my guy just dumped me and is now dating my best friend. should i be pissed at both of them or just him?
2006-11-21 16:36:35 · 34 answers · asked by mArY~eVeLyN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i guess that is all up to you. I would personally be upset about it what is your best friend doing dating a guy you were going with anyway? Jeeze people have no morals anymore now do they?
2006-11-21 16:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be pissed with him, but you should be MORE pissed with her!
She was (is, im not sure) your best friend and she goes and backstabs you by going out with Your boyfriend!?!?! That doesnt seem to be a good friend! or a friend at all! Cut both of them off! They are both HUGE jerks! Would you have done that to her? Would you make your friend feel pain by dating her boyfriend? Thats sick on soo many levels! Ditch BOTH of them and find REAL friends that care about you and wouldnt try to hurt you. You seem to me that you are a beautiful girl. You can do way better than these two. Cut your losses , because its them who got duped!
Best whishes!
Peace
2006-11-21 16:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay you have every right to be pissed at both of them cuz that both had your trust and your best friend sould never do that to you for no reason!!! for get the both of them and when they break up she will feel real bad becuz nothing is better then friendship!! Just move on and let her know that you no longer trust her nor need her kind of friendship! and him god he is a guy so be pissed but move on from him you will find way better then him. That was both their lose!!
But i hope you get things fixed! and remember that karma will get the both of them
2006-11-21 16:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be pissed at either of them.
You should be happy that your guy showed himself to be who he is, and that your best friend took him off your hands.
You're the lucky one.
And technically, their actions served to help point you in another direction, where you can find true happiness.
Things happen for a reason.
Be happy, don't worry. This was a good thing.
2006-11-21 17:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of them. Me and all my best friends have a mutual pact to never date one of our exs. That is true friendship. They are both traitors and deserve no satisfaction from seeing your pain. Ignore them both for as long as you all shall live. And find another guy so they can also feel the pain you feel. Atleast the guy. And your friend will regret it later, when he dumps her for one of her other friends!
2006-11-21 16:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by Cody B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be pissed at both.... She agreed to go out with him as well. a relationsihp is a two way street not a one way. If she would have said no they wouldn't have been together. Its girl code that you aren't supposed to do that!!!! be pissed off! you have every right! at least you know how horrible they are now! and it least he dumped you before cheating! cheating hurts horribly! good luck and i'm sorry
2006-11-21 17:01:47 · answer #6 · answered by LIZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have the right to be mad at both of them. but the best thing to do is to not hold grudges against them for too long. soon in time you will get over it. it can be hard because first of all you cant do anything about it because you cant blame him or your friend for liking eachother. i say loose the guy and keep your best friend close by you
2006-11-21 16:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy. Thats what could be expected from western culture. Just find a suitable guy and get married to him. Regarding your guy and your best friend just ignore that something wrong has happened and be friendly with them because this would hurt them more as they are not expecting this from you.
2006-11-21 16:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definantely be pissed off at both of them, especially your supposed 'best friend'. She just showed you her true character. People like that you should trust them as far as you can throw them. Cut strings with her cause she shows lack of respect and loyalty. You can find someone better than that.
2006-11-21 16:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by Icky B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would just be pissed off at him and move on. Your friend is one of the best things that can happen. Just be pissed off at him.
2006-11-21 16:44:51 · answer #10 · answered by Lexi Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋