i have been cheated on.
2006-12-19 06:45:06
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answer #1
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answered by sinned 7
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No I having been cheated on and I never cheated, what's the point in cheating if you both feel a need to cheat than why not be a man or a women and tell your boyfriend or girlfriend I don't want to be in this relationship anymore why cheat that's dumb.
2006-12-19 06:52:54
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answer #2
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answered by Miss C 2
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Been the person to be cheated on and also a person who has cheated on someone. To be honest, I think the root of it all is due to one's selfishness. They put their own need before the needs of others and immediate gratification seems more important. I mean there is a world of reasons beyond this like someone getting revenge on a cheating spouse, someone just being drunk (and everyone says this is no excuse and I don't think its justified but people's inhibitions are lowered to an extent), not getting what they need physically or emotionally from the current relationship and once again seeking immediate gratification to boost their own selfesteem rather then just work on the relationship or leave, and then there are others who are just complete idiots. When push comes to shove it is the cheater thinking solely of themselves and being selfish and immature. Cheating is never justified in the extent of finding instant gratification or outside fullfillment at the expense of severely damaging others feelings and most likely causing a great amount of baggage ranging from trust issues to low self-esteem. I think in our society, with things like the media and such cheating has become more excusable and as much as I hate to say it quite frequent (unless past generations were just better at hiding it to meet the social stigmas of the time). I don't know but like I said being on both sides of this horrible and disgusting continuum, I have learned my lesson and I hope that if there are others who are doing this to someone, that they also get whats coming to them and eventually learn their lesson.
2006-12-19 06:54:55
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answer #3
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answered by serenity113001 6
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Yes been cheated on then cheated on him. Not nice for either party.
2006-12-19 06:46:56
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answered by Weiners and Beans 2
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Both, but the last time I really learned my lesson. I feel in love and messed up and the then he got back at me while I was vulnerable. Needless to say were not together still and I've moved on and have completely had a change of heart. I think it takes something drastic to change someone.
2006-12-19 06:50:37
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answered by Diana 3
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never cheated but have been cheated on in the pass
y/w
2006-12-19 06:46:14
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answered by Young and Wise 3
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I've been cheated on before and to be honest it really didn't affect me. It wasn't a serious relationship and he did what he wanted and so did I. We went on that way until I got tired of the situation, and we went our separate ways.
2006-12-19 06:51:57
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answered by Candie 2
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Yes, I have. I cheated on the most beautiful sexual girlfriend I ever had, and when she found out she never spoke to me again. I have never been completely happy since.
2006-12-19 06:46:45
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answer #8
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answered by Anonymous
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yes and was very happy worked everyday and cme home to my girl every night .then i got sick had to be hospitalize. when i came home she had some one else that she had been seeing all the time i was in the hospital. we live in the same house two more years before i got tired of it. and by that time i had lost all feelings for her i was justtheir till the lease was upand looking for a new place. i don't think anyone should try that it comes with a lot of problems.finally moved out .and found out that i had been with her so long that i didn't know how to start looking for anyone again so now i try to stay myself.
2006-12-19 06:52:26
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answer #9
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answered by Willie F 2
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I've been cheated on
2006-12-19 06:46:55
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answer #10
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answered by lunasage 6
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No i won't cheat on anyone because thats not nice and no i haven't been cheated on.
2006-12-19 06:46:10
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answered by refreshed 2
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