My boyfriend has moved away from this area and I miss him terribly. We lived together for the last 2 1/2 years. He had to move because of his job but now he told me that I have to make an appointment so he talks to me, It cant be more than once a week and he sets the time. In emergency I am allowed to talk to him during the week. I asked questions about what he was doing in his spare time, then he was just silent and said, he was stopping in bed all day.
Is he having another relationship or what?
2006-12-02 11:22:56 · 24 answers · asked by Justine T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOu already know the answer to this dont ring him on your appointment time and see what happens.. this is not arealationship You are better then this and deserve better.. Move on... he has.. dont let him drag you over the coals too.. good luck you will find happiness but not with this person..
2006-12-02 11:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by phantom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who gives a s*** if hes having another relationship, somethings wrong. was he controlling before? my bet he was. its mind games to the extreme or hes trying to live a single life. in my experience, good or bad relationship at the time, daily phone calls were expected if not more. what do you're closest mates,family people u trust think? ask to move up with him, and see reaction. be out when his turn to call and say sometimes life doesn't work to "exact time to call". for gods sake expect better.
2006-12-02 11:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by mole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know that he's having a relationship with someone else, but I do know that you deserve better. If he was really the man for you, he would have asked you to come with him and would be doing everything in his power to spend time and talk with with you.
Do not stick around waiting for this guy to break your heart. End it, look after yourself, feel better and then meet the guy who will always look out for you and love you as you deserve to be loved.
2006-12-02 11:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does sound a bit iffy, but I do the same with my bf. We're having a bit of along distance thing at the moment and with work and my studies sometimes I just don't have the time to speak to him when he feels like it. If we make an appointment however, then I work things around it and set aside that time for us to chat.
Maybe this is how your bf feels.
2006-12-07 01:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by Tamzi 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if it looks like a duck and walks like a duck its a duck !! I'm sorry Hun it doesn't sound good don't put your self though it you deserve a guy who will give you his time and seek you not the other way around . im not trying to be harsh but i suggest you just move on for your own good !
2006-12-02 11:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by sadeyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally it sounds a bit fishy. I think you need to talk to him seriously on one of your next 'appointed' times about what's going on
2006-12-02 11:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by Natalie B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Justine
best advise we can all offer is to miss your appointments with him permanently. H'e's a jerk and doesn't care about you and your feelings.
Good Luck
Jeff
2006-12-07 22:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by JEFF K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has already dumped you. He sounds an immature little creep.
Plenty more fish in the sea?
2006-12-02 11:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by Not Ecky Boy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, he seems like he's avoiding you. And seriously, why is he so special that you would have to make an appointment to talk to him. He's a jerk. simple as that?
2006-12-02 11:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by Shortii. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Appointments...? I've never heard of anything like that...Anyways, I think you should move on...partly because...well he could be moving on as well.
2006-12-02 11:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by mrdatoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋