i love this guy i have know him for god know how long we jsut broke up but i want him back and i know he wants me back to should i move on or what help?
2006-11-24 20:53:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're sure about him wanting to be with you, and vice versa, then by all means try for a reconciliation. Don't let foolish pride get in the way of all the time you've known each other. You know what you want. Go for it.
2006-11-24 21:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this right:
You have known each other for quite some time, broke up. . . mutually? Now, all of a sudden, you both want each other back. Is that because you both do not want to be alone and lacking an outlet for expression and emotional release? Typically when people break up it is the right thing to do. Typically when they get back together it isn't. You need to be honest with yourself regarding your motives. The "I just need someone to hold me-I don't want to be alone" motive is not sufficient. Do not prolong a relationship that is already over.
2006-11-25 04:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by DJL2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be a reason why you left. And it must be a good reason.
We all love someone that we can't be with.
I don't know what led you to the breakup but there must be a reason.
Does this guy give you what you need? Do you need to be abused or be made stupid? Make sure you take care of yourself and choose a guy who will love and respect you.
2006-11-25 04:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your positive you both love each other theres obviously some problem. If you want to continue the relationship bring it up and after that one of the first things you should do is fix or learn how to deal with that old problem
2006-11-25 05:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by Eric J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you broke up because of something in his personality, then it will probably never work. People can very rarely change who they really are. If he just made a mistake, however, then talk with him about it and maybe you can forgive each other and work it out.
2006-11-25 04:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by geektacular 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must of broke up for a reason, if there is still going to be problems why bother
2006-11-25 04:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by Imaginary Friend 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a lot of reasons to why you broke up sort these out first
is he kind do's he contol ya these sorta things
if he's into control and telling ya how and what to do dump him
if it's totaly the other way around well listen to your heart it will tell you what to do
2006-11-25 04:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant tell for sure if he likes u so move on there r many more fish in the sea
2006-11-25 04:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by cute gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then why did you break up????? sounds to me like you both have some growing up to do...good luck to you
2006-11-25 04:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you let him go and he returns, it was love, and if he doesn't come back on his own, let him fly child.
2006-11-25 04:58:02 · answer #10 · answered by some dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋