I have a guy friend (yes- only friend and both of us are completely happy with that). We are both sixteen and neither of us has ever been involved in a romantic relationship. We have a very childlike relationship; we fight like brother and sister, and still get into tickle fights. It’s is nice to have that relationship because there is no tension between us, we can collapse on the couch after fighting and have our legs completely intertwined without feeling uncomfortable.
Today, I left him playing on my computer while I went out to walk the dog for probably about 20 min. After he left I pulled up Windows Media Player on my computer and it had a video on it from this website http://www.girlvinyl.com/eel/ The video is of a Japanese girl (I think, I closed it really quickly) putting eels in a place they do not belong (don’t open this video if there are children present or if you have a weak stomach, like me lol)
So my question is this, is this like some bizarre fetish, like is he getting a kick out of this or is it like “Oh nasty, man. Lets watch it again!” male attitude? I don’t know what it means, but after that I went and checked the history on my computer and he went strait to the website, it wasn’t a Google search, so I guess that means he has been there before.
2006-11-21 16:30:20 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys from the beginning of puberty till they die are more visual than women, which means they like porn, but at his age it is curiosity more than anything else. I wouldn't freak out fairly normal for a sixteen year old. Another thing to keep in mind is that most males do not mature mentally as quick as women. I know, I am male but having been around since the age of dirt I pretty much can surmise that one. They have a tendency of being foolish longer,immature longer, playing with toys longer, that means going from actual toys to adult toys such as cars and motorcycles.
So him checking out bizarre porn is not that surprising, as long as he isn't trying to act it out then you can chill.
2006-11-21 16:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by John E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey I am a guy and have watched very weird, sick, and twisted pornos before. And it is just extremely interesting, and somehow satisfying to watch these weird acts. Their was a few I couldnt watch all the way, I never watched again. You could guess what those were.. LOL. But yeah dont think nothing of it. He was just curious and wanted to see a girl stick an eel in her cooch. That is all. Hey.. I think I am gonna go watch it too... Lol.
2006-11-22 00:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by Cody B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yep, I had to look. Call it morbid curiosity. That was probably the sickest s#*^ I've ever seen. First of all, don't let your boyfriend use your computer anymore. He's liable to go to a site that gives your computer a virus. Second, stay away from this wacko. Tell him you'll show this site to his parents if he comes near you again.
2006-11-22 01:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know whats on that boys mind, but what ever it is it's ****** up. I like a little porn myself, but that was some nasty $hit. My advice, stay away cause something ain't right with that boy.
2006-11-22 01:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by Great one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad that you had the foresight to include the web address. Because after that vivid description, I'm sure that some pervs will want to see it in full. Maybe you 'friend' has some more websites that he would like you to plug?
2006-11-22 00:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok girl....
Several things:
1. Thanks for that lovely description about your guy friend and you hanging out (I thought you were gonna ask about him) - that's irrelevant.
2. You may be jumping the shark with this - perhaps he got linked into the site and was just curious to find out.
If you really want to know - ask the fella
2006-11-22 01:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by sunsetconmartini 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That means your friend has got some some issues. He probably gets off on that sick $hit.
2006-11-22 00:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by Styliztik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is nasty girl...i can't even believe you would put that site on....anyways boys will be boys and we all have nasty thoughts but wow that is a first for me. awk, i cant stop thinking about it now..
2006-11-22 00:46:58 · answer #8 · answered by ravinaznrich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋