Singles & Dating - 21 November 2006

PPL pls i neeed help =)
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2006-11-21 16:48:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this ex gf that i dated for 3 years. I love her with all my heart! i messed up in the relationship even thought she was far from being perfect. I took her for granted and should have showed her alot more attention and showed her i loved her. We started off on a break but lead to a break up it has been 2 months. Since then im the one that has tookin it hard i feel like she is controling the situation. i wont call her but she will call me every so often wanting to hang out. When we hang out she says "if we get back togather" then she will say that we are only friends at the moment no affection thing is i dont call her she calls me what are her Intentions she says "she wants to start over as friend and rebuild the trust" is that just her keeping me attached? or is she serious?

2006-11-21 16:47:53 · 1 answers · asked by Confused 1

my boy friend(ast) dosn't except any advice and he dosn't talk about any thing in world except the cat, he think that he can have a child have cat have human like some of the illustrated fotos, i love my boy friend very much and i can't fix his mind, he was so cute until he met this cat, so he was straight and never thought about any man, all he did that he was looking to some beutiful girls and kiss them, in the street.
the cat is so ugly and has a very long knose, so he adupted him from the street, and he is sleeping with him every night and leaving me alone, unless he want me to feed the cat then he wil ask me to do.
i need help what shall i do?
already i have a very nice child from my boy friend and he loves his dad also.

2006-11-21 16:45:37 · 1 answers · asked by nano 2

i met this guy a while back at a highschool football game. Me and my friend hung out with him and his friend and really had a grreat time.but the week after the guy i liked wouldn't hang out with his friend who is my best friends boyfriend and i didn't get to see him.when my friend was making out with her boyfriend i said i was getting bored trying to hide them from everyone else so her boyfriend said do you want me to go find him and i said i don't care and we found him but he just kept walking away but then he boyfreind said i know that if he would listen to me he would say yes to making out with you.

2006-11-21 16:41:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

just curious, but if a guy friend is showing signs that he likes you, how would you deal with it if:

A) you thought he was cute?

B) you were not interested?

2006-11-21 16:38:13 · 47 answers · asked by mr E 2

He works a 12 hour nite shift and comes to my house to visit at about 2 pm every day to take a "nap". He goes upstairs, removes all of his clothes down to his birthday suit and then crawls in bed and tells me he will see me in about an hour. We have dated for 5 years. I wish he would just "nap" at his own house. I work a full time job 12 hours a day 4 days a week too. Today, he went with me to the post office, to the bank and used my phone because his is broken. How do I tactfully get him to stop doing his daily routine which is screwing up my life routine?

2006-11-21 16:37:47 · 52 answers · asked by happydawg 6

2006-11-21 16:37:39 · 32 answers · asked by Andy8875 2

my guy just dumped me and is now dating my best friend. should i be pissed at both of them or just him?

2006-11-21 16:36:35 · 34 answers · asked by mArY~eVeLyN 1

I had made contact with a very attractive girl on match.com.
We talked/imd/emailed back and forth several times about 3 months ago.
She was actually in the process of relocating near where I lived (no not because of me because of work/family)
She told me repeatedly that she was swamped with buying a new home, packing up her old condo and moving 150 miles.
She told me that she was hoping to be moved in a about 4 weeks (this would have been 2 months ago today)
I haven't heard from her in three months at all. I tried calling her once and looked for a lot online. I accidentally deleted her email, so I couldnt find her !
I finally saw she was online last night and im'd her. She acted surprised and happy to hear from me. She said she tried iming me a couple times/calling twice but never got a reponse. Ack !
So we ended up talking last night for hours.
She is so cute and seems great.
But is it weird that I didnt see or hear from her for 3 months ?
Thats a long time.

2006-11-21 16:34:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a girl loves you,but you do not know whether you love her or not,so how to solve this dilemma?

2006-11-21 16:33:56 · 16 answers · asked by ctruth 1

he thinks we're risking eternity, anyway. I'm not fully converted yet, so he is not allowed to consider me for marriage, and also our church is against dating. He says he can't be around me because of tempatations and not wanting to fall into sin...but my love for him is so intense, I don't care if we do go to Hell...how could God send us to Hell just for loving each other?

2006-11-21 16:33:23 · 19 answers · asked by ? 6

Would my girlfriend (She's 14) like this as a christmas gift?
http://www5.jcpenney.com/jcp/ProductImageview.aspx?IT=G&ID=1033802&MD=&GRT=&E=&SA=F&VT=ZV&I=0900631b810f2b4cM.TIF&VAS=&AV=T&RGB=&AS=&AST=&BID=&VID=&PopUpBlocked=true&RU=PROD%257c11848%257c29615%257cDEP%257cG%257cSIZ%257c1033802%257c1%257c56%257c%257cjewelry%257c%257c%257cSearchDepartment&CmCatId=EXTERNAL|29615
Would you wear it often, is it dressy?
Also, what are some things I could to hint that I want to kiss, we have already kissed before?

2006-11-21 16:32:35 · 20 answers · asked by Zach S 5

I am worried that it could be at the heart of some problems, but she won't tell me. Sorry to ask. I swear I'm not out to gauge or judge, but I am just terrified to empathize with the pain she might be going through if my instincts are even partly correct.

What might be some signs that a girl has been raped? What sorts of nuances might manifest themselves in a relationship?

Like I said, from what I know, this is starting to add up and I am scared as hell.

2006-11-21 16:32:16 · 8 answers · asked by randyken 6

2006-11-21 16:32:15 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 17 and he's 14 and I'm nervous about hopefully seeing him on Friday - I shouldn't be! I'm older than him and known him for over 10 years! How can I get over this?

2006-11-21 16:31:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

he tells me i'm going to see him and he dosent call me.

2006-11-21 16:31:15 · 12 answers · asked by capicorn7 1

2006-11-21 16:30:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

guys and girls opinions please

2006-11-21 16:30:39 · 10 answers · asked by vesto slipher 1

Ok i got a friend he is kinda fat not like take up the whole hallway but he gots some extra bagage hes was like 5'7 185 lbs at the end of football about a month ago, and he thinks the reason he cant get a girl is cause hes fat and every girl he likes wouldn't go out with him even though hes a good guy, im just normal wieght and i told him i think hes wrong but he wont listen so the real question is girls would u go out with a bigger guy.

2006-11-21 16:30:27 · 16 answers · asked by iowadude92 2

I have a guy friend (yes- only friend and both of us are completely happy with that). We are both sixteen and neither of us has ever been involved in a romantic relationship. We have a very childlike relationship; we fight like brother and sister, and still get into tickle fights. It’s is nice to have that relationship because there is no tension between us, we can collapse on the couch after fighting and have our legs completely intertwined without feeling uncomfortable.
Today, I left him playing on my computer while I went out to walk the dog for probably about 20 min. After he left I pulled up Windows Media Player on my computer and it had a video on it from this website http://www.girlvinyl.com/eel/ The video is of a Japanese girl (I think, I closed it really quickly) putting eels in a place they do not belong (don’t open this video if there are children present or if you have a weak stomach, like me lol)
So my question is this, is this like some bizarre fetish, like is he getting a kick out of this or is it like “Oh nasty, man. Lets watch it again!” male attitude? I don’t know what it means, but after that I went and checked the history on my computer and he went strait to the website, it wasn’t a Google search, so I guess that means he has been there before.

2006-11-21 16:30:20 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah 2

ok so this guy asked me out and he had a gf but broke up with her because he thought I would say yes.Now we are going out but I think I made the wrong choice by saying yes.He is not hot but his personality is what gets me.My friends think it's weird so when they ask me if im going out with him I tell them no.I talk to him everynite but my friends would hate me if I went out with him.He tries to hug me and kiss me at school and I push him away even though I don't want too!What should I do!

2006-11-21 16:30:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

do guys prefer cute, smart, innocent looking girls? or hot, head-turning but ditzy girls?

I've heard that the cute = long-term, and hot = short-term one-night stand... true?

2006-11-21 16:29:39 · 14 answers · asked by sweet-nothings 1

Just finished my 360 pg....tell me what you think.

2006-11-21 16:29:16 · 6 answers · asked by D.F.T.R. 1

So here is my dilema.... my ex girlfriend broke my heart not once but twice over two years of dating. Cheated on me, lied to me, etc., really bad stuff.

Anyways... now i have a new girlfriend the nicest, caring, loving girl in the whole wide world and i couldnt picture myself without her. However, on a daily basis i am having dreams with my ex girl friend either we are together or apart or we see each other or we get into a fight, then i wake up and thank god i am no longer with her.

Can someone please suggest something i can do to stop thinking or dreaming about this?

2006-11-21 16:28:49 · 14 answers · asked by pele3844 1

A girl who is a good friend of mine just kissed me on the ear. Then sorta just announced it to the people around and joked about it.

Does this mean I shouldnt take it as something? Or is this a hint that she likes me?

2006-11-21 16:27:37 · 8 answers · asked by greener 1

been with my bf for 6 yrs and have a 4 yr old, he asked me to marry him like 3 yrs ago actually it was a verble agreement since I was preg. but here we are 3 yrs later and still no ring, should I be upset? need advice plz.

2006-11-21 16:26:29 · 12 answers · asked by ///\oo/\\\ 4

I love my girlfriend, she gave me lots of chances, and now i make another mistake. She doesnt forgive me. How?
I love my girlfriend, she gave me lots of chances because i had promised her not to make anymore mistake. And now i make another mistake cuz of jeslousy and she doesn't wants to forgive me already. She wanna break off because she can't take it anymore. How can i get back to her?

The mistake i make was when she wanted to go out with her cousin and i said i wanted to follow her. And she dont allowed me to follow her. Normally she will let me follow her but i dont know why on that day she dont allow me to follow. So we i just followed her and we started to quarrel because she said i don't trust. But i really do trust her only i felt abit fishy when she dont allowed me to follow her.

2006-11-21 16:26:26 · 9 answers · asked by Javier 1

I dont really like giving blow jobs but do it cos I love my husband but I never complete the job, i always stop before he cums cos I hate the taste and the whole idea of it all. I want ot spice up the bedroom abit and would like to give him a complete head job but am dreading it!!! What ways can I spice up the bedroom and how can i successfully give him a ******** and not HATE IT!!!??? We have bought a vibrator and he loves it as much as I do and we occassionally watch porn but I want to BLOW him away with a new technique that I can surprise him with!!! TYPE AWAY PLEASE!!! We got married in March 2006. I am 20 and he is 22!!

2006-11-21 16:25:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any Ideas? I really need help. I'm going to see him tomorrow, and I need to really tell him but without coming straight out with it! Guys help me! And girls but I need a guys opinion!

2006-11-21 16:23:24 · 13 answers · asked by Hannah 1

Im wit this girl and i wanna hav her get the fact that im really ready to spend alot of my time bein with her and bein her man how do i get this across do i just say it or is there a more romantic way of doing it? ( Not marry her yet, but just let her kno im ready to be her man and take the next step in our relationship)

2006-11-21 16:23:05 · 10 answers · asked by genpattonwwii 2