Singles & Dating - 2 December 2006

i just started talking to a girl over the phone who i was hooked up with by another friend who works with her. I've never seen or talked to the girl before and i am wondering what makes for a good conversation. and whats a good time and place or situation to meet her in.

2006-12-02 11:28:26 · 2 answers · asked by Changed 3

So, yesterday I was talking to myguy about going out this weekend. He said that tonight would be better for him. He lives about 45 minuts away, and had to come to the next town over from me to get something. I suggested that he come over after he was done, instead of going back home and then driving all the way back here. I had asked him to help fix my door, which he said he would. So, he comes over, fixes the door and a few other things. He watched the last of the football game and then said he was going home!!! What the??? He said he didn't realize I wanted to go out (duh- it's Saturday night!) and he was tired and not dressed to go anywhere. I suggested that we just get a pizza and hang out, then. He said he wanted to go home and said he was tired again. He wants to get together tomorrow night and told me not to be angry. Of course I am! Do I call him and see if he is home? If so, what do I say? (We have been together forever- but it's been complecated). Thanks for the help

2006-12-02 11:26:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've heard that men do, sometimes by the third or fourth date they are in love. What do you think?

2006-12-02 11:25:57 · 12 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 2

I have a friend in 2nd grade and her brother likes me and i like him and i dont know what to do i mean we both really like each other and I want to go out with him. Hes catholic and i know hes not a bad kid.I really like him and he really likes me and i wanna hook up what sould i do

2006-12-02 11:25:49 · 14 answers · asked by Peachy 1

My online boyfriend lives currently in another part of the world. He had been keeping a secret from me and lying about it for quite some time. He pretended his looks were different then what they really were. He was afraid to tell me the truth about this secret. He told his friend he was feeling so guilty about lying to me and was so afraid he would lose me, from this one little lie. His friend thought that it would be a good idea to pretend that my boyfriend had died. His friend called me and told me my boyfriend had past way in an accident. This broke my heart so much. I didn't think I would be able to go on in life without him. This happened one month ago.

Then 3 days ago my boyfriend called me and told me the truth. I don't know what I should be feeling or behaving like. In my heart, I want to forgive him and start over with him again, I really feel his is the love of my life. Or should I dump him and start over with someone else? Am I a fool?

2006-12-02 11:23:58 · 38 answers · asked by Sultry Carino 1

My boyfriend has moved away from this area and I miss him terribly. We lived together for the last 2 1/2 years. He had to move because of his job but now he told me that I have to make an appointment so he talks to me, It cant be more than once a week and he sets the time. In emergency I am allowed to talk to him during the week. I asked questions about what he was doing in his spare time, then he was just silent and said, he was stopping in bed all day.
Is he having another relationship or what?

2006-12-02 11:22:56 · 24 answers · asked by Justine T 2

2006-12-02 11:22:43 · 11 answers · asked by La septième vague 1

my gf hurts me all the time than she apoligizes it happens all the time and she always cries over it, because she is sorry but i feel like sometimes my honesty is taking for granted...but she does love me
i am 110% sure

2006-12-02 11:22:16 · 27 answers · asked by b-boy truth 2

there is a really hot guy at my school and im to chicken to ask him to a movie or something and he his popular and im...not and i am afraid he will say no.....and my friends say i talk abou him nonstop
what do i do?

2006-12-02 11:19:01 · 9 answers · asked by gurly gurl 1

I really been liking this guy for a long time but I have never talked to him though. I'm too scared, I don't even know what to talk about. I have never talked to him so don't know what he likes and he isn't in any of my classes. I see him at lunch,before and after school. He is always with his friends then. I just want to talk to him 1 on 1. What do you think I should do, I'm 14 and have never gone out with anybody but I have also never really liked anybody like this. I know that if I don't chase after him then he won't chase after me and that will be the end. Most of the friends I have are my friends because they started talking to me first. How do I make the first move? What do I say? If you have any tips,advice or anything that you think will help please tell me. I am dieing to know the way out.

2006-12-02 11:17:01 · 6 answers · asked by Loaha 2

My girl is comin over to hangout with my friends and I. She said she was bringing a friend of hers. The problem is, while her friend is pretty nice, she is rather large and black. I don't have much problem hanging with her except that she could cock block me somewhat, but my friends say 'n*gger' alot when they are drunk and I feel it would create an awkward situation to bring over some chick they don't know for both of them. I don't want to hear pansy comments about my friends saying the n word, just a solution, thanks.

2006-12-02 11:15:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know if its because people are uptight or too loose, but one thing ive noticed is people think im either really young or really old? it s fun to get strange answers to problems, i just wish i knew your ages. im 37 by the way

2006-12-02 11:15:25 · 6 answers · asked by xinnocentxdragonx 1

he is shy and i don't know if he likes me in the same way. i don't want to ruin our friendship if he says no. i need major advice here so please answer!!!! :)

2006-12-02 11:15:12 · 15 answers · asked by binky 2

2006-12-02 11:14:50 · 9 answers · asked by laurenruthh. 1

Why did they like you I just want to know!!!!!

2006-12-02 11:14:16 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1

2006-12-02 11:13:20 · 11 answers · asked by Toni W 1

if today was the last day to live...??

2006-12-02 11:11:44 · 8 answers · asked by erica 1

she gave me fone # and email address, been talking for 2hrs+ once, but her attitude at school seems tat she's not interest in me

2006-12-02 11:11:26 · 6 answers · asked by Mr Quite OK 3

okay, so my best friend went clubbing, w/some other firends (i didn't go) and no guys danced w/them. is it cause their... not super skinny? how much should a girl weigh going into a club? she'd like 180? and the others are 200+. I'm 160, am i too fat for a club? be honest.

2006-12-02 11:11:18 · 9 answers · asked by Dancing with love 2

I have talked to so many victims and they all say that they would die to meet a nice guy but scared about the intimacy issue.....is this true or is this woman lying and hiding something?

2006-12-02 11:10:24 · 16 answers · asked by . . 1

well i like this guy names austin.. he's really sweet to me and i've never meet anyone like him.. i am only 13 but my b-day is march 3rd... and he jst turned 17 last weekend.. i know he is older.. but i really like him.. right now he goes to muskogee.. and i go to a totally diff. place by okc.. he said in 2 years he is coming to okc and hopefully me and him will still be talking. i don't know if the age should bother me.. but i don't want it to.. i talk to him all the time and have feelings 4 him.. actually i tried not 2 @ 1st but he grew on me.. and he respects me, he's still a virgin and he knows i am 2.. i don't plan on doing anything like that with him. and he knows that. i just dont know weather if i should date him or not when he gets to okc.. right now he meens alot to me.. he's kindof emo and wants to get a lip ring but he's got a good heart and i see it..he's most deff. the kind of guy i could see myself dating... but i need your help.

2006-12-02 11:10:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this girl one day. I gave her a glance and she asked" What the f**k was I looking at". This girl was really attractive and I thought she was being coy so I followed her into a local restaurant. I sat in a seat a row next to her. She pulled out her cell phone and began to talk. I suddenly realize she had called the police and I left the restaurant as quickly as possible and drove off. I know girls give off mixed signals at times and sometimes like to play "hard to get" but I guess I was wrong about this particular girl. Should I play it safe or continue to take risks?

2006-12-02 11:09:53 · 6 answers · asked by icyhott4urmind 1

if i dont call a girl that i go out with ever will she get mad and not tell me that shes mad that i dont ever call her

2006-12-02 11:09:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to know if this guy really like me. Like most men, he isn't very verbal and I am such an idiot at taking non-verbal hints. He has done the following and I want to know your take on this. How do u think he feels?

He's
-Held my hand
-caressed my palm
-kissed my palm
-kissed my forehead
-rubbed my back and thighs
-hugged me very tight
-has called me beautiful
-has performed above -the-waist foreplay
-wanted to "do something for me" by giving me oral sex
-has wrestled w/me
-has lifted me up constantly
-has looked directly in my eyes and when I ask what you looking at, he smiles and says 'I can look at u if I want to'.
-has smacked my behind
-has grabbed my behind

Now, I kinda get the hint but how can I tell if these are signs he only wants sex or he really likes me??? I need real help here!

2006-12-02 11:08:35 · 4 answers · asked by pretty_n_sweet 1

I really don't know...recently I've gotten closer to this girl I've known for a while. Lately she's been doing things that she hasn't done with me before. She's been poking me like nothing else...at random times (during class when she passes by me, when Im in the same car as her, etc), she's been hitting me with things (scarf) and tries to trip me occasionally. Sometimes I find myself having a staring contest with her...

Apparently I'm starting to like her, cause I can't stop thinking of her and be with her every other moment...(ech...this really does not sound like me...:p)

But anyway, Im having a hard time figuring out if she likes me like a friend or likes me more than that.

2006-12-02 11:08:22 · 2 answers · asked by mrdatoe 2

She is 14 and im 16 and we have known each other for about a year and just decided that we should go out. So we are going out on our first date soon and i wanted to know if i should get her something on our first date together and if you think yes, what kind of gift?

2006-12-02 11:07:42 · 28 answers · asked by gamerx66x 2

This play that was self-written by one of the students calls for a drag queen. Any costume ideas? I guess he is playing a 19 year old college-age student. Any ideas would be appreciated!

2006-12-02 11:06:54 · 6 answers · asked by tinaredcd 1

I have this friend (a girl) who i really like, we agreed to go to a dress up party and we got together twice in the past 2 weeks. She was really friendly with me both times we met, we went around the city, ate lunch together and on the second time she helped me dye my hair at her place and made me lunch. However on the night of the party, we were dressed identically, but for some reason, she kept her distance from me and gave attention to this other guy. It felt like i was being ignored by her and the other guy caught on to my game and tried to cut me off subtly (like he would interupt when i was talking and ask about something), i asked her about the guy and she laughed and said 'doubt anything will happen' and when i talked to her afterwards, she said that she was taking pictures of everyone so she was busy that night and that she was sorry. So what do you think of this? If you were in my situation, how would you react?

2006-12-02 11:06:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do you treat a person that did you wrong?the guy i was IN LOVE with to whom i have said and shown in plenty of ways turned out to be usung me completely for sex.And that you have been more ok if he acted more like a friend and respected me as a person.He kept on playing me and hiding the fact that he has a girlfriend..Now i have stopped dealing with him but simply not calling and he is utter;y unaware of my excistance Wouldnt you feel really upset and disappointed?is there a way to get RENENGE?
If dont im afraid i wont move on

2006-12-02 11:05:27 · 14 answers · asked by sophie c 1

I have a decision but need major help?
So I started my junior year this year and I had a crush on this guy the A. guy. We have this winter dance the bigggest one excluding prom. Of Course!!! But my problem is he asked me out to the dance and of course i said yes. But a couple days latter my bestest friend in the entire world broke up with his girlfriend and asked me out! LIke to be his girlfriend. I never thought of him as my boyfriend but I kind alike it.
they are both so cute!!!
A. cruch boy
B. best friend
A. more cute smart b-ball player prep
B muscular HOTT wrestler football
A. nice adn lets you talk
B easy to talk to
Another difference is that my bestfriend kno's everything about me and the other guy doesn't
I don't kno what to do?
What should I do and how should i tell the other guy what i decided! HELP!!!

2006-12-02 11:05:26 · 5 answers · asked by Colee 1