Singles & Dating - 19 December 2006

I have an issue with my boyfriend that he gets sex when he wants it, but when I start trying to have sex with him...he changes what we are doing. He will do anything to stop it.This has been a problem since the begining of our relationship,but I dont know how to handle it.I did of course speak to him about how that made me feel.I told him that I thought our relationship should be equal and that I have sexual needs that he is treating like they dont matter.He usually responds to me,"sex isnt the most important thing in our relationship,right?"Then what do i say?When we do have sex, the sex is great!I hate to say it, but every time he has ever tried,I have never been able to say no.I just love him,and long for that connection we do have during sex.I dont want to be one of those sad girls that will just take what she can get when she can get it,but sadly I really have been.I want to feel like a sexy woman that can turn her man on!This has broken my selfesteem a lot! What should I do?

2006-12-19 06:51:04 · 33 answers · asked by LadyAlysse 1

The guy who u've really fell 4 only wants u as something casual????

2006-12-19 06:50:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

She even wants to have a baby with me. She says am too inteligent that she wants a baby from me who will have the same carater like me that evev if am dead and gone the child can console her and have careing as i do to her . What do you say?

2006-12-19 06:48:44 · 12 answers · asked by PAA OYOYOMI 2

I have realized that my boyfriend and I are going in differant directions in our lifes. I want certain things and he wants other things and we are no longer wanting the same things. Is it terrible to break up with him before christmas? Should I wait?

2006-12-19 06:48:29 · 30 answers · asked by SWEETCAITY 1

do you believe everyone is entitled to a second chance? do you forgive and forget?

2006-12-19 06:47:16 · 17 answers · asked by Fabe 6

2006-12-19 06:47:06 · 7 answers · asked by darkbunny15 2

2006-12-19 06:44:19 · 9 answers · asked by darkbunny15 2

2006-12-19 06:43:47 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .

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21 minutes ago
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone

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49 minutes ago
this is her latest message

hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!

<3 (name)

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2 days ago
i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking

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25 minutes ago
this is the latest message i just got tonight

heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! :)

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19 minutes ago
she just sent me another email saying that she wants me to come to her birthday party . .. now why would she want me to come if he is going to be there . . . it would only cause trouble and be really awkward on top of that

2006-12-19 06:43:39 · 12 answers · asked by osb2904 1

So my brother treats his girlfriend like crap some time and we want to know why are guys sssssssssssooooooooooooo stupid?!
And why do they treat their girlfriends like crap.

2006-12-19 06:42:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Christmas is my favorite holiday because i get presents and get to spend time with my family and friends.

2006-12-19 06:39:44 · 18 answers · asked by toofacepeople 1

Would ya?

2006-12-19 06:39:08 · 65 answers · asked by Jessie006 1

i'm a woman and i want to buy a 'toy' how do i go about it are there restrictions like do they ask for id?

2006-12-19 06:38:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

( yes or no ) why

2006-12-19 06:38:07 · 3 answers · asked by smiley star 1

so we broke up like 3 months ago like a 3 year relationship, im still not completely over her yet.....should i get another gf or should i just wait. we tried the whole friend thing but everytime we talk she just says we need time..and space er whatever its really pointless to me now..but i still kinda care about her and if she says she wants to be friends in the future, but its dumb to me now, if i get another gf i dont think she would care but is it good for me? and should i still try to be friends with her in the future or should i just do what she does to me and ignore her?

2006-12-19 06:36:13 · 14 answers · asked by ChalkBoard 1

my girlfriend have a friend that made moves on her but there where no sex in it but still she thougth it was ok after all of that so she kept talking to him on the phone i had to ask her to stop was i wrong for that

2006-12-19 06:35:53 · 17 answers · asked by TOEE 1

I like to flirt but i dont mean nothing by it...its jus fun

2006-12-19 06:35:36 · 23 answers · asked by lovher 2

Are you a believer the phrase:

"Once a cheater, always a cheater"?

2006-12-19 06:34:40 · 35 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4

my cousin is going out with this pakistani man and he seems really cool. she is convinced that pakistani men are the most attractive. do girls generally think that they are (UK)?

2006-12-19 06:33:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

After bein deployed for 6 months...will things be the same? will i be the same?...i mean in these past 6 months ive done and seen alotta f"d up things....will this affect how i am with my family and friends?and is the pic better than my avatar? haha...i dont know how its gonna be, im kinda nervous about coming home.....

2006-12-19 06:31:29 · 26 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3

2006-12-19 06:31:19 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just trying to get an idea if alot of people actually date other people on myspace. And if so, what kind of luck have you had?

2006-12-19 06:31:14 · 11 answers · asked by godsmacksun23 3

2006-12-19 06:31:08 · 2 answers · asked by Richard S 1

2006-12-19 06:30:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

About a month ago i broke up with my boyfriend because i was tired of hearing all the rumors about him cheating on me. we stopped talking for about three weeks and then we began again. I want to get back with him and he claims that he wants to get with me but he's scared i'm going to hurt him again. we talk all the time and it even seems like we go out. Last night he called me (like he usually does) and told me he wants to get back together in valentines day. I want to know why he wants to wait so long and should i wait for him.
he's unlike anyone i've ever met and i really want to be with him
please help me!!!
by the way we're freshmen in high school

2006-12-19 06:29:20 · 9 answers · asked by lolabunny 3

I want them to not charge me money but they keep wanting that every date.

2006-12-19 06:29:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been together for a year and 5 months. I've met his mother many of times and she has even taken me and my boyfriend out to eat on His and My Birthday. Please help me??

2006-12-19 06:29:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-19 06:27:46 · 16 answers · asked by tamfries_08 1

ok so im 17 and my boyfriend is 20. he says that he hates to always drop things and have to be with me. i called him for lunch today and he said that he was going with his friend and so i didn't want him to drop this to go with me. and so i just ssaid ok i was just seeing if you had plans but thats ok i will see youwhen we get off work. and got mad and hung up and then called back and said he was going with me. and then i got upset b/c he dropped this with his friend. and he said he did it because he didn't want me to get mad. which i wouldn't and he said i was going crazy to along with his mom. he always says his mom is going crazy. and now hes saying it to me to. i don't know what to do i don't want to lose him but it feels like i am. please help and tell me what i need to do to straightn things out with him. im so upset. and he doesn't understand that i am a sensitive girl, b.c everytime something happens i go and cry but i can't help it its my nature. im in need of some good help

2006-12-19 06:27:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I broke up a few months ago with my girlfriend, we have only talked a few times since then. We had a conversation and I told her that I was seeing some else, two days later I go to my myspace page and theres 3 pics of her and her new boyfriend. She rarely ever uses myspace but she knows Im on it all the time. Is she trying to make me jealous? Because if she is it working.

2006-12-19 06:26:34 · 19 answers · asked by buckeyes1125 1