Singles & Dating - 7 December 2006

how do i show my gf affection

2006-12-07 10:12:48 · 7 answers · asked by yugtaph2 1

i have a potentiol relationship with a man 44 years my senior. now i am a openminded person and he is a good guy, and as openminded individuals we flirt back and forth often. he treats me respectably, and is such a fun person. but it is a big age gap...and theres alot in life i havent experienced. he has...so the question becomes, if its "just sex" even one time, is it wrong? i know the implications of the possible relationship, as he is a good friend who has been a huge help, and i dont want to spoil it, yet the attraction remains and it is with both parties..
please help..
~yulian~

2006-12-07 10:12:19 · 18 answers · asked by yulian1126 2

This girl at my school seems to show up where ever i go even when i come out of the freaking bathroom.

We had our school dance and i couldn't help but notice she was kinda staring at me the whole time.

Then one day i was going to our Home Economics classroom and she was there (big surprise) i was taking the fudge i had made that day out of the freezer and on my way out she grabbed my arm and shouted, litteraly shouted, CAN I SEE THAT...

Well...

Maybe not exactly like that but you get the point

Every and i mean every time i see her in the hallways she kinda looks away but i can see that she is looking at me

I dont know if she likes me or if she thinks im creepy but i can tell you guys one thing...

She's starting to creep me out so i dont think she thinks im creepy and if she does then she needs to a get grip on reality

2006-12-07 10:11:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-07 10:11:16 · 5 answers · asked by zero76 2

I met this girl 3 weeks ago, hit it off, got her number and have been trying to go out with her since.

In the first week she wasn't sure about me as I'm 28 and she's 36. By the end of the second week, I was winning her over and suggested meeting for coffee. On the day of, she sounded like she wouldn't make it so I suggested rescheduling later that week. When that day came, she had to cancel due to something involving work. Again, I rescheduled for this upcoming saturday.

I'm thinking if she cancels again, I should write her off. But people have said I should give her more time because she is hot. But I don't want to keep doing this for another 3 weeks. Though she has been very good with taking and returning phone calls.

What should I do about this situation? And what guidelines should I follow when this comes up again in the future?

2006-12-07 10:10:54 · 9 answers · asked by jason h 1

there is this girl whom I am in love with and she wants to be friends and she started the whole thing by flirting with me and saying she was my girl friend and like a fool I fell in love with her and after time she just wanted to be friends and now I cant get her out of my mind.I know deep down I am not the right guy for her and she isnt the right women for me..but tell that to my heart..I cant stop thinking about her..I miss the smell of her hair, her smile the sound of voice and her soft skin..she is beuitfull. so how do I forget her and move on..the pain..it hurts..

2006-12-07 10:10:44 · 14 answers · asked by Kingofreportedabuse 3

okay i jut broke up with my gf. now my best friend is going out with her. i told my friend it was all right but now i dont like it.what should he do and what should i do. also me and my friend are not getting along to well because of the situation. HELP ME!!!

2006-12-07 10:10:03 · 4 answers · asked by kobeman 1

Are there signs your bf/gf is losing interest in you and starting to like someone else? How do you win him/her back?

2006-12-07 10:09:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

OKay, there is this guy I like and we flirt, but he is shy and so am I and I wanted to do something to make something or anything (good) happen. After finals should I ask him out to lunch with a group of people, or do something cute b/c it is christmas- I have english with him if that makes any difference. I need a good, and safe way to make something happen. Please help.

2006-12-07 10:09:11 · 10 answers · asked by Katie W 2

See a few months ago my friend and his gf broke up, well i was wondering if you thought it was a bad idea to ask her out.

2006-12-07 10:08:00 · 17 answers · asked by LazY 2

I used to hang round with the wrong of people and got into so much trouble. I used to treat women mean because they were "2 a penny". Then I grew up a bit and started behaving and being really caring and responsible.Gues what...not a girl in sight!! they always chose my "badboy" friends. Now I'm talking about a whole range of ladies, some really respectable.I really persevered thinking I would attract the right one eventually..never happened...Now I'm back to Mr. mean I cant move for women!! so why do you all make out you want this Mr. nice guy sh1t?

2006-12-07 10:07:38 · 22 answers · asked by returnofkarlos 2

For when my boyfriend comes home in March from being overseas in the Navy, what would be your opinion of the best sex I could give him?

2006-12-07 10:07:38 · 3 answers · asked by Finally FREE!! 1

2006-12-07 10:07:15 · 16 answers · asked by sweets 1

i dont mean the universe...i mean Y!...one of the things that fascinates me personally is human behaviour...this is a great forum for looking at it...and i like to both challenge and be challenged...i also find it fascinating that people from all over the world come together on here and lay out a piece of themselves for others to see...there are little cliques of people on here too...and you get to know the odd person or three...as much as you can online anyways,lol...its like a self contained little cyber world...why are you here???

2006-12-07 10:07:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

what does laid back mean???????????

2006-12-07 10:07:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me n ex have bn 2gether 4yrs out of no where last mounth she wants out. after 2wks she calls again n wants back n i open my heart she promises 2never hurt me again n will alwaz luv me. Then she goes 2 her bestfriends college when she comes back she breaks it off with me agian. swares their is no1 ealse n she just doesnt feel the same. I saw her fac2fac a few days ago she hugs n kisses me n says she is sorry 2hurt me but when she came back she really felt great being w/me agian. But when she got back from her friends she felt differnt. she is trying 2 figure out her self, she says she want to move on n maybe in time we'll be friends. we cant see each other for along time. I agreed. the next day she calls me n ask if i wouldnt mind keepin her company at the train station for 3hrs. I ask if anybody ealse could do it she said no n is afriad 2b alone. i said yes. She calls last night n gives me the 411 n2 see what im up2. can i make this work 4me? If she is payin with me how can i play back

2006-12-07 10:06:59 · 4 answers · asked by ken hill 1

Ipod video
leather case for the Ipod video
Cologne
new shoes (circa's)
and a couple band t-shits
would you be happy with just that for Christmas?

2006-12-07 10:06:17 · 18 answers · asked by Poptart20 2

Michael Owen...

2006-12-07 10:06:15 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wondering???

2006-12-07 10:06:06 · 7 answers · asked by Hannah! 1

Well..I could've sworn this guy liked me..maybe he does...I can't tell. Well anyways..I'm pretty shy, and everyone says that if I'm shy and I don't really talk to the guy I like, or let him know I like him, he might lose interest..which is true. So today I saw him, and I decided to give it a shot. He was reading a paper on the wall so I went over and asked him a question. I got nervous so that's all I asked. He stayed there for a few mintures then went to look out the window..then went and sat down by my desk. So I casually walked over and asked him what were the other classes he had..and he answered..and yet again I got nervous so I didn't say anything else. He stayed sitting there a few more mintures then got up and went to another group of people who were talking.
Well..last week, he came and asked what I wanted for Christmas, if I had a nice time on vacation, if I liked Starbucks and so on.He'll hold the door open and such. And yesterday he was eating a cupcake and he accidentally

2006-12-07 10:05:56 · 2 answers · asked by .: Brunette Beauty :. 1

2006-12-07 10:05:50 · 3 answers · asked by T. H 1

Ok Recently Today Something Scary Happened:

I was eating my dinner when some of my Friends Friend's came over and said do you Fancy (sone-so) I said no, (Which i do i love Her To Bits)

What i want to know is what do I do:

Do I
A: Tell Her The truth and get tortured by schoolmates

Or
B: ditch her and not talk to her or her friends again?

It all started when i said to her do you want to go to the cinemas on Saturday as i'm Not doing anything on that Day.

2006-12-07 10:05:35 · 12 answers · asked by danderton1 1

I met my girlfriend 3 years ago, and liked her all the time i have know her. About 5 months ago we started going out. I think i am in love with her - i think about her all the time, and i am incredibly happy when with her. I first said i love her about a month into our relationship, and she said i love you back. However recently i had inkling about things and had a week of really deep thinking which culminated in me asking her if she really loved me. She said no, and when i asked if she ever could, and she said no. I felt a mixture of upset, confused, angry and hurt (hard to expain!) by this, although i was glad she had told the truth and i understand it is exceedinlgy hard to say i dont love you back to someone you care for. Undoubtedly she likes me a lot but i would like to know if our relationship is effectively flat - is it possible to go out with someone who loves you although you are certain you could never love them back?

2006-12-07 10:04:34 · 18 answers · asked by acid_butter 1

2006-12-07 10:04:10 · 3 answers · asked by Hannah! 1

well everytime I have a fantasy or dream (i never share this with anyone) whoever i was fantasising about shows up at my house, my gym trainer, my boss, a client, a lifelong friend and believe it or not the list gets longer and wierder....welll what the heck is going on how can all my fantasys come true? (havent yet acted on any though) Im scared now to fantasize as this odd attraction thing going on can cause havoc, is this psychic(not litterally) or what?
I'm an average looking girl, a little shy but friendly and this is all new and very overwelming

2006-12-07 10:02:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Orange County Ca.

2006-12-07 10:02:23 · 16 answers · asked by mmike714 1

my ex ended our relationship a couple of weeks ago due to "his doubts". i however did not believe him because to me that was a ridculous reason. i believed that it was because he wanted to explore his other options in college. while my mind is telling me he is wrong for me, my heart still longs for him, more than he will ever know. i confronted him with this theory and he denied it to a t. i also told him i thought he ended it because he wanted to control me and to have control in our relationship. he was less than enthused. i also told him that if he really loved me, he would tell me everything. he responded but not in the way i wanted him to. i want him to tell me the truth but i feel that he's convinced himself that doubt is what really ended it. it's funny. he wasn't the guy i thought he was. he's controling and manipulative and he just can't see it. advice?

2006-12-07 10:02:10 · 4 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1

I NEED ANSWERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-07 10:00:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, about 2 months ago a met this guy. In the 2 months we only seen each other twice, when we 1st met and like 2 weeks later. Well we talk every day on the phone & live about 45 min. away from eachother. Anyways we stoped talking bout 5 days ago, we had been making plans to go out this coming weekend for my brithday. Well since he hasn't call me in 5 days i call him last night. He didnt answer, i caught his vocie mail. So i decided to check it for him. Well i know i did bad, Okay so he had a vocie mail from his friend then some gurl tell him if he wanted to go over & like 2 other voice mails from the same gurl. He tells me that he likes me and he wounld hate to stop talking to me. So what do i do call the gurl and ask who she is or forget him or tell him what i did and heard. Or what do i do?

2006-12-07 09:59:47 · 8 answers · asked by Me ★ 1

Do guys feel more secure about themselves when they purposely flirt with other girls in front of the girl that they really have interest in? Why do guys do this?
I don't get why guys will do this but when the other girls aren't there, he will totally stare at the girl he likes. Are they trying to get their attention or are they telling them to back off?

2006-12-07 09:59:14 · 4 answers · asked by BeachBabe 2