Singles & Dating - 24 November 2006

me and my bf hav been together for almost 2years. we are both 18 years old. I Love Him Very Much... But, we are both starting at different universities next year.. and the problem is that these two universities really are very far away from each other and we are never going to see each other. we decided, together, to end our relationship.

this was for me a very difficult decision and i'm still crying the nights through. we went on vacation and just returned. now for the harder part, how do i stop loving him? how do i stop sms'ing him and telling him to come over and watch a dvd, how do i stop calling him "love" and treat him like all my other friends? i can't, it's impossible..

at this moment we are still together and still very much in love, but when will be the right time to leave things and carry on with our seperate lives? this is the most difficult decision i ever needed to make, and now i dont know which way to turn.

any advice welcome, please help... :-(

2006-11-24 22:04:36 · 5 answers · asked by girl next door 1

Well me and my boyfriend don't live like to far away but we go to diffrent schools and we see eachother only on Mondays or sometimes he comes over. Me and him are deeply in love he protects me,he cares for me,he respects me he is everything to me. What I was wondering is do most relationships work if your not seeing eachother everyday? Or will it? Cause we both said that we don't want to keep coming to eachothers houses otherwise we will get tired of seeing eachother and we don't want that.

2006-11-24 21:59:59 · 10 answers · asked by Laberta W 2

Make lovE?

2006-11-24 21:53:44 · 12 answers · asked by LIZ 3

I dated this guy for 2 years. We broke up due to career reasons. He's very career oriented and doesn't want to have anything until he's completely done with his PHD. It's been about 2 years since we've broken up and I can still feel the love for him. And I know that he loves me deeply as well. The thing is we dont communication or see each other but I know the love is there. He wants me to give him couple years to complete his education and inbetween he wants nothing at all. I love him and deep down inside I know he is my true love. I dont know what to do...

2006-11-24 21:49:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

we meet daily ,before 2 months,but there was fighting in us daily,he told me that i fight with him so he decrease the days of meeting from 7 to 3 . i know he loves me lot , but i scare becz of our quarlls we may seperate with each other.

2006-11-24 21:48:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are not dating just flirting but I want to make sure he really likes me before making a move.

2006-11-24 21:46:44 · 8 answers · asked by Michele 3

What would you do?

2006-11-24 21:46:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

tell bout your opinion.plz i need it.

2006-11-24 21:42:32 · 15 answers · asked by rohan s 1

2006-11-24 21:41:46 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2

Ok, My friend (a girl) got into a fight with another girl in a parking lot. I had been away from them. When I came back I saw the fight and I just instinctively helped my friend. The other girl was kinda bent forward with her legs spread. I came up behind her and kicked her groin from behind as hard as I could. The girl dropped immediately and started moaning. After about a minute she started dry heaving like she was going to throw up. I am curious to know what happened to that girl. I had used the tip of my shoe and I might have gotten her button you know. I think maybe she was going a little bit into shock, because she turned pale and her lips turned a little blue. And also, when I kicked I felt her bone, the bone right in front. Just curious to know if any one has experienced anything like this. I didn't think that would have been as effective as it was. I mean I'm only a 110 little girl and I stopped this taller girl completely...

2006-11-24 21:33:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married to my wife for 3 years and 2 kids later. I have decided enough is a enough. I love my wife but her habits are not like mine anymore. Bless her heart but she looks like a man eating whale in the tub and if I dont leave her soon she might eat all my money away. What are the steps to divorcing my wife. I am not worried about having custody of the kids I feel I need to start over with my life. Kinda like a muligan.

2006-11-24 21:32:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were in a situation where you like this girl/boy, for you to be able to catch her/him, how would you do it. Would you start a bond of friendship? would you straight up tell her/him? would you wait for a very long time without telling her/him how you feel?
well for mine, I have deeply fallen in love with her yet how I react is as if we are only friends and I have known her for 3 weeks so far. The important question really is, am I doing the right thing? share your thoughts.

2006-11-24 21:31:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had boyfriends before but none of them looks serious to me...
its just i felt like i cant trust them completely...
i've never had a relationship longer than a month...
wut do you think is goin on?
any idea??

2006-11-24 21:30:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wealthy husband doesnt please me in bed...i've been cheating on him with his son and a few other people we've only been married for 6 months ..should i tell him i've been cheating on him...or should i tell him the truth his d1ck doesnt please me?? will i be able to collect his alimony money or is it to soon to divorce and collect?

2006-11-24 21:28:09 · 8 answers · asked by @ubreY 3

2006-11-24 21:26:48 · 3 answers · asked by jessikacollinson 1

I want to ask my aquantince out but can only do it by phone or letter of somekind

What do I do?

2006-11-24 21:26:13 · 5 answers · asked by crazyloverboyman 2

My girlfriend and i are going on 5 months everthing is great! However she is a smoker! at first i thought it would'nt bother me,
Now it is bothering to the piont that i don't like to kiss her as much,
and i don't like the way she smells like smoke. During a movie she will go out side 3 times to light up a cigarette, Thus ruin the enjoyment of her company. I guess she is making me feel to were I'M loosing my interest with her.. I have told her several times how her smoking bothers me. She does brush after a smoke but not ll the time, She wont quit! and I wont accept her smoking for very much longer! Any advice on my matter?

2006-11-24 21:19:18 · 22 answers · asked by FLEXizme 2

can any 1 help me to find out

2006-11-24 21:18:55 · 8 answers · asked by harpreet kaur 1

Well, i like someone. He's my classmate in 2 lessons. We often make eye contact. He also narrow his body toward me eventhough i sit across the room. In the first conversation, i look into his eyes, and he seems
nervous because after that eye contact, he swallow spit nerrvously. But, i don't know what to do.. The problem is he has lent his jacket to his friend (also my classmate). His friend is a girl, of course. And because they are in the same group (my class is divided into some groups), they often sit closely and seems like they are interested with each other. I'm too shy to make a move because he seems strange to me..He is myterious..When i get courage to make a move, feels like i wanna go back.

2006-11-24 21:18:13 · 12 answers · asked by pelagiasong 2

...if the your bf/finance cancelled your planned wedding or dumped you?

2006-11-24 21:17:24 · 16 answers · asked by sweety 3

ok...im asking as male behaviour confuses me somewhat in this respect... i wouldnt humiliate myself if i was rejected by a man by persistently hounding him and throwing myself at his feet... and i would respect his choice...as a single woman i am fairly regularly approached by guys and i find many of them are persistent at best if i reject them...(and i never give mixed signals actually im very plain and clear about these things)... and downright aggressive and unstable at worst...why do men behave like this..i wonder if some men see the answer 'no' as a challenge??? What about you girls? do you see this behaviour? or do you also see rejection as a challenge in this respect?...;0)

2006-11-24 21:15:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

HOW DO U KNOW WHEN YOUR REALLY IN LOVE?

2006-11-24 21:13:25 · 15 answers · asked by kbl_shorty 1

Ok: so i have lots of questions that need answering. In January 2005, ** asked me out. We went out for about 2 weeks then i dumped him because as soon as i dated him i felt like i didn't like him anymore. As soon as i broke up with him i wanted him back, but i didn't tell anyone that. I continued liking him and he continued liking me. In October 2006 we went out again, then after 3 weeks i dumped him because i felt like i didn't like him anymore. What is going on? Do i just like what i can't have? Also in the time we weren't going out, he got in all sorts of trouble - alcohol, drugs, police and he never came to school and spent weeks without going home. When we went out agian he came to school everyday and never went out. I'm afraid he will go back to his old self. Please tell me what to do, he said he loves me but i cut him down and told him i don't believe in love at this young (we are in high school). help!

2006-11-24 21:10:12 · 11 answers · asked by sarah 1

After our second child my wife cant seem to drop her pregnacy weight. She is almost 200 and I am starting to limit her portion of meals and monitor her drinks I cant watch her eating habits 24 hours a day but her fat butt would eat a hole in the table if she could. Please someone give me some advice on my obese wife . Is it ok to divorce her?
I work out and she sits can tell me who was on opera and hummms the scrubs show tune...I need advice on how to move humpty dumpty off the wall is what im saying....

2006-11-24 21:07:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

no this is for the first time

2006-11-24 21:05:07 · 8 answers · asked by Niranjan 3

My girlfriend wants me to go with her to a fancy naked ball, where all you wear is a headdress and a mask, but nothing else. It is quite fanciful as there will be a lot of rich people there. But I do feel embarassed with all these guys looking leerirly at me. Should I go?

2006-11-24 21:02:46 · 27 answers · asked by Nina. 1

Earlier tonight an old college friend of mine invited me out to a house warming party in his new house. There was alot of people and especially alot of great looking women. I was being social and making the rounds but not a single woman showed interest. My friend upon seeing this started introducing to me to his female friends and blatantly lying telling them I had inherited millions and was filthy rich. All of a sudden the same women who had shot me down were trying to sit on my lap and giving me their phone numbers. I have never beeen hit on so much in my life. I can't believe the turn around. Why is it that as soon as these women thought I was rich they wouldn't leave me alone but as a normal (even successful) guy they all ignored me?

2006-11-24 21:01:39 · 17 answers · asked by 65Cobra 2

I've been in a relationship for almost 6 years she was my first love. Over the time we were together i felt unhappy so I decided to tell her that. She wasn't happy with that because she felt that we were okay. But I felt that I needed space. So we seperated but were still close. After a while I felt like maybe being alone wasn't what i really wanted. So i finally told her that I was sorry and that i still loved her and was just confused about what I wanted. But I was to late she had found someone else. When I found out that I was sick, angry and hated everything about love. I couldn't stand it I let the person that I loved so much go and it hurted so much knowing that she was with someone else. I have been taking it really hard I cant stop thinking about her and all the moments that we shared. My heart is hurting and i cant stand it I want to get over her but its so hard what do i do?

2006-11-24 20:58:11 · 14 answers · asked by too_much stress 1

My girlfriend wants to marry me and I could see myself being with her, but I want to explore. I'm still in college and there's so many women I want to experience. Is this a problem?

2006-11-24 20:54:51 · 14 answers · asked by hahaman 1

i love this guy i have know him for god know how long we jsut broke up but i want him back and i know he wants me back to should i move on or what help?

2006-11-24 20:53:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous