there's this girl, and once before i tryed to date her and she dumped me, a few months later of trying to get her back she finally says yes but the ONLY way that i can be hers, she says is if i am gay!!! i'm not racist agenst gay ppl. but i wanna be ALL FOR HER! and nobody else. she is the only one for me and this is probably the ONLY chance i will ever get to have her with me... i don't kno wat to do though, risk my sexuality to be with her or stay straight and never find anyone like her ever again. i don't kno if it will be permanent with her (dart and marry her [eventually]), if i go gay... there's no goin' back.. wat should i do?
2006-12-20 11:32:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you aren't gay, you aren't gay.If you were really gay, you would not be interested in her. If you are bi-curious, say so and be so, but don't tell me about it, lol! . If she isn't happy with you the way you honestly are, she will never love you for who you really are. And who wants that?? You can't pretend to be gay and maintain that for a lifetime... She needs to accept you for who you are, and if she can't then move on. It is either meant to be, or not.
Can't force what won't fit!- dd
2006-12-20 11:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by dedum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a b*tch no offense. If she is going to make you change who you are just so you can be with her than I highly doubt she is the one for you. Tell her no and find some one else who will be with you the way you. You should never have to change who you are especially like that just to be with some one.
2006-12-20 11:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by Casandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not really gay, don't do it because all everyone is going to do is make fun of you and you don't want that. No one is worth doing all that because this is what is going to happen, she is going to tell everyone that you said that and not even date you, she just wants to humiliate you(unless you really are gay). All she is doing is acting 12
2006-12-20 11:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by me_myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the*&^%$^& this is the most ridiculous think i have heard. Why on earth would she want you to be gay, can you please explain this?? also if she wants you to be gay, how can you be with her?, because being gay means being with males and she is female. I think you need to see a psychiatrist, you have serious mental problems.
2006-12-20 11:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does this girl want a gay bf? thats just ****** up, find yourself a sane girl who wants you for the way you really are!
2006-12-20 11:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahahahahahahahahaha you've got urself in a pickle. no offense but if u were a man u wouldn't do n-ething against ur will. BE A MAN!
2006-12-20 11:35:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's weird to give you such a condition. Why not try to fall asleep and just dream about your dream girl (lol)?
2006-12-20 11:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by allanbabes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not need her if she wants you to do something like that
get out now
you will find someone who values you the way you are
not try to change you
and certainly not to change you sexual preference for her
2006-12-20 11:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um r u serious? dude u can't just choose to be gay! its kinda just the way you are. and anywyas...whats the point of having her if you're "gay" move on dude....
2006-12-20 11:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORget that girl i hate her already!! (no offense to you)....stay straight there iz a girl out there 4 u......
2006-12-20 11:36:58 · answer #10 · answered by Sk8erlvrprep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋