Singles & Dating - 1 December 2006

i think for me since im fat no matter how nice the clothes i wear i feel like a slob. is it my confidence. people say i look nice .. but i feel so horrible .. how to look attractive and feel attractive at the same time

2006-12-01 15:47:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I've had a problem over the past few years. It seems that every woman I attract seem to really like me a lot, but all of them are, in some form, on the rebound. I don't actively seek out women who've just gotten out of a relationship...it's just been my luck of the draw.

It's been much more frequent lately because I've developed the reputation as the "rebound man", like I'm sort sort of screwed-up superhero. I'm just a nice guy who seems to make these women feel special after their jerk ex-boyfriends trampled all over them, then when things start to feel a little too serious for them, they freak out and it's all over.

I've tried to be casual about these things, but more and more I've realized that I'm just not wired that way. I'm sick of being the relationship rehab counselor. I'm ready for something more; something with an unlimited shelf life.

I guess what I'm asking here is...has anyone else had this problem? If so, have you been able to break the cycle and how?

2006-12-01 15:47:11 · 2 answers · asked by randomthoughtpatterns 2

gangsters?rockers,goths,emos,nerdy type,preps ect (feel free 2 add more)

and why????????

what kind of guy do you think i am?

2006-12-01 15:46:28 · 16 answers · asked by jason m 1

Im going on my first date tomorrow. after i planned it with her on a 5 hour phonecall. any tips for a first date.

(besides be yourself lol, i got that one covered :])

2006-12-01 15:46:25 · 6 answers · asked by snkplayman 2

me n my boyfriend have been dating for a month and like 1 week , and he told me that he finds other girls on myspace {cause we have a myspace} and messes with their heads and pretends to like them , and then in the end he says i was joking , exept he described what hed say to them in a meaner way. i told him that thats mean , but he said he gets a kick out of it. then.i was lookin at his comments and some girl asked if i was his gf { the girl that commented below her } and i told her yes . but then i called him and asked him who she was , and he said that he was messin with her head to make her think he liked her n ****. and was gonna d that thing mentioned earlier to her. but then she e mailed me and said that he denied us going out and said that we broke up and stuff like i broke up with him and i just wanted him back and stuff. well i told her that wasnt true .then she said that he gave her his phone number and asked to meet her.should i be worried that its not just a game?

2006-12-01 15:45:29 · 14 answers · asked by status_sweet 1

I don't have too much money and I dont know too much about what he likes cause all he talks about is his family. I want to get him something he will like though. hmm this is all I really know.
He likes to walk lol...
He likes to draw
He lisens to music (but I dont know what)
He is really shy

got any ideas

2006-12-01 15:44:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I see him often but I'm not sure if he is even interested in me. How do I find out if he is even open to a friendship?

2006-12-01 15:44:49 · 3 answers · asked by quietandcute 1

yes it true. i have hard time finding dates. most men say . damn yr pretty but too bad yr fat .. if yr slimmer i mite have date u .. i was like ?????.... is it body all the important???some also said if i was skinner i would be gorgeous.. .. its such and insult... why are people so nasty and bias towards fat people.

2006-12-01 15:44:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this girl at a bar and we had a nice chat. She seemed interested in me and so I took her number. I called her after 2 weeks to ask her out. As soon as I told her who I was, she replied with an enthusiastic hello immedeatly followed by "I am on the other line with a cousin. Do you mind if I call u back?". I never heard back from her that night. Should I
(a) wait for her to call back
(b) consider that she is not interested in me
(c) call her up after 3-4 days
(d) any other action u wud like me to take.

2006-12-01 15:43:07 · 10 answers · asked by Pi 1

a guy says he mite go out w/me and gave me his IM. do u think he will? he says im pretty hot u think he will? I asked ihm and he said he didn't know so I'm not sure.

2006-12-01 15:42:21 · 1 answers · asked by Sid-Knee! hehe. 4

2006-12-01 15:41:45 · 11 answers · asked by shawna h 1

we have been together off and on for a year and we just moved into a house i bougt, thinking it would get better. but it just got worse now he dose not want to break up with me after i tell him time n time again its not going to work between us. i even been staying else where how do i get him out? oh and he has no money no job no whrer to go.

2006-12-01 15:40:41 · 18 answers · asked by saltynsassy3 1

my ex-boyfriend keeps calling me everynight. and although ive made it clear to him i dont want anything serious with him anymore he said he'd try anyway.. eventhough i told him to stop calling me.. he still calls.. whenever he calls me he opens up topics about the future where I plan to work, my plans after graduation, etc.. and then he popped up a proposal if we could get married right after my graduation.. so i told him we're not even back to girlfriend-boyfriend mode.. and im not sure if i still want "us".. i told him not to wait.. and to plan a future without me.. but it's not working.. lately he signed a contract in an immigration agency for the US.. he just have to take some examinations and within one and a half year he could migrate to the US.. and he is still telling me.. he wants me to go with him.. i asked him, "why would i go with you?".. he answered me "fiances can be considered an immediate family member and can be included in his migration"...

2006-12-01 15:39:55 · 12 answers · asked by evismea 1

What is your favorite thing about a guy, body parts and personality?

2006-12-01 15:39:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

well tons of guys think i am hot
tons of guys want to date me
I am soo sick of it cause I dont want to make them feel bad and I have a boyfriend. But I feel like I am doing something wrong by having a boyfriend cause these boys keep asking me out I tell them i got a boyfriend but they are still there bothering me. I don't know how to get rid of them. No matter how rude they are still there bugging me and my friend are starting to feel bad cause ever guy they ask out says "no". All the guys they like all like me and I hate it cause I try to get the guy to go out with my friends but it doesnt work how do I get them to leave me alone!!??

2006-12-01 15:39:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dance all the time

2006-12-01 15:38:39 · 8 answers · asked by FashionChick 1

Okay... there are two guys..
1) "Bob" teases me about another boy who i liked and he didn't like me. hes always saying the guys name and making fun of me.. ive tried everything, making fun of him, acting like i dont care and asking him to stop. what should i do?
2) "George" listened to "Bob" and now teases me about that other boy when "Bob" is around. when Bob isnt around he just talks a little hes very shy and doesn't talk to any other girls then this one who flirts with everyone
why do they do this/?

2006-12-01 15:38:20 · 8 answers · asked by JULIE 1

i just dont know what to tell him what i want i dont want to tell him anything expensive cause i will feel bad any sugestions

2006-12-01 15:38:05 · 17 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1

2006-12-01 15:37:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

our relationship has been magnificent until this. this is the only problem we have had. it upset me so bad the first time he asked that I had a nervous break down, (was crying so hard that I threw up, got a headache so bad I couldn't see, and then passed out for 2 hours). he promised me he would let it go and not ask me again. but now he wants me to have a threesome, still. I know its a guy fantasy, but why do we have to live it out? I don't want him with another girl, if this happens I am going to be crushed and not be able to trust him again. I have told him in these exact world how much I don't want this but he thinks that b/c I am curious about other girls it would be good. how else do I get him to see that this will ruin our relationship? I don't want to leave him, but if we have a threesome I can't stay (I told him that too and he still thinks he can change my mind) :-(

2006-12-01 15:33:21 · 13 answers · asked by soccer2music 2

2006-12-01 15:31:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told a co-worker about something intimate involving a guy I have been talking to. I told him I told the guy and he was embarrassed and mad. I didn't realize it would bug him (I repeat everything to my close friends). I apoligized, but he is hurt. I realize I was completely wrong in this situation and I know not to tell EVERYTHING. What should I do? Just tell the dude I am untrustworthy and he should not bother further? Or is there anything more to even do in the situation? I feel really bad.

2006-12-01 15:31:08 · 1 answers · asked by True 3

when is it time for a kiss

2006-12-01 15:30:46 · 3 answers · asked by lvr grl 1

2006-12-01 15:30:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a problem. I''m smart. nice, and pretty. BUT I also don't do something that most people engage in. I'm a virgin who is saving sex for marriage. As we know, this can he hard when dating. Most guys want a girl who will put out. I dated this guy for a month, he was really sweet, caring and I told him from the beginning my views on sex and he said he was fine with it and could wait. After a month he said "he was busy". I really liked him. Why is sex so important? I'm not gonna ruin my virtue just so some guy can get pleasure but it's hard to mneet guys who will wait. Guys would you wait for a virgin girl? AND what would you think of a 21 yr old girl who is a virgin?

2006-12-01 15:30:24 · 7 answers · asked by Hottie 1

how can you tell the difference ?

2006-12-01 15:30:15 · 2 answers · asked by Nick723 3

I will turn 39 next weekend and I have realized that I have never really been in LOVE, in relationships of course, but in love... never... anyone else out there like me or am I a freak of nature?

2006-12-01 15:28:46 · 17 answers · asked by moejaymom 3

2006-12-01 15:28:22 · 4 answers · asked by NIGHTSHADE 4

Three weeks ago I met this guy who really liked me and asked if i would go out with him. I said yes. then two days later at our school's football game he kissed my best friend(i was on vacation at this time). When i came back to town, he was on with another girl. (5 weeks later,monday)he asked a girl who rids my bus to ask me out at canteen(a school dance our schoolhas every saturday night).What should I say to Him? I still want to go out with him though!

2006-12-01 15:28:19 · 19 answers · asked by Princess 2

Is it true that most Hispanic people and also people of other cultures think that white women are more "promiscuous?" I have heard this before and was just curious. I am white and I plan on saving myself for marriage. I had a hispanic friend that only speaks Spanish ask me if I had a boyfriend and how many boyfriends I had had before. I am 19 and I said I currently don't have one and I have had 2 relationships before. He smiled and I go "mal?" or is that bad? and he said "ohh noo" and he said "tu eres mas bonita y no tienes novio..." Do you think he was implying anything and do they find it strange or odd that I have only been in two relationships and I am not "promiscuous"?

2006-12-01 15:27:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous