Singles & Dating - 19 December 2006

ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .

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21 minutes ago
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone

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49 minutes ago
this is her latest message

hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!

<3 (name)

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2 days ago
i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking

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25 minutes ago
this is the latest message i just got tonight

heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! :)

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19 minutes ago
she just sent me another email saying that she wants me to come to her birthday party . .. now why would she want me to come if he is going to be there . . . it would only cause trouble and be really awkward on top of that

2006-12-19 06:26:27 · 4 answers · asked by osb2904 1

We have been going together for a year and 5 months and we love each other to death. He told me one thing he's getting me and that's an i-pod nano that means he's giving me more than one. I have no idea what to get him. Help me please!

2006-12-19 06:25:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner has had many oral sex experiences. He has never "finished" from receiving oral sex. During a recent sexual experience with him, I was "down below" and he came a little bit, just a couple drops, but didn't know anything about it. It wasn't until I brought it up a day later that he even knew he did anything. Is this normal? How could he not know, even if it was a teeny bit? I know it could be "pre", but he said since he's never been able to reach that with someone giving oral, that he would likely know if his body was reacting that way. Any opinions?

2006-12-19 06:24:08 · 14 answers · asked by chaotic_mum 4

In addition, what is a good day to call. Three day rule? On a Wed for a Friday night.

2006-12-19 06:22:37 · 13 answers · asked by Keith 4

-k- I just answered someone else question regarding unsafe sex and it got me thinking. How often should I get tested for STD's?

Even though I personally insist on practicing safe sex, I still think it's important to get tested. How often do you think I/all of us who are sexually active be tested for STD's? Is once every two months too often or is that pretty conventional?

P.S. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a raving nympho, I only have sex when I'm in a committed relationship, but I still get tested because I can never tell if/when my partner has been with someone else.

2006-12-19 06:20:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been living in Vegas for about 5 months now and find it so hard to find good guys..............any help???

2006-12-19 06:20:04 · 10 answers · asked by courtneyc2002 3

i have a really really bad problem, i know it seems really petty but its really getting me down, i go bright red over anything, and i mean anything, and not just blushing a little bit, really blushing! im a confident girl really, i always have a laugh n stuff but some things make me really go red, even things that arent embarrassing. like the other day i saw one of my old school mates and i went red, or when me and my bf go out for a meal, i go bright red wen i have to say wat i want to eat, its getting worse and worse and worse and it makes me feel **** when it happens, i just feel like buryin my head n cryin cos its so embarrassing and no1 knows why i go so red, but i wish it was just a little bit but i go so so red its a joke. and its really getting me down now....

2006-12-19 06:20:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 almost three months, and I'm wondering if it's too early to tell him I love him, or if I should wait for him to tell me first.

We talk every day on the phone, see each other twice a week, make each other laugh, we even exchanged Hanukkah presents! I also know he's not seeing anybody else (and neither am I), and we've also talked about personal stuff together like family trauma. Plus he has saved every single email from me.

Any thoughts would be appreciated. Thanks!

2006-12-19 06:19:32 · 16 answers · asked by x_filequeen 1

I am talkin about that one cartoon person that looks like me...

2006-12-19 06:18:10 · 5 answers · asked by Jen 1

im 20, n the army, and been deployed for 6 months...and come home next month....should i let my mom know so she can stop worrying, or is surprising her a better idea?

2006-12-19 06:17:07 · 35 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3

I've told a guy I knew for a really short time that I had feelings for him, just like that, straight out. I don't know why, I just knew it when I first saw him that I really like him. He first blushed then he was shocked for good 2 hours and he couldn't believe that i would ever like him. Later he said he had no feelings like that for me. Could it be that he was protecting himself? Because he's kind of nerd like and he said he usually protects himself from having feelings towards really pretty girls. I am pretty, but not empty headed, by the way, people say I am good-hearted girl.

2006-12-19 06:15:46 · 22 answers · asked by stargazer 2

nothing slutty n i dont wear skirts cos its cold lol n i dont wana shiver all night?

2006-12-19 06:14:53 · 40 answers · asked by Melle 1

Please state age, regardless if you answer yes or no

2006-12-19 06:13:46 · 21 answers · asked by Michelino 4

Ok well me and my ex went out for almost a year, and one day she broke up with me, saying she didn't like me, and we should be friends. Well I loved her to death, and it was really hard to take. She went out with about 4 guys, and it seems that she was trying to find what we had, but couldn't all of her dates were jerks. Now I never mistreated her, and did everything I could sto show I loved her. We talk once in a while, and she seems to be really happy when she talks to me. She always refers to things that happened during our relationship as good times. I know alot of girls like me and i wonder why she wouldn't want to date me again, and well the guys she goes out with aren't that great looking/are jerks. So basically, there is a small chance that she still has feelings for me. I'm not sure if I should tell her how I feel, the embarassment factor always gets to me. It's been about 6 months, and It's only gotten worse, I still love her just as much as the day she broke up with me.

2006-12-19 06:13:44 · 6 answers · asked by Brad 1

Well where can I start I was with my ex boyfriend for almost two years. We broke up and he went overseas due him being in the military and I live here in the states. We have remained friends best friends since our break up witch was over a year ago. But thru out that year of us talking..We have still been sexual with each other..tell each other we love one another talked about our future togehter our kids..he supports me with everything that I do.we talk on the phone every single day... only thing is I asked him if we were getting back together he says he dont wanna talk about it until he see's me face to face..then the other day we were on the phone he thought i had fallen asleep on him, and he said to me baby i love you so much im going to marry you I promise. but im still confused because we are not offically boyfriend and girlfriend right now and he said he does not want to talk about it right now..can any one help me do you think he is playing games with me?

2006-12-19 06:13:00 · 7 answers · asked by Life It Is What It Is 1

Okay are they trashy or sexy?

2006-12-19 06:12:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

what should i do

2006-12-19 06:11:51 · 15 answers · asked by theguythatslookslikeamonkey 1

My boyfriend of 4 months said that he refuses to celebrate pegan holidays so he's not spending all his money on people (including me) on christmas gifts and then he'll have to go into the new years broke!

Then he went on to say that he will not be celebrating Valentines day either, just to give me a heads up so I'm not dissapointed when Febuary rolls around.

I was very angry and i want to talk to him about it but I don't even know what to say to him!!!!

2006-12-19 06:11:49 · 22 answers · asked by jasmin f 1

2006-12-19 06:10:31 · 8 answers · asked by joi r 1

When girls tell me I have such an awesome @ss, I always take it as a compliment...but if I see a girl and tell her she has a sweet @ss, i find myself in sensitivity training again and again. Is this another double standard? And its funny b/c women supposidly love compliments, yet sensitivity training class is full of us guys who complement women...weird huh??

2006-12-19 06:10:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend was going out with this guy for 3 years, they were ready to get married ,when by word of a friend who saw this, that her love is seen another man! She had him folowed and found him with a man dressed like a woman , she confronted him and it was very sad! There is no reason for this , if a man likes his own ,he should not cross over, a woman does not deal with this , is unacceptable and very damaging. What says you?

2006-12-19 06:10:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What's up with my live in boyfriend of 6 months still checking out other girls when he's out alone or with me? We're in our thirties and he says that it's just because he's a man and not dead, but I know I'm not as pretty as the girls he's checking out - although I'm a very attractive woman. He's still adding girls to his myspace page too... but he never hooks up with them. He also thinks it's ok to flirt with someone or lead them to believe he's available if he thinks they can help him get a job. Should I be worried?

2006-12-19 06:10:11 · 22 answers · asked by kat 1

And please don’t tell me you will just know give me details. Because I have had enough of being single. And it hurts every time when I think I have found the one but she does not feel the same way about me. Or the other way around where she feels something for me but I don’t feel nothing for her. Every time that happens it breaks my heart to know that I came that close to love but didn’t happen. I mean why is it taking me longer to find someone where we both feel the same for each other? And also how come younger people than me find love just like that when it should have been my turn. It just makes me angry that everyone is happy with someone and I am left on my own.

2006-12-19 06:09:41 · 26 answers · asked by Hades 1

My boyfriend won't stop calling me and i'm afraid to breakup w/ him bcause I know he will hurt my brother at daycare. I don't want to put him in danger. What should I do? Hury please

2006-12-19 06:09:37 · 8 answers · asked by ☼sunshine☼ 2

what happen if u r flirting with a guy and his bff, but the guys bffs just for fun while the guy is actually ure secret crush, and u tell him that u were talking with his bff, and he says, "i dont mind ure talking with him, but if he tries something ill straghten him out. ", does than mean that he has feelings for me beyond friendship???

2006-12-19 06:08:45 · 12 answers · asked by brit_avyltth 3

I was intrigued by an earlier post about the number of female respondents saying they prefer a strong man who is physically built and confident because:
1.) Muscles on men are sexy
2.) They prefer a man who can protect a woman

I want to focus on the physical aspect of strong men. They are well defined and buff. I'm wondering what kind of physically built men appeals to most women? Lean like swimmers and soccer players? Muscle lean and a little buff like the men on Men's Fitness? Or buff and a little chubby like football players and wrestlers?

Well?

2006-12-19 06:08:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

what about making a brand thats called kang swang dangalang

2006-12-19 06:08:30 · 9 answers · asked by jade c 1

2006-12-19 06:08:00 · 4 answers · asked by Buddie 1

2006-12-19 06:07:59 · 15 answers · asked by Julieanne N 1

i have been off and on wuth guys and dont kno how 2 deside whitch one is right what would u say to help me

2006-12-19 06:07:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous