The guy I'm seeing has had a girlfriend of the past cheat on him, he hasn't brought it up, should I? The only this he has really said is that they had a lot of sex, which is how I am with him too. Does it mean something more than that or am I over thinking?
2006-12-05 13:06:57 · 23 answers · asked by slyshewolf 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it bothers you then just come out and ask him about it. If it is something that you want to know then ask. If he decides he isn't ready to talk about that then be supportive and back off until he is ready to talk. If he has been cheated on in the past he may still be hurt about it.
2006-12-05 13:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your having a wonderful relationship and enjoying been with him why worry about the past. HE is now with you and in time he will open up and you will know everything as you don't rush him. SO get back and enjoy the time with him and forget the past. WHat behind you'll is best left there.
2006-12-05 21:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having sex with someone, it's good to know their sexual history in regards to whether or not they used protection and if they have been tested for anything, etc. However, to get into specifics by telling you he had sex with his ex a lot, like he's bragging to you about it, is SO disrespectful. I would worry about that more than I would worry whether or not his girlfriend cheated on him.
2006-12-05 21:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by Smiley1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel that the pass is the pass and you might bring it up and everything might change for the worst. Just leave it alone and yes I think you are over thinking and what you need to be focusing is your future and with this man.
2006-12-05 21:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by Vilady5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you overthink. Sometimes people just say things subconsciously even though it probably doesn't really have any meaning to it.
I tend to do the same as you--keep analyzing, thinking and all and really, it doesn't really take you anywhere, but silly obsessions. Good luck!
2006-12-05 21:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I advice to you is that he is using you. The way you interpreate as he want you because of sex. You see that why his x girl dumped him cause what he care the most is sex not her. My advice is that confront him and asking him the truth there nothing wrong with you but him. Good luck
2006-12-05 21:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very unhealthy relationship. Relationships are not just about sex but about your time together and getting to know each other.
2006-12-05 21:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by Atllas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, you're so hard to understand and follow.
Do whatever you want, but I'd rather that on one brings up my past and hash it over.
2006-12-05 21:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by Benvenuto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, don't put too much thought into it. If he has anything he wants to tell you, he will in his own time. Don;t push him away by asking too many questions. good luck sweewtheart.
2006-12-05 21:10:10 · answer #9 · answered by shyrayleen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hasnt said anything about it i would think maybe over thinking a little bit. If he is hurt by this i'm sure hewould have said something by now about it.
2006-12-05 21:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by crrousey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋