I'm 17 and he's 14 and I'm nervous about hopefully seeing him on Friday - I shouldn't be! I'm older than him and known him for over 10 years! How can I get over this?
2006-11-21 16:31:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be calm and collected!
Be confident~ Your older, you have nothing to prove. He's younger, he's probably as nervous about seeing you as you are with him. Just remember you are a great and beautiful person and that anyone could like you. Make sure your personality shines and everything will go perfect. Be yourself and no one else! Just remember how great you are! You have no reason to be nervous! Think positive!
Good luck!
Peace
2006-11-21 16:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOA!!!!!!!!!!! big age difference icic. if you two get married the age difference wouldn't matter cuz so many people have even bigger age differences. just take a deep breath before you get nervous and think positive. the worse thing you can possibly do is embarrase yourself. treat him like as if he were one of your guy friends. that's what i do when i talk to my crush and we are like close friends now. another thing you might consider is start a conversation with him. start off with "so how was your day?" or "how is life treating you?" simple talk is easy and anyone can do it. i heard popcorn calms you down and bananas releves stress. try eatting that before you talk to him.
2006-11-22 01:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by DANCER_CHiCK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you would want to see a boy so much younger but that is beside the point. Don't worry about making an impression...he already knows who you are . . and obviously likes you. But for later reference...just be yourself. No lies to cover up, no secrets to come out etc. Believe me, it pays in the long run.
2006-11-22 00:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by Poohcat1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take a few deep breaths.. Its ok if you are nervous.. Anytime yu start feeling anxious, just count to ten and take some deep breaths. Its going to be ok. I mean really .. whats the worst that could happen.. ???
2006-11-22 00:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kristen M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deeeep breaths. Seriously - hyperventilating will kick in your body's "fight or flight" response. Take a deep breath, count to three, then let it out slooooowly.
You remind yourself that you've seen him before and gotten along okay - you've known him since he was 4.
You remind yourself that he is still "him" and you are still "you," and you'll be fine, whatever happens.
Then you take another deeep breath.
2006-11-22 00:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds suspicious to me. What is it you are nervous about?? If you are thinking about something you shouldn't be with an underage boy, wait till he's of legal age. If that isn't what you are talking about then why are you nervous??
2006-11-22 00:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by art_tchr_phx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a romantic thing? 17 yr old females and 14 yr old males do not make a good match...unless you're really immature.
2006-11-22 00:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down,age has nothing to do with liking someone.
2006-11-22 00:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.. thats like me and my ex.. only i was 13 and she was 16. but that was then. all you need to do it go with it and not think about him in any way. thats what i do.
2006-11-22 00:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by RazaBlade Kanible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you hit 18. he's jail bait. you might want to wait. seriously!
2006-11-22 00:35:34 · answer #10 · answered by anonymoushorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋