I really been liking this guy for a long time but I have never talked to him though. I'm too scared, I don't even know what to talk about. I have never talked to him so don't know what he likes and he isn't in any of my classes. I see him at lunch,before and after school. He is always with his friends then. I just want to talk to him 1 on 1. What do you think I should do, I'm 14 and have never gone out with anybody but I have also never really liked anybody like this. I know that if I don't chase after him then he won't chase after me and that will be the end. Most of the friends I have are my friends because they started talking to me first. How do I make the first move? What do I say? If you have any tips,advice or anything that you think will help please tell me. I am dieing to know the way out.
2006-12-02 11:17:01 · 6 answers · asked by Loaha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you like him if you've never even spoken to him. If you don't know anything about him your just crushing on him for his looks.
I suggest just saying hi to him someday and see what he does. I assure you he won't look at you like your crazy or ignore you. just give it a shot the worst that could happen is he will just say hi back. it oculd end up in a nice long conversation and he might start to like you back and then he might ask you out. But you will never know if you don't say hi to him.
Good Luck!
Elizabeth
2006-12-02 11:28:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go talk to him about like something thats kool an that u like and he likes an then ask him to kick it with you like at the movies or mall or something but i think boys should make the first move tho i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years since i was 14 now 16 we are still together but idk but yeah just do what i said but if he dosnt want to then **** him lol but yeah
peace out!
2006-12-02 19:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by ?PARIS HILTON? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in this situation alot, and im 15, so i know how u feel. its easier to like start out saying hi to him in the halls and stuff and then gradually saying more, that way u ease into it and u dont feel as akward or shy.
you realllly dont want to chase after him adn stalk him though. not only have a learned that from personal experiance, but i have talked to guys and they think its annoying and clingy.
things like this take time, just be urself and say hey and if its meant to be itll turn into more. u gotta be patient!
2006-12-02 19:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by laurenruthh. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm your young, i recommend that you do not ask him out, because it won't work out. Do you see yourself with him in 10 years? Might as well not start something that's not going to have any results.
But if you absolutely want to be with him, i suggest that you get to know him more. And once you've become friends, then you can ask him out.
2006-12-02 19:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by Shortii. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur 2 young anyway
2006-12-02 19:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im sure its not hard especially if u get someone crappy like i got
2006-12-02 19:20:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋