Singles & Dating - 20 December 2006

and im scared of what he might do or take it... he doesnt believe in sex before marriage.. but, i already live with my girlfriend... and she is 4 months pregnant.. and i love my dad but im just scared .. what should i do????

2006-12-20 11:45:19 · 10 answers · asked by ct_runs_it 2

My boyfriend is 21 and he has spent the last month staying up late at night with me while I do homework. Now that school is done, what can I do for him to show my appreciation?

2006-12-20 11:44:02 · 5 answers · asked by butterfly98880 1

He is all mad at me but I still want to get him a present. Help me.

2006-12-20 11:43:21 · 17 answers · asked by DUDE 1

Why do people think that; because a person hasn't done it yet, they are instantly marked as inferior?

I ask this because my bf and I are both virgins and we're planning to lose it on our wedding night (which we think it should be just as special as the wedding itself.)

We want to tell each other on that special night, without words and in the purest way, that we belong to each other, always belonged to each other and to no one else and that we basically love each other to death.

However, lately my boy has been quite depressed and has started to do things out of the ordinary. I asked him what was up, and he told me that everyone he knows has already had sex and he'd been getting messages from all over the place telling him that being a virgin makes him less of a man.

I want to know is; What is wrong with being a virgin? why are we mocked?

I want serious answers, and if anyone tries to advertise a dating site in their answer or something, I have them reported! Thanks.

2006-12-20 11:42:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been seeing this girl. Ive only known her about a week but weve been out a few times and have slept together. im thinking i probably should get her something, maybe scarf & gloves? ?

im no good with this sort of thing.....come on ladies, what would advise I do?
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2006-12-20 11:42:15 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its almost like they want to be lead away or swept off of their feet.

2006-12-20 11:41:58 · 4 answers · asked by somber_pieces 6

Old Country Buffet!

2006-12-20 11:41:12 · 7 answers · asked by Craig C 2

all of them is going to be same person just progressing......any suggestions?

2006-12-20 11:40:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

should i cuddle next to him during the movie? ADVICE NEEDED

2006-12-20 11:39:23 · 14 answers · asked by ABC2 3

I love this guy with all my heart, and he loves me too...As a sister. The problem is that we do things and are closer than what sisters and brothers do. We cuddle, we hug, and we have almost had sex (Which I'm not too proud of..) and we talk and see each other every day. We do everything couples do, except we aren't dating...And he constantly tells me that he is in love with this other girl who he doesn't know. He has never had a conversation with her in his 2 years of infatuation...And he won't consider dating me, yet wants to do all this. I'm wondering...If there's anything I can do to show him exactly how much I love him, and if there's any chance of me wooing him over the prettier girl. They are nothing alike, and we are practically attatched at the hip. Please, tell me if I'm right in waiting 2 years and counting, or if it's just a lost cause. I really feel this is right, everything in me tells me he is it and I'm willing to fight for him, I'm just not sure if it's worth it.

2006-12-20 11:39:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

we do everything together. She sees me as a person and not somebody else because of my disability.the other night I was over at condo or apartment when we went into her room she helped me on her bed. She tookmy braces offof my feetand told me she would be back. When she got back she was in her underwear or bikini underwear and wearing a shirt you know ladies where sometimes you where your underwear and a shirt and nothingmore. At this point I was getting nervous I didn't know what to do then she asked if she could take off my shirt and my pants I didn't know what to do so I said OK we had a nice night together. My question is to you should I do anything or say something because you got to remember I was nervous so I didn't know what to do

2006-12-20 11:39:02 · 10 answers · asked by jasonbaureis 1

2006-12-20 11:37:35 · 14 answers · asked by im spoiled 1

Well im in college i met this guy at my school that i really like. We talked online a couple of times and we have a lot in common. I took one class with him, and he doesn't really talk to me anymore. I say hi to him, but thats all that happens.

I dont really see him around so I sometimes say hello to him online but I dont do it often cuz I dont want to seem like a pest.

I really want to get to know him better, like hanging out or going to the movies but I dont know how to get to the level yet. I think it would be really akward if I asked online, and I wont see him at school until school starts back.

Is he interested? We have a lot in common, and we've talked online about friends stuff and not relationship stuff. I think he's just a little shy, and I am too. What should I do to really see if he likes me without embarrising myself?

2006-12-20 11:37:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

me i love the way he makes me feel and honestly i have told him that i love him im not in love with him but i have a little love for him so i dont know what to do can you help me? i just dont know when hes not with me im missing him and when hes here hes all i want i just dont understand this guy must really like me alot to deal with what he has had 2 with me this soon in our relationship i messed up a little an hes still around for example we were in bed and i called someone elses name out not a smart thing so yeah this guy must really like me he makes me smile he makes my heart smile and i think thats cool but anyways just let me know your thoughts

2006-12-20 11:36:35 · 13 answers · asked by christina y 1

Sometimes, people seems to do that, even if they know that someone is in another relationship , they are trying to flirt anyway to see if the person will leave their partner for them ...is it the way it has to be when you are single ? isn't the woman to determine if she will let you flirt with her or not ? what do you think ?

2006-12-20 11:36:03 · 9 answers · asked by bobby s 1

My younger sister just turned 21 and I just realized how beautiful she is. I do not want to have babies with her and would use protection. As long as we don't have children, what is the harm?

2006-12-20 11:35:52 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well my friend likes this guy and she rote a letter to him saying that she did. /today was the last day of school & she wanted to think about it/ so i handed it to him durring lunch break w/ a candy cane he was like 'thanks'. then i saw him read it from a distance. and now hes acting weird around her so i dont want him to be like 'eww" and my friend get sad... so my question is will he be like 'eww' or think about asking her out (she is preety looking & a good person)? please be honest...

2006-12-20 11:35:48 · 7 answers · asked by ballet_tigger 3

would you take advantage of him?
It's not like he is always drunk, but this time he pushed the limits and lost it...would you?

2006-12-20 11:35:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

With words and touching if possible. I want to flirt with this one girl that would make her like me.

2006-12-20 11:35:42 · 4 answers · asked by Chris J 1

she has heared that i like her and she flirts with and as far as i know only me. is it real

2006-12-20 11:35:10 · 2 answers · asked by BillyBob Joe boy 2

if you have friend with benefits.. but you guys are hecka kool.. like unbelieveably kool.
Been messin for almost a year and the "should we be more than friends" question has never came up... BUT he has been asking about my other guy friends. we see eachother everyday sometimes twice a day. now we even talk on the phone during the day .. feels like a relationship but not stressin the fact that we are only friends..

Now that he occupies majority of my time would it be wrong to stop things now before things turn into something progressive and salvage the friendship OR... should I just kick back and let what ever happen's happen?

2006-12-20 11:34:49 · 20 answers · asked by californiabaybe 1

would you let it go, make him jealous by kissing on your girl or would you ask for a fight. just curious. same question to the girls.

2006-12-20 11:34:45 · 11 answers · asked by supasaucy 1

The guy I like finally knows that I like him. The day after he found out, I was absent in school, and he asked my friend where I was, if I was sick or something.. Is that a good sign? I don't know what to say to him at school, we have a few classes together. What should I say? There's a party at a friend's house this weekend, and my friend asked HIS bestfriend if he could go, but he said he already had something planned, it's not the guy I like who said it though. Anyway, help??

2006-12-20 11:33:09 · 6 answers · asked by Staticx 6

there's this girl, and once before i tryed to date her and she dumped me, a few months later of trying to get her back she finally says yes but the ONLY way that i can be hers, she says is if i am gay!!! i'm not racist agenst gay ppl. but i wanna be ALL FOR HER! and nobody else. she is the only one for me and this is probably the ONLY chance i will ever get to have her with me... i don't kno wat to do though, risk my sexuality to be with her or stay straight and never find anyone like her ever again. i don't kno if it will be permanent with her (dart and marry her [eventually]), if i go gay... there's no goin' back.. wat should i do?

2006-12-20 11:32:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

well theres this gurl i like nd i told her i liked her already but that was last year. wen everyone asked about her i said that i had gotten over her.idk if i really have though. i still like her nd in a way i think she likes me nd wen i talk to her we always flirt but theres this other guy nd she says that she likes him but it doesnt seem that way. the guy is 2 young nd i think she's trying to make me jealous cuz i flirt wit other gurls too. wat should i do??

2006-12-20 11:32:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-20 11:31:30 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf told me that as promised i should go see him today........i said no cause my dad was like drunk and was being so weird yelling around the house and what not he forced me into the car and said we have to go pick mom up... i thouhg the was drivable witha bad feeling we left ..............AND got into an accident MY new 2007 car is ruined ............ when i told my bf that i got into an accident he hung up on me saying that i am lying and turned the ringer off and turned the cell phone off................... last call itold him that he should not fight with me and try to be there for me ..he listened and HUNG UP...............
Does he not care about me at all...

2006-12-20 11:30:45 · 6 answers · asked by Michelle 1

My boyfriend is ALWAYS accusing me of looking at other guys and liking other guys...and things like that...I'm not allowed to talk to them for ANY REASON at all. And if one tries to talk to me I have to be mean to him. =( Today in 4th period he out of nowhere says "what were you looking at??" This is a question he asks ALL THE TIME. But I KNOW I wasn't looking at any guys! I never do!! He always thinks I am and I honestly have no idea where he is getting it. But he got so pissed at me and would not talk to me for the rest of the period and he still won't. Why does he do this? What can I do about it?? I'm so confused! I've tried telling him over and over I don't have a clue what he's talking about but he doesn't believe me =( Please help!

2006-12-20 11:30:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

See,I am so confused!!I llike him and I know he likes me and my friend because he told us.I think she likes him too but I'm not sure.
I am very nervous because I feel really weird around him.He can
be annoying and bother me and he flirts with me.I just can't tell if my best likes him or not.I don't wanna blow my cover.HELP!!!

2006-12-20 11:30:35 · 3 answers · asked by Summer Girl 1

I just asked a similar question, but I don't think I was clear...I've been dating this guy for a little over a month, and I've never been more confused about a guy. He used to call all the time and everything was good until he went away for the weekend. He is home now, and since he's gotten back, he hasn't called. He's been texting me saying how he's sorry, he knows he's not treating me right, but he has a lot going on, etc. I haven't gotten mad at him or said anything about not calling, though. Should I call him or just give him time to sort his own stuff out - - whatever that is. If he was trying to end things, why is he still texting???

2006-12-20 11:30:08 · 3 answers · asked by juliana f 1