Ok: so i have lots of questions that need answering. In January 2005, ** asked me out. We went out for about 2 weeks then i dumped him because as soon as i dated him i felt like i didn't like him anymore. As soon as i broke up with him i wanted him back, but i didn't tell anyone that. I continued liking him and he continued liking me. In October 2006 we went out again, then after 3 weeks i dumped him because i felt like i didn't like him anymore. What is going on? Do i just like what i can't have? Also in the time we weren't going out, he got in all sorts of trouble - alcohol, drugs, police and he never came to school and spent weeks without going home. When we went out agian he came to school everyday and never went out. I'm afraid he will go back to his old self. Please tell me what to do, he said he loves me but i cut him down and told him i don't believe in love at this young (we are in high school). help!
2006-11-24 21:10:12 · 11 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-24 21:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I think you are WAY too young to be dating, and it's not your age. You are not taking this seriously. And he can't blame all his problems on you. You can't save him or fix him. Yes, relationships might give him stability, but if you date-and-dump, there's not much stable in that. Try being his friend. Find out what's going on that he's not going to school steadily. Maybe even tell a teacher what's going on. But you can't save him, and if you're just going to hurt him again, don't put him up to that.
2006-11-25 05:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your last sentence is the most intelligent part of the whole story! You're too young and immature...you shouldn't toy with someones heart by dumping and wanting them back, then dumping again, etc...Grow up first, then you will learn to respect love and human emotions
2006-11-25 05:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably just like the idea of some one liking you even if you dont like him. my advice, dont go out with him or any one, you oviously aren't ready for anything. loveing or liking.
the best you can do to help him from getting in to trouble is be a friend.
2006-11-25 05:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by Bean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont just cut him out of u r life be good friends atleast u n he wud b able 2 b with each other n u never know u r future wud b with him
2006-11-25 05:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by jaspriya m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to think of your career and future, what i suggest you is first concentrate on your studies,DO NOT SPOIL YOUR LIFE. i know you love him alot but due to some problems so please think twice before you do anything.
2006-11-25 05:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by NANI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your too cornfuzzed over this guy! (come here come here...... go away go awy!) Give him up and look for someone else!
2006-11-25 05:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand why he has problems listening to all your trash coming out of your mouth
2006-11-25 05:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him, u have better people and opportunities ahead of u,
2006-11-25 05:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should get married
2006-11-25 05:14:17 · answer #10 · answered by ali morad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋