we do everything together. She sees me as a person and not somebody else because of my disability.the other night I was over at condo or apartment when we went into her room she helped me on her bed. She tookmy braces offof my feetand told me she would be back. When she got back she was in her underwear or bikini underwear and wearing a shirt you know ladies where sometimes you where your underwear and a shirt and nothingmore. At this point I was getting nervous I didn't know what to do then she asked if she could take off my shirt and my pants I didn't know what to do so I said OK we had a nice night together. My question is to you should I do anything or say something because you got to remember I was nervous so I didn't know what to do
2006-12-20 11:39:02 · 10 answers · asked by jasonbaureis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to talk to your gf about your worries, she sounds like a really great girl so she should understand that you were nervous.
2006-12-20 11:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by Onie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with pokie. Talk to her and explain that you were nervous. I really don't think it'll be a big deal. It's more important that the two of you connected on a deeper level. Performance can be enhanced through time, but if there's no "emotional connection" there to begin with then you've lost from the start.
As long as you both enjoyed yourselves and the act of being together then you're well on your way. Just think of how much fun all the practice will be. ;)
2006-12-20 19:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by Digital Haruspex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all please allow me to say that your girlfriend sounds amazing & your blessed to have met a wonderful person as I am sure you already know.
As for your night.. Don't worry about it dear I am sure that she already felt how nervous you were at the time. And by now she probadly know you pretty well. Knowing what to do? You to love birds had a nice night together sweetie so stop worrying and close yours eyes and relive that moment in your mind!
Relax and just go with the flow of things when they happen... Stop your worrying ok.
Good luck to you & your girlfriend I hope that you both have a wonderful holiday season and all the love & happiness your hearts and hands can hold!!
Cheers to the both of you!!
2006-12-20 19:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there, my friend. I am disabled as well.
I wouldn't worry about it. Your girlfriend clearly does not care that you are disabled, which is great. I think as long as she knows you're willing to accommodate her the same way she accommodates you, then you'll be all good.
So basically if you can somehow make here aware of that, then I'm sure she'll appreciate that too. It can be as simple as saying, "Let me know what I can do...' kinda thing...
Good luck.
2006-12-26 05:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by funkymuzic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had to have known that you were nervous and that's why she's your g/f. If you feel like you should talk about it with her, then you should. It seems like you have somebody very special in your life and you are very lucky. Do you tell her how lucky you feel with her? You should! All women like to hear those kinds of things as much as they can. Merry Christmas!
2006-12-20 19:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by Candi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awwwwww thats sweet and rare to find a girl who would do that for a man.......so i am assuming you can get "it" up? and maybe you could explain to her that your disability may cause some hard times during sex and you cant perform like you would like to but if she is satisfied then be proud of what you got. and really if she aint complaining have fun with her and maybe you will fall in love with her if you already arent !!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-20 19:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ruthless 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOUR GIRLFRIEND SOUNDS GREAT. VERY RARELY DOES ANYONE FIND SOMEONE TO ACCEPT THEM JUST THE WAY THEY ARE. YOU ARE VERY LUCKY. IF YOU FEEL YOU NEED TO TALK WITH HER ABOUT IT THEN DO SO. HAVING THE TALK WILL ONLY MAKE THE BOND BETWEEN YOU STRONGER. SHE SOUNDS VERY UNDERSTANDING AND WILL BE HAPPY YOU CARED ENOUGH TO TALK TO HER
2006-12-20 19:46:30 · answer #7 · answered by tatersma1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing Ca's u mite have said the wrong thing and mist it up so i think you did OK
2006-12-20 19:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by keeter l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how you feel and that you appreciate her loving you for you and you hope that yall have many more enjoyful moments
2006-12-20 19:43:27 · answer #9 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats an awesome girlfriend
propose!!!!!!!!!!
let her know you were nervous
and please..propose to this amazing catch
2006-12-20 19:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋