how do you treat a person that did you wrong?the guy i was IN LOVE with to whom i have said and shown in plenty of ways turned out to be usung me completely for sex.And that you have been more ok if he acted more like a friend and respected me as a person.He kept on playing me and hiding the fact that he has a girlfriend..Now i have stopped dealing with him but simply not calling and he is utter;y unaware of my excistance Wouldnt you feel really upset and disappointed?is there a way to get RENENGE?
If dont im afraid i wont move on
2006-12-02 11:05:27 · 14 answers · asked by sophie c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetheart, please take it as a learning experience.
I know that you are burning inside but please inhale and exhale.
The best way to seek revenge is good old fashion wisdom.
He know that he is wrong, he know that you are hurting and he does'nt care.
Please keep your head up and move on because over a period of time, things happen to people. Their evil deeds catchup to them later.
Please pick yourself up, wipe off the dust,wash your hands and walk forward. Later in your life, you will give strength to someone who have been through the same situation. Trust me, life does goes on. There will be better times ahead.
When he see you again, don't acknowledge him and don't look depressed. This is only a lesson learned, its okay honey.
2006-12-02 11:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Big P 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are many wolves dressed in sheep's clothing that you will run into in your life. This guy just so happened to be one. Yes, it hurts, but just remember - what goes around, comes around. No need to take revenge when he will get his - eventually. Just dream of the day when he is used like a sex toy from some woman he meets. Let life take its revenge out on him. It really is a waste of time to do it yourself, and very immature. It will always backfire on you. Let it go, remember the moral of that life experience, and be a little more choosier picking the next guy to share all of your wonderful qualities with. It will be his ultimate loss dissing you!!
2006-12-02 19:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by yokrem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who hasn't been used or disappointed at one time or another by someone they loved? Revenge? Do not seek revenge or even think about it. Let him go and forget him and move on. Don't sink to his level but instead take the high road and be confident in your decision. It would be petty of you to seek revenge and to do it would be doing what a spoiled angry brat would do to another. You are bigger than that. Be mature and learn from your mistakes.
2006-12-02 19:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI Sophie at least you are rid of him god help the other girl who probably knows about you now get your self all dolled up go out and let him see you looking great no bloke likes to lose out like that he will always want who he cant have i know .i bet you can do it and be world champion when he knows he not going home with you he be sick as 2 hospitals go for it girl lay it on get your friends to back you cheers
2006-12-02 19:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by not a mused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many ways, but the one I'd recommend is to tell him that you're a patient person, and at some point in his life, you will get revenge. He'll always look behind his back.
2006-12-02 19:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have any proof? even in memory? you need to find his girlfriend tell her what happened and if you have proof tell or show her that if she don't believe you oh well u tried to help her out, also try calling him and getting him to admit something on the phone with her on 3way (secretLy) or record before you contact her either way thats your revenge
2006-12-02 19:12:53 · answer #6 · answered by marion r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let it go sweet heart. and chalk it up as a lesson learned. why would you stoop to his level? i guess if you really have your mind set to take revenge you could always say that you have some kind of std and that you were afraid to tell him about it before. that will shake him up! lol
2006-12-02 19:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell all the girls you know that he sucked in bed and has the world smallest penis!! Then walk up to him and kick him where it counts!!! Guys like that deserve it!
2006-12-02 19:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
slap him, punch him, kick him, give him the silent treatment or walk away. Just don't cut his balls off.
2006-12-02 19:11:52 · answer #9 · answered by lildarrin2k3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make him undatible. that way he'll know how you feel
2006-12-02 19:09:34 · answer #10 · answered by teddy_girl2009 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋