At the moment I am experiencing a difficult situation.To set the scene, when I started working for my ex-employer 5yrs ago,I became good friends with a wonderful girl. I'm 29, she's 24.She is fiercely intelligent, strong, independent, confident, caring, funny, sensitive,and is the most beautiful and attractive human being I have ever had the pleasure to meet. One smile from her makes my day.We always got on extremely well at work and, we have a lot in common. I was in a long-term relationship at the time, but that ended two years ago.When I left we remained good friends. She was quite ill recently and I was worried sick.That was when I slowly began to realise how I felt about her.Often, I'll go and see her and we spend hours just talking and having a laugh.My problem is that I'm terrified if I tell her my feelings have changed she'll back off. I don't want to put any pressure on her, all I want is for her to be happy even if it's not with me. Any advice would be very much appreciated.
2006-12-05
13:02:00
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