Me and my boyfriend are together for two years now but I don't think he's satisfied with me. For starters, I really love him and would sacrifice almost anything for this guy. He however, doesn't Love me. I know this b/c he told me so himself. He says he likes me though. We don't spend much time together and now he doesn't make it his duty to call me everyday. I guess it's not important to him. I am hurting so much b/c I really love him. I'm always affraid to say what's on my mind to him because he would snap at any least thing. If I don't like certain things that he does, he wouldn't care. He simply says, "don't tell me what to do","stop acting like you own me",etc. Sometimes when i'm angry at him he says,"if you don't like it then find someone else". Those words hurt me alot. I know I can't make someone love me but what can I do if i'm in love with that person. I guess Love really hurts, it really, really hurts. Right now he's the only one I can think about. I don't wanna lose him.
2007-01-09 10:19:50 · 10 answers · asked by Mizz_Innocent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For a relationship love and communication is very important. Maybe he doesn't love anymore. You need to be strong and go on with your life. It's going to hurt but it will hurt more staying around.
2007-01-09 10:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship Without Love
2016-11-01 23:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is talk to your boyfriend. Sit him down and talk to him about what's going on in y'all relationship and how you feel the relationship is going. Then if you can't make it then from there talk to your mother. She may have some good advice, and if that don't work out just leave him where he's at. Let him go, don't hold on to him, cuz love has got to be in that relationship. it has to be, love is real, and you have to truly have it in your heart; the both of you. I know it may hurt but it's something that's best for you. Always remember do what's best for you! Don't be hurting. Get down to the nitty gritty. On the real though, Do what's best for you and be blessed upon God.
2007-01-09 10:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship cannot go on without love. If it's only one person doing all the loving, it's not fair to them. I think he's just using you because he sees that you really love him a lot, and you're willing to do anything for him, so you'll never leave him.
2007-01-09 10:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for this young man to have a fastball thrown to him girlfriend!!!!!!!!! Tell him if he can't give you what you want then, you have no other chose but to leave.... or better yet, try not calling him for a while or not talking to him, if you see him out.. let him wonder why... and if he doesn't come around, then my friend than there is your answer... this guy isn't worth your tears or your heart, you will find someone one day that will give you what you deserve and more than you can ever imagine and you will forget all about this guy trust me...
2007-01-09 12:02:16 · answer #5 · answered by lillie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont want to loose him because your afraid if you eave him you wont find any one else and thats not true reality is he is not your soal mate and yes i can see you love him but your relationship is not a relationship it probbably would be more of a friendship than anything else,if he cant respect you and your feelings and doesnt love you the same way you do him then it is time to not waste another day with him and move on it wont be long untill your true love will find you and give you more happiness and lkove that you can think of ever
2007-01-09 10:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless someone loves you they are not going to be there in the long run...they have a mental image of you that you are perfect in certain ways because of your good qualities...the moment they see a flaw they expand that flaw and use it to their advantage...i've noticed that people that really care about me believe me and i don't have to justify anything....the people that just want to be fake with me will call me up and try to start some kind of fiasco because we had a mutual friend. what i would say is that maybe his liking you will grow into a loving relationship and its better that he is honest with you now...atleast he is not lying to you and saying it back. just be patient and let him do what he chooses...maybe the source of his anger comes from something else and he is using you as a punching bag...because often people that know others care about them will do this knowing they will understand....eventually...like a no loss deal....i've been the punching bag alot before too...but eventually you will be sooo hurt...he sounds like a jerk but who knows? i would say that even if you meet someone now they aren't going to love you...it takes time to build that...and i mean really if you want to be serious....come on people are sooo busy and think of themselves all the time....its hard to love another and devote all that energy for them...so if he leaves you, find someone that will do just that...life is sooo freakin hard...i hope i helped...good luck
2007-01-09 10:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by kowalley 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't stay in a one sided relationship where you love him but he doesn't love you. You seem sweet and I am sure you deserve more.
2007-01-09 10:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by Slikemema 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hear ya i was kinda in that same spot i think he should be lucky someone loves him as much as you do people like you are hard to find...and he should think more about that...it really really does hurt if he is acting like this why is he with you maybe he really does love you and is just afraid of growing up thats what happened to my ex
2007-01-09 10:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-06 23:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋