and im scared of what he might do or take it... he doesnt believe in sex before marriage.. but, i already live with my girlfriend... and she is 4 months pregnant.. and i love my dad but im just scared .. what should i do????
2006-12-20 11:45:19 · 10 answers · asked by ct_runs_it 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm . . . how long have you been going out with this girl? If it's like two years or more, I think you can safely consider marriage. But be SURE that she's a good woman first. Even if you have to hold off on the marriage for now to find out, that's perfectly OK. You don't want to make a bad problem worse by marrying the wrong woman. Don't let your dad pressure you into marriage either.
To tell him, just break it to him straight. He probably won't take it well, but he'll have to take it no matter what. Don't worry, he will recover eventually. Good luck!
2006-12-20 11:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad should know that is it not up to him to judge people or thier actions. Also, Christians are supposed to be loving and compasionate and help others in need... forgiving is a big one too! You have to tell him, don't keep his future grandchild away from him in secret. If he doesn't understand and accept that things are different now then he needs to spend a little bit more time in church and his nose in the Bible!
God doesn't approve of hypocrites. Especially in one of his children.
2006-12-20 19:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by nappyhappiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down and have a conversation with your father and before you do have a chat with your lady about marrige the babys christing and how you are gonna raise the child ,whaen you have some answers that are very good and have a family standing to them then talk to your father and let him know your decissions
2006-12-20 19:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by slp9209 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are in luck because a study just came out saying 95% of Americans have had premarital sex. So, kid, ya ain't the only one.
2006-12-20 19:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off u should have told him in the first place cause the longer u keep a secret the more trouble u get. The only thing left to do is tell him or else u'll get in trouble more than u can imagine!
2006-12-20 19:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honeslty is the best policy.
If he is really a christian then he will forgive you. and if he knows you love your gf then he will understand. he was young once right?
Good luck and i hope things work out between you guys<3
2006-12-20 19:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by FairChild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gonna have to be a man and tell him cause im sure hes gonna know sooner or later. its your life, not your dads and you can do whatever the **** you want, i understand hes important to you but your his son and he should love you no matter what.
2006-12-20 19:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be honest with him about it..the only way to go..he will know sooner or later anyway and better he hears it from you than someone else right?
you might be surprised how grandchildren can soften hearts of unhappy parents
2006-12-20 19:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you sissy. He may be dissapointed but at least he knows.Sex before marriage you should be ashamed!
2006-12-20 20:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by don b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK WITH YOUR DAD. AT THE BASE OF CHRISTIANITY IS LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING. IF HE IS A TRUE CHRISTIAN, HE WILL SUPPORT YOU NO MATTER WHAT
2006-12-20 19:48:49 · answer #10 · answered by tatersma1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋