I lost my viginity to my recent bf after the day we met and became a couple. It's been a day or two since I've seen him. I don't know if I regret losing my virginity or not. Deep down I think I feel bad. I enjoyed it but I can't help but to wonder. Is it normal to think I might have made a mistake?
2007-01-09 10:33:33 · 8 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is totally normal to feel a sense of regret.
2007-01-09 10:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by shasta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings of loss and slight regret are normal... after all, you did say goodbye to something that was a part of your life. But it doesn't necessarily mean that what you did was bad or the wrong choice... perhaps it was just an inevitable step that you had to take at some point in your life.
Only you can decide if this choice was right for you at this point in your life or not.
Your post sounds like you met your boyfriend, became a couple, and had sex all in the same day... you might want to clarify that a bit.
2007-01-09 10:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you are regretting it because you just met this guy and you already gave in to losing your virginity. It sounds like maybe he pressured you into it if you guys moved that quickly. In my opinion you are probably questioning your own judgment and that is perfectly normal any time someone loses their virginity especially when it is to someone they haven't had a long, committed relationship with...
I think people put too much pressure on others to preserve their virginity to the "right" person and you go into it with certain expectations. If expectations fall short of what you thought things would be like both during the experience and after you are left with a let down feeling and regret...
2007-01-09 10:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh its ok, the in consumer-friendly words thanks to benefit some thing is the not hassle-free way. you may forgive your self although because i'm particular you received't make this mistakes lower back! And dont project about no longer being 'organic' or inspite of, virginity is only a theory. Having sex is basically yet another journey that all of us would have finally besides.
2016-12-28 13:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl...TOTALLY NORMAL. In fact, you'll just about regret sleeping with anyone you end up sleeping with in the future. I sometimes wish we'd get do overs - especially where sex or relationships are concerned.
2007-01-09 10:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by Lilith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. perfectly normal. Just my humble opinion.
2007-01-09 10:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal. different thoughts may arise after you talk about it with him
2007-01-09 10:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by fcbarcafan19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitly
2007-01-09 10:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by rabdcow72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋