i had boyfriends before but none of them looks serious to me...
its just i felt like i cant trust them completely...
i've never had a relationship longer than a month...
wut do you think is goin on?
any idea??
2006-11-24 21:30:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and is it right to end up the relationship if you dont have affection for the guy even if he has all the traits im lookin for? like being so nice and caring...
2006-11-24 22:19:26 · update #1
No need to worry. Many people feel pressured into thinking they have to have lots of relationships and date just like everybody else...but you don't! If you don't trust the guys, then you are totally justified in not staying with them.
2006-11-24 21:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are very apprehensive about any relationship with a boy. You are probably going into these relationships with a very skeptical attitude almost convincing yourself ahead of time that the relationship will not work. Sounds also like you don't want any relationship to work. Next time you get interested in someone to have a relationship begin with the attitude that I am not going into this relationship with any preconceived attitudes and I am going to let the relationship go where it goes and look at the boy with a positive attitude until or unless you have reason to question his actions. Give the guy a chance if you begin to really care for him. Always listen to your heart and follow what it tells you. Don't think so much about a relationship or worry over it unnecessarily. Just be yourself.
2006-11-25 05:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda have the same problem and i always say its cant be them it is me because i had like millions gfs its hard to believe that they are all wrong and im right! so honey look deep deep inside you and see what is ur really problem ,take a look at all ur ex's see what was the one thing incommen between them,
im not saying thats its all ur fault nah they take the blame too
it takes time to find the right guy but its still u got a problem too and done be afraid to admit it cause the first step to fix anything is admit that u got a problem right ? u cant fix thing when u see theres nothing wrong with it
good luck hun
bye
2006-11-25 05:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you hook up with a lot of guys? If so, that is probably why your boyfriends don't look at you seriously, because they don't respect you because of all the things you've done with other guys. If you want a guys to respect you stop hooking up with other guys. If you don't do that, then maybe guys don't respect you because your too young for a relationship. Just wait a few years until you really understand what love is.
2006-11-25 05:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things....you are dating the wrong kind of guys....the kind no one should trust.
Secondly, you probably have your own trust issues that need to be delt with.
Make a choice to change for the better
2006-11-25 05:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just taking you awhile to find the right guy with the right spark.
Keep looking honey.
2006-11-25 05:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by Iselin T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrongs with you. you just haven't fell truly in love yet
2006-11-25 06:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by pany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give urself time.....enjoy the single life, it has it's own rewards
when ur married, it's gone!
2006-11-25 05:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by Sizzle Pizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋