Singles & Dating - 28 November 2006

i have loose skin bunched up under the head and when i piss the the urine irritates the scar even if i wipe it off. also when i get hard my frenulum stretches and hurts a lot. should i get recircumcised to remove the frenulum and rest of skin?

and i went to my GP and she referred me to a urologist. my apt is dec 6. but the thing is i emailed her with the problem and she replied back and was kinda mean and no help. shes like "i would go back to the urologist who did the surgery..." but the thing is he is at a diff kaiser which is further away from me and this one is more convinent. and plus i emailed him with this problemsTWO months ago and he still hasnt gotten back to me. so honestly i dont want some guy checking me over and possibly doing another surgery on me who cant even respond to an email. and then that urologist said "i doubt theres anything ill be able to do for on at yuor apt..." i told her in the email about my other urologist too. and why is there nothing she can do for me

2006-11-28 03:27:50 · 5 answers · asked by Timothy 1

Surely all relationships with the opposite sex are based (at least to begin with) on having sex. If it was all about companionship then everyone would be happy with a puppy, or we would make do with sharing a flat with a bunch of idiotic mates.

Every woman I've ever been with or fancied, I have wanted sex with. Those I haven't fancied I've only been friends with.

And I don't believe that women are any different either, they might just not want it quite as much as us men is all. Although having said that, I've known women who have always seemed to want it.

2006-11-28 03:26:38 · 31 answers · asked by Gilligan 5

i cant help myself i attack him for no reason and i dont know why

2006-11-28 03:26:32 · 30 answers · asked by LISA B 1

well, he is my fren.. we r in same course at university..

i like him.. in fact my feelings go a bit deeper than just "liking"..

he doesnt know..

i dont know about his feelings either; i dont want to ask him either.. coz if i ask him and he says NO, then i will feel very uncomfortable in his presence..

well, he txts me often.. asking this, asking that, etc.. he starts texting first most of the time..

he tells me things about himself, like things others dont know abt him, like things about his private life, his family etc..

recently, a fren told me he is interested in my fren.. i jokingly askd him if i should set this up for him? he started clarifying himself & told me he doesnt like the gurl.. he also asked me "why i dont trust him? why i trust others?"

he usually teases me about a guy.. (who is also in our course and i am quite close to him--only as fren!)

what do u think?? he likes me? or is there anything else more than that?or is it just frenship...?

Thanx

2006-11-28 03:25:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is a question for you guys.
I am a young lady, and I have been dating a man 6 years older than me for four months. I made an advance on the first night, and it went from there, at first he said nothing but kind things. Now he has become a control freak and doesn't even want to see me. He says I don't give him a chance to miss me, but it has been three weeks (yeah you know.) He claimed I am a perfect fit and has said before that I am a keeper and he could possibly fall in love with me, but he is a super serious guy and says he doesn't love many people. He hates almost everybody and is not very socialable. He doesn't care if people don't like him, but he is an amazing person. He was in the marines for three years and has been trained in martial arts his whole life. We were almost inseperable at first, now we don't even talk. Should I leave him alone? I need to tell him how i feel because I love him, but I don't think he loves me...Can you help me understand him?

2006-11-28 03:24:50 · 4 answers · asked by amy-j 2

I never really realized it until a few months ago when i tried it when an online friend who was into them had me try some stuff. I like to rub them along my clit, or wrap them around my 2 middle fingers and finger myself with them. Also I love to imagine them wrapped around a guys 'member' when he is sliding deep inside me. I guess i just like the smooth cold feeling. I also LUV guys with panty fetishes (no not meaning they like panties on girls, who the hell doesnt ) meaning they like to use them to masterbate as well. Also....you think i could maybe sell these panties if i had pictures showing proof that i really used them? I have a few pics of me using a dark purple pair, but i cant sell those I've already washed them. But in the future you think it'd work?

2006-11-28 03:23:46 · 13 answers · asked by emily_dotdotdot723 1

2006-11-28 03:23:30 · 12 answers · asked by jessica j 1

2006-11-28 03:21:29 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 03:20:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is really getting on my nerves lately. Every time we talk or are together he tries to act like he is so cool and a big shot and it is really starting to annoy the crap out of me. I don't know who he is trying to impress but he is always trying to act like he is so rich and cool and just all that and he isn't! I never encourage this behavior so I do not know why he feels it is necessary. He is like that to me, his friends, clients... It is all a big Yawn. I don't know if I'm just over the relationship or if he is just to immature for me. We've been together for awhile and everything else about him is fine. How can I tell him to cut it out without starting an argument.

2006-11-28 03:19:08 · 20 answers · asked by Freespirit 1

If your bf never says he loves you, and never calls you or comes to see you, then does he love me? I love him, but I have never told him, and if we do talk we never say it to each other. Should I tell him, even though it has only been four months and he might not love me? He is a super serious guy, and I feel we are on the verge of a break up. What should i do?
I love him, and i really want to tell him, but i don't think he wants to see me. Everytime we see each other I leave with my feelings hurt? Is it worth it?

2006-11-28 03:17:09 · 16 answers · asked by amy-j 2

2006-11-28 03:15:56 · 11 answers · asked by are u ready for dx then suck it! 1

2006-11-28 03:15:26 · 6 answers · asked by isthisinuisetoo 2

2006-11-28 03:12:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think that we underestimate the power of our "jewels" and even if we were to strike for just a week, we could bring men to their knees.

2006-11-28 03:12:00 · 15 answers · asked by Wasabi36 2

on and off for about 6 months now....to get cheap laughs and giggles.

do you think its time to stop??? is that enough already???

2006-11-28 03:10:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i had a question on why my boyfriend feels that he needs to think about stuff. Ok at the moment we are not together we agreed on not seeing other ppl ive kept my word but dont know if he has too.

Well since the "Thinking" talk (1 wk ago) hes been sweeter than ever he now calls more we have been intimate since it was a 2 yr and 1/2 relationship so yeah,.

Things have been the same i had Thanks Giving Dinner in his house he presented me as his girlfriend to one of his new friends.He got a call from his friends and he told him oh im just here with my girlfriend watching t.v.

But when i ask him why not be together he sais im thinking. so i question him on him seeing someone else and he sais no im thinking about my life i want to get my life straight give me a couple of wks.

This is all my fault since i broke up with him what to do?hes confusing me i dont want to be his "friend" i want to be his girlfriend he sais is nothing like that just to give him time IM CONFUSED

2006-11-28 03:10:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 03:09:45 · 28 answers · asked by pam 1

quick run down.
i started a new second job and there is only ONE hott guy working there, and we've been talking a little, but he is moving out of state in a couple days, and I approached him and he thinks im not serious about going out on a date before he leaves...i just want to tell him somthing funny or somewhat sexual, just for fun. anybody have a good idea on a line (or maybe a joke) i could tell him...??
and how the heck do i get him to not move away???
he's not leaving for any particular reason.
and he's my eye-candy...without him work will suck

2006-11-28 03:08:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 03:07:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating my current gf for about 6 months. Told me she told her ex she loved him. It was a long distance relationship (several states away) in which he cheated on her and she broke it off. Their relationship lasted about 4-5 months total. Things ended there back in late Dec and we started dating around end of July so its almost been a full year since they broke up. Should I be concerned with being the rebound? What are some signs I should look for? So far things seem to be going ok, but I still have my doubts sometimes she may not be over him even though I have been her longest relationship. She has not said she loves me by the way...we've talked about that and she says she isn't ready to say it just yet. Possilby afraid of being hurt again if she verbalizes it to me? Her actions make me think she loves me and she's told me that she feels comfortable with me and likes spending time together. She isn't needy or clingy and is a very independent person as well.

2006-11-28 03:07:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 03:05:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you like it and if so, tied up and spanked or just a bending over for you spankings. With a hand or whip or paddle?

Suggestions here.

Also if tied up blind folded?

Thanks again, Juleette

2006-11-28 03:05:10 · 32 answers · asked by Juleette 6

graduate school. During the early part of of it, he tells me he wants a relationship. Then he tells me he's isn't ready for one. Ok. Then I "caught" him w/someone. I remained cool but he took off running when he saw me. Why lie? Just be honest if you're seeing other people. I was! Things got tense btw us so we took a break, during which he started dating some girl.

Recently, he decided he wanted us to stop having sex. Cool. So I say, "No sex, no friendship." FWB rules. He flipped, saying that I was just using him for sex. Duh! But I indulge him and try being "friends". Soon it becomes apparent that it's not working (hence the reason I said no sex, no friendship in the first place)

So does he want a relationship? He says no, he's not ready; I say, you told me that before and then got into a relationship w/someone else. BS. I think he's intimidated because we're both in graduate school. He dates immature woman (his words) and complains about it all the time.

2006-11-28 03:05:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

for me it is finished in just 2 minutes. I am 45+ age. is it OK. Or can I go on longer time at it.

2006-11-28 03:05:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 03:04:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean really-aside from even more boring and painfull, cannot even imagine.

2006-11-28 03:03:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend broke up with me and I am still completely in love with him. We never argued or had any real problems. He only broke up with me because he didn't think he was good enough for me, which is silly because I always told him how wonderful he was. He didn't think he made enough money or spent enough time with me... and I'm not materialistic, so I didn't care that he was poor.
Anyway, I just need to know how to get over him because I don't want to think about him and the "what if", and all of that stuff.
I don't want to move on, but I know I should....to be healthy or whatever, so....any tips on that?

Oh, and for those of you who will suggest that I find someone new: I'm letting my X (father of my kids) try to start again because I do love him, I'm just not "in love" with him. I guess I figure that if I can't be happy with the one I want, at least I can let the kids and their father be happy. I'm used to being depressed anyway. So it's just going back to the way it was.

2006-11-28 03:02:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i go with dis guy 4 about 1 week and he's reeally nice but im not sure im feelin him like i used 2.

2006-11-28 03:02:37 · 6 answers · asked by Jameliza 1

Righto, Now I know this isnt one of the best places to ask this, but I have met a girl and become good friends with her. I make jokes and make her laugh, and last week she said "Your Different" in a good way, and recently "ur funi" via msn, also in a good way. She let me lok through her text messages as our hands touched, and we keep putting our arms over each other in a sly manner recently also. Now recently im unsure to whether shes starting to see me as just a friend, or sees me as more. Plus it seems the touching and such has gone done a tiny bit since last week.

I know I may be rushing and looking into things to much, but I would like some outside advise. Opinions? :)

2006-11-28 03:02:18 · 4 answers · asked by James 2