I don't want my girls friend to come over tonight what can I do to stop it without pissing someone off?

Question

My girl is comin over to hangout with my friends and I. She said she was bringing a friend of hers. The problem is, while her friend is pretty nice, she is rather large and black. I don't have much problem hanging with her except that she could cock block me somewhat, but my friends say 'n*gger' alot when they are drunk and I feel it would create an awkward situation to bring over some chick they don't know for both of them. I don't want to hear pansy comments about my friends saying the n word, just a solution, thanks.

Answer 1

put a sighn outside your door saying no fat chicks, or white only. shel get the hint

Answer 2

If she is that less costly and straightforward to do issues with somebody else and say she is inebriated as an excuse - lose her - there are extra efficient ladies available, they could no longer be the suited searching, yet they are not celebration ladies who you should keep a watch on each second - who's time-honored with, perhaps she change into moved quickly and disinterested because she change into telling the different guy the same lie - you may under no circumstances have self belief her - you want to have extra pride and self esteem that you deserve extra efficient -

Answer 3

Ask your friends to tone down the drinking for the first part of the evening. Then tell your girl that these guys get drunk and rowdy, so you'll drive her home if they start getting drunk. That way, you can take her and her friend home if the situation gets tense.

Answer 4

Well, you could tell your friends that a friend of your woman's is coming over. And you would appreciate if they would keep their comments to themselves. It's your house. And if you don't mind her being over, then let her come over. But you should tell your woman to tell her friend what type of friends you have. Then the friend will decide if she wants to come over or not.

Answer 5

Drop your boys or get rid of the girl. If you can't make up your mind now, lies work, like "hey baby, I just need the night to finish ome work and my friends are coming over to help, do you think you can give me call tomorrow and remind me to turn it in?"

Answer 6

Tell your girl that it's a, guys only night, at your house. Suggest she have her girlfriends over to her place for the evening. If that doesn't work, just be honest with her.

Answer 7

tell them you are sick sick sick this will only work for this night if she just shows up. Otherwise sit down and talk to your friend and tell her your fears otherwise she's going to think that you think you are better. Maybe arrange a time to hang with this other friend and your friend alone without your friends.

Answer 8

Perhaps the large African American woman will kick your hick friend in the nuts and ease the tension. Perhaps then you'll all have a good laugh.

Answer 9

I don't see why you hang out with friends who are pigs
and embarrassment to you ..ditch them ..you will feel better spending time with people who are not raciest ..rather then the arshols you hang out with..

Answer 10

I would just explain to your girl the situation...let her explain it to her friend....and you should probably tell your friends there is going to be a black girl there and to please not use that word...If her friend can't come tell yours not to come and spend time just you and your girl?

Answer 11

just apologize for your stupid friends then tell the truth about how bad there mouth is and that's why you feel so uncomfortable