if a girl loves you,but you do not know whether you love her or not,so how to solve this dilemma?
2006-11-21 16:33:56 · 16 answers · asked by ctruth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You question yourself , whether you could live with her forever. Will you be able to marry her . Does both of you have same understanding and patience in all the matters etc, etc and you will get your answer. Be positive nature will take care. All the best.
2006-11-21 16:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do not know whether you love her or not, then sadly you don't know yourself.
What exactly do you mean by saying that you don't know whether you love her or not?
Do you care for that person?
Do you think about how excellent that person is, no matter what others say?
Would you like to give that person a hug?
I guess it all comes to what you believe, but if she loves you, the best thing is to love her back, at least be her friend.
2006-11-21 16:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by John Doe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U know the answer actually. All this while u jus treat her like your other friends, nothing so special. Just friends. Dats why u asked the question.. No nid to solve anything. Jus be urself as usual. If she confesses to u dat she loves you, jus tell her in a nice way dat u got no special feelings for her and would like to be jus friends. Be prepared, she might avoid u. JUs let it be. After some time, then only u talk to her. Things will be alrite....
2006-11-21 16:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by libby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her the truth obviously, but if u only like her for her looks or u truly like her just not that much, then u dont love her. if u would care for her thru thick and thin no matter what to works things out for yall...its love. if not, its either lust, or u realy do care, it just hasnt developed as much...the worst thing in a relationship is unbalanced feelings. things always end, when one person likes someone more than the other.... so if u want to stay together, just tell her ur not ready, she'll understand
2006-11-21 16:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by foreveryoung 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I all ways told my kids that if you feel that this person is the best friend you have ever had and you feel like you have always known her. then she is your soul mate and you will be happy with her. If you can't say that about her nor her about you then back away. If you are meant for each other you will get the opportunity again in your life to court her
2006-11-21 17:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by grannee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself these questions
are you attracted to any girls? if you are in love nobody else looks good.
Could you marry this girl? could you have kids spend the rest of your life with her?
Would you do anything for her? spend all your money, move somewhere to be with her, clean her dirty socks, bake her pie. anything.
Have you ever felt this way before!?
sometimes love takes time to build. see if its love but usually you know and it will hit you all at once.
2006-11-21 17:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by LIZ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Follow your instinct or you can spend more time with, by talking or having fun together, only then, you know her personality and whether she is for you.
2006-11-21 17:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by Me'Shell 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what dilemma? is this girl your girlfriend? is she just a random person? it's okay if she loves you but you don't love her back yet. it happens
2006-11-21 16:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if a girl love me means my bad time start
2006-11-21 16:54:55 · answer #9 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you started to feel different when you are with her. love moves mysteriously, you know
2006-11-21 16:55:44 · answer #10 · answered by Janna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋