE ANSWER

2007-01-10 01:30:12 · 11 answers · asked by suraj s 1

i need help finding a guy . i am sort of a geek not the ugly one. then i am also quiet and dont get out much. but then again i am only a sophmore in high school. most of the guys i talk to just want to be friends but mostly want answers to home work. how do i get a guy and know that he just looks at me like answer key? or at least find a guy that likes me for me?

2007-01-10 01:29:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-10 01:28:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is strange. I dream of someone, i even know details of this mysterious person such as the name, the age and his face and figure. In my dream, he was my boyfriend. The strange thing is, i don't have a boyfriend now, and I have never met such a person in my real life. What do you think this could be?

2007-01-10 01:28:37 · 4 answers · asked by questioning 1

Despite the fact that I have told my fiancee that I feel it would be too early to marry he is pressuring me. We have only known each other one year. I told him no not now. I am not ready and our relationship is too unstable. Why then does he insist on marrying me anyway? He gave me an ultimatum and I said no anyway. But he still pushes. How do I get him to stop.

2007-01-10 01:27:32 · 4 answers · asked by Java Queen 3

I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy who's 38 and I'm 22. Anyway, stuff happened after my last visit, he didn't call often and didn't reply to my texts - his excuse? "I'm not a texting kind of person". Anyway, after thinking that he doesn't give a damn, I sent him a text saying "Thought u were special not like those using bastards, guess I was wrong". He ignored the text. He had to send me money I left at his place and it took him a while to send it to the point that I told him "As soon as I get that money, you won't hear from me". Anyway, things were settled and I'm seeing him next weekend. Since that incident he's telling me that he's got his guard up now cuz he say's "Whats to say you ain't gonna send me a text like that again" and told me that girls start acting crazy when you start to drop your guard. My sister thinks hes playing me about, he was hinting the other week about us having a baby. I don't know what he's doing, does he like me or is lying to keep me there?HELP

2007-01-10 01:25:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 years. I have a 7-year-old son who he has raised during this period of time because his father does not want to be involved. My boyfriend just informed me the other day that he does not think my son belongs to my ex. He says a boy should look like his father and he looks nothing like him. Well my son looks like me! He says he has thought this the entire time. When I tell him there's no way my son belongs to anybody else he acts like he doesn't believe me. I asked if he was wanting me to pursue this issue further and maybe try to get a relationship going with my son and his real dad, get a DNA, or try to get child support but he just says no. Why would he even say this then? I told him this hurt me and he's like oh well, but I don't think think that's his dad. If his dad doesn't do anything for him anyway, what was the point of this comment? I wonder if maybe he's tired of being "daddy" but he says no to this also. Arghhh!!!

2007-01-10 01:23:19 · 9 answers · asked by AngieBaby 3

hello peepz.Im 19 and i have a wonderful boyfriend.He's madly in love with me and we have an awesome relationship as we r best friends as well.I lost my virginity to him a couple of weeks back and it hurt that time.he was very gentle and caring.When we did it the second time(a week back), it hurt again!not only it hurt at times, but i did not feel aroused at all.I could feel what's happening but that's all.afterwards i was so disappointed and started crying.Naturally i thought sex would be as magical for me as it is with other girls.My boyfriend,being the sweetheart he is,calmed me down and said that we'll go to a doctor and check if anything is wrong with either of us.I know we should but im very worried. He's helping me out a lot but i just feel so uncomfortable.what should i do?

2007-01-10 01:22:52 · 12 answers · asked by Beautiful 3

2007-01-10 01:22:30 · 2 answers · asked by _rockstarXhelp_ 1