Singles & Dating - 9 January 2007

My boyfriend and I have been 2gether a little over 2 years (i'm 20 y/o) . He thinks I've cheated on him, which I haven't; I'm going 2 pay 2 get a lie detector test to prove it to him. He treats me soooo horribly over it. He tells me he hates me, throws things at me. ... He calls me a slut, whore, and disgusting. His best friend told him we slept together and we didn't... he's always staring at me and I know he's attracted to me but I can't stand him. That's why he thinks I cheated. Everytime I go 2 leave him he cries and begs me to stay and says he's sorry. I'm not going to leave him b/c I love him and after this test, everything is going to be OK. Anyway... he has treated me so badly that about 4 months ago I had someone in a training class @ work that I thought was cute. I told him about it and I left out that I wondered what it would be like to hang with him. I told him today because I felt guilty. Now he says he doesn't want to be with me. What do I do? I am heartbroken

2007-01-09 10:46:18 · 9 answers · asked by chanteuse87 5

There's this guy at school but he's not in any of my classes but he's my neighbor and i see him at the ice rink every friday. he is really sweet and he's funny. i REALLY like him. but im not sure if he likes me back. should i find out if he likes me or should i just ask him out? and if or when i ask him out how should i do it? would he feel weird if the girl asked the guy out? then should i convince him to ask me out?this would be my first bf he said yes. im really nervous. help!

2007-01-09 10:46:18 · 4 answers · asked by brunette babe 2

2007-01-09 10:45:32 · 13 answers · asked by lilly 1

she says she can be with you forever and not be bored

does she love you or no if she says that ?

2007-01-09 10:45:05 · 8 answers · asked by Nick723 3

i dont know what love is

2007-01-09 10:44:38 · 18 answers · asked by Becky T 1

my best friend (mark) is good friends with all these people in a band. one of those people in the band are named John. Mark called me with John on the other line. We talked for a while, and Mark showed John my myspace. Apparently, he thinks I am "insanely hot" and was talking to Mark about how bad he wants to "bone me." I was joking around on the phone and told John I'd give him a lapdance if he gave me and some friends a ride to the movies. So i probably led him on or something. Because I don't do things like that. Mark is having a party on Saturday and the whole band is going to be there. I'm afraid this guy John is going to try something on me and I'm not sure how to handle this. I've heard some bad things about John also, that he's an alcoholic and has a bad home-life. I know the typical answer is to "not go" to the party but I'm going to eventually meet this guy John somewhere because he's friends with a lot of people I know. And I really want to go to this party. what to do?

2007-01-09 10:43:54 · 13 answers · asked by jooooooolie 1

No more time 2 spend wit u, to talk to,you to hug u, wat am i 2 do?
Everyines n da way now, ur at work anyhow, wit no mo time to spin wit me but on yo spare timw,as we do thing different, u begin 2 smile again, we start to laugh, den da time starts 2 pass, no mo time again, i try to stay calm, and then it dawns, i cant hide it , i try so hard, but u hav to choose, me or her, and then i knew it , no mo time again

2007-01-09 10:40:31 · 10 answers · asked by princez 2

Feel free to go crazy with this question.

2007-01-09 10:40:00 · 8 answers · asked by Love_Forever 3

2007-01-09 10:39:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should I go up to him and tell him or keep him a secret crush?And he seems like he likes me too but I am not quite sure. His friends keep saying he has a girl friend but he hasn`t actually gone out with her. The thing that bothers me is he addmits to having a girl friend and yet still he flirts with me!What do I do?

2007-01-09 10:37:36 · 10 answers · asked by TomBoy 360 1

2007-01-09 10:37:12 · 59 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6

2007-01-09 10:37:04 · 10 answers · asked by lilly 1

I think my 45 year old boyfriend is obsessed with porn and sex. He has an incredibly substantial video collection, not to mention what he keeps on his computer. I don’t mind a bit of porn now and then myself, but he just has too much. Any time there is a show on which relates even remotely to sex he watches it. Is he more than just a typical male?

2007-01-09 10:34:45 · 29 answers · asked by Slikemema 1

on my page i marked i was in a relationship and there for friends he said thats nothing to be upset over, it just 4 fun (especially since he treats me like a queen) but i cant help it! am i wrong?

2007-01-09 10:33:39 · 10 answers · asked by dominique shari 2

It’s just I’m in my early 20’s and I’m still a virgin. The reason I am still a virgin is because I want my first time to be special with the right girl. But I wonder sometimes, would she feel really special that I saved my self for her or disappointed. So girls hypothetical question, if your guy saved him self for you would you feel really special or disappointed because he was not experienced?

2007-01-09 10:33:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lost my viginity to my recent bf after the day we met and became a couple. It's been a day or two since I've seen him. I don't know if I regret losing my virginity or not. Deep down I think I feel bad. I enjoyed it but I can't help but to wonder. Is it normal to think I might have made a mistake?

2007-01-09 10:33:33 · 8 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3

2007-01-09 10:33:17 · 20 answers · asked by Scorpio 1

2007-01-09 10:31:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-09 10:31:00 · 10 answers · asked by Scorpio 1

I've caught him looking but how can i be sure he likes me back? Plz help!!!?
i'm 13 and i've been single for the past three months if u read my past tragitc stories you'll understand this one completely. anyways!! this guy at my school was in the libary when i ran in because i forgot my stuff in the libary!so after that i kept seeing him around school. today however in the libary i kept catchign him looking at me!!! all i did was smile do u think he likes me back!?!?!? plz help i have to see him at school tomorrow!!!

Kelse

2007-01-09 10:30:53 · 9 answers · asked by Kelse 2

What do you think that he is saying to you and how would you react to this. Because when he told me i got mad and he didnt understand why i was upset....

2007-01-09 10:30:49 · 24 answers · asked by unidentified scared gurl 1

i have a boyfriend...but i'm always afraid to wear a short skirt....because my legs have no muscle...do you guys find that something that would turn you off? or are legs that are skinney something you would still go for? lol i know it's a dumb sounding question but it's important to me....so please let me know what you think!

2007-01-09 10:29:58 · 26 answers · asked by musclemanlover 2

I just recently met this guy online and he is unlike anyone I've ever met. I really really like him and want to meet him and be with him. He is soooo sweet and cute and such a gentelman. Am I crazy for feeling this way?

2007-01-09 10:28:16 · 16 answers · asked by Confuzed 1

ok,
so my friends ex boyfriend
cheated on her while he was drinking.
she's really upset & is so in love w/ this boy.
we've all been tellin her to stay away from him but she tells me she just can't.
he's broken her heart & i feel so bad for her.
she's so mad & sad but doesn;t know how to deal w/ it.
she's definitely not ready to let this one go.
but he say's he's done w/ relationships.
& that they will never date again.

what should i tell my friend?!

please helppp.
i've tried everthing i could...

2007-01-09 10:25:25 · 11 answers · asked by KeL-seY babiee 1

2007-01-09 10:24:25 · 9 answers · asked by BULL 3

2007-01-09 10:24:23 · 17 answers · asked by wkeanrdiyna 2

Do they get on your nerves? I tend to look through my boyfriends phone that sounds very like i dont trust him but its not that i always ask why i am just a nosey person and cant help it ..... help me!!! What can I do?

2007-01-09 10:23:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has anyone got any tips?

2007-01-09 10:23:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

is this a reason for me to be a little bit contolling over her

2007-01-09 10:23:22 · 7 answers · asked by cdawg892007 2

Me and my boyfriend are together for two years now but I don't think he's satisfied with me. For starters, I really love him and would sacrifice almost anything for this guy. He however, doesn't Love me. I know this b/c he told me so himself. He says he likes me though. We don't spend much time together and now he doesn't make it his duty to call me everyday. I guess it's not important to him. I am hurting so much b/c I really love him. I'm always affraid to say what's on my mind to him because he would snap at any least thing. If I don't like certain things that he does, he wouldn't care. He simply says, "don't tell me what to do","stop acting like you own me",etc. Sometimes when i'm angry at him he says,"if you don't like it then find someone else". Those words hurt me alot. I know I can't make someone love me but what can I do if i'm in love with that person. I guess Love really hurts, it really, really hurts. Right now he's the only one I can think about. I don't wanna lose him.

2007-01-09 10:19:50 · 10 answers · asked by Mizz_Innocent 1