Singles & Dating - 8 November 2006

I'm supposedly straight...but lately I have a lesbian friend who I went to highschool with who is now at my college and for some reason I've been finding myself attracted to her as well as another girl in my class. I mentioned it to my boyfriend and he said that anything I do with a girl isn't considered cheating. Should I experiment to find out where I stand sexually or hope its a phase and leave it alone?

2006-11-08 09:03:50 · 14 answers · asked by Cathy 4

She told me she loved me and wanted to get married, but now she tells me this and I think my heart is broken. Should I leave her or tell her its ok to fool around with other Lebaneese, as long as she comes home to me?

2006-11-08 09:03:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i have a secret crush on this guy he is a sophmore and today my friend told me that she thinks he's hot and going to ASK him out
what should i do???

2006-11-08 09:02:44 · 9 answers · asked by Italyfan 4

What do they do that puts a smile on your face or is it them just being who they are?

2006-11-08 09:01:05 · 21 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3

ill tell you mine. It was a friday night and i was at a boy-girl slumber party, we had fun but at the end of the night we played a game. who ever choose a 6 out of a hat had to dance naked with your crush. I choose 6!! slowly i removed my clothes revealing my bra and underwear. suddenly slow music came on and i danced naked with my crush and rumer spread around at school! i was 13 and the time and there was 14 boys and 12 girls there!

2006-11-08 09:01:00 · 4 answers · asked by Gloria. 2

I have this friend, Mike. He's my best friend. I've known him for about three months. Everyone tells us that we would be so perfect for eachother. We also have this friend, Nicole. Nicole feels that Mike doesn't want to be her friend and doesn't like her. To assure her that he was wrong, at lunch today, I asked Mike, "Hey Mike, is Nicole your friend?" and he replied "Yes. She is my friend." and Nicole replied "No, he's lieing." Then Mike said "No, If I was lieing, it would take me a long time to answer..." We continued eating, not thinking anything of it, and so I talked to him. "Mike, if I ask you a question, will you be completely honest with me?" He said "Sure." so I asked "Do you like me as more than a friend?" There was a long pause and he said "...No, not really" and we left it at that. Next hour Nicole brought it to my attention that he paused when he said no. was that his way of telling me yes? Or does he really not like me? I'm hanging out with him and friends tonight.

2006-11-08 09:00:12 · 8 answers · asked by Sam 2

I have recently split up with a guy I have been living with, and since I have been on my own (last three months) I have had a good time going out with my mates. I met this guy who too is also recently single and we hit it off well. We decided to keep it casual which suited us both. a kind of special friend for sex only (its not good to sleep with lots of different guys in my eyes but come on, we have basic needs!!!) All was fine and I was enjoying the casualness of it and also the company. We went out on a date, which was a little disasterous to be honest, but I after I went back for 'coffee' I found I am now feeling used and a little cheap and I actually like him more than I wanted too. Knowing that something was up he asked me, to which I replied 'maybe I like you more than I prehaps should' expecting some sort of reply to confirm how he felt. But got the answer that he is messed up and does not to get involved. so my question is why do women need men more?

2006-11-08 09:00:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I use to enjoy sex with my boyfried until he became disrespectful to me . We spoke about his disrespect and he has shown improvement. I want to start enjoying sex again with him but every time I try I do not get excited at all , he normally has to force his way into me which can be painful at times . I just perfer to cuddle , but him on the other hand dosen't want that and he's becoming very fustrated .

2006-11-08 08:59:01 · 15 answers · asked by cutecarribbeanbutterfly 1

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years now, we're really close to getting engaged. I love him more than anything but he's just not romantic at all. Any ideas how I can get him to be more romantic? I've tried telling him flat out that he needs to step it up, but it's just not working...

2006-11-08 08:58:39 · 4 answers · asked by Cindy 3

2006-11-08 08:58:37 · 15 answers · asked by ALMAS 1

2006-11-08 08:58:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

when you're retired and you've lived most of your life, you're sitting on your front porch admiring the view....who's there with you?

2006-11-08 08:58:07 · 9 answers · asked by Cathy 4

I am doing a class project and I need your help. Tell me your perfect mate, along with your age, ethnicity, gender, and how your religion views marriage and relantionships. This information is an improtant part of my project, because it helps me to understand your standards. no dumb answers please and thank-you.

2006-11-08 08:57:42 · 3 answers · asked by Dance Diva 2

There's this junior guy that I really like, but his friends intimidate me since they are so much older (juniors and seniors), so I don't talk to him. He knows who I am, and he agrees that we should talk more in person instead of just online. However, we are both too shy to say anything to each other!! What shoud I do?

I need help fast!

2006-11-08 08:55:08 · 15 answers · asked by Kate 1

and it didn't go quite as you planned? heres some background info...been friends (really good friends...goodtimes..lots of laughs etc) for years...dating for 6mos+ having a gr8 time...but I told him that I thought that I was falling in love with him and it didn't really go all that well...he basically said hmm thats nice...I then told him I didn't want it to be a big deal..thats just how I thought..b/c we're always honest with each other about stuff......he also lives hours away as he's at school....so I haven't heard from him in a bit..(which is normal)..but I'm just wondering...should I tell him that I take it back? that it's ok if he doesn't feel the same way? that I don't want to put pressure on him?? HELP!!

2006-11-08 08:53:59 · 21 answers · asked by deeperthensix 1

I believe in the Lord jesus christ, and I know that when you pray for something you have to be patience and know that God blesses you in his time and not your. I'm becomming a little impatience at time, I have asked the Lord to bless me with a good sole mate. I'm not dating now, I'm not having sex now. I'm waiting on the Lord. Don't get me wrong I'm not just sitting at home playing with my fingers, I'm busy with meetings, family, friend, outing. I'm fairly attrative, I keep my self up. I'm in pretty good phyically condition but it like men don't even see me. I feel like if I was the only woman on earth on a deserted island the men would all go to the other side of the island. I'm becomming depress, what wrong with me.

2006-11-08 08:53:22 · 7 answers · asked by Ellen J 2

I caught my boyfriend watching porn last night and I got so angry! Im really jealous of him watching big boobed naked girls it hurts me so much. He said he doesnt want to have sex with the girls in the movies but I find that hard to believe. He wants me to watch it with him, but i dont no if I can I would maybe feel worse with him seeing the naked girls. Does anyone know how I can change my thinking and be ok with his? Im so paranoid cause I no hes being sneaky and doing it behind my back, I could go as far as to end it with him, but I live with him and I dont want to be so drastic

2006-11-08 08:53:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

high school girls.

2006-11-08 08:52:33 · 5 answers · asked by Kevin 2

I know a bunch of you guys out there say stuff about who your friends are dating and they ultimately dump them. What are some of these magic phrases?

I have a relative who is dating a girl whom everyone in the family hates. Even the grandparents. She is manipulative and so is her mother. They have pulled all kinds of crap behind everyone's back and then she goes and cries to him and he takes her back.

Please help me out by giving me something to say to him. I don't need nasty/attacking, I need thoughtful reasoning.

2006-11-08 08:51:56 · 18 answers · asked by RAR24 4

I love this kid and I really want him to realize it. I need some lyrics that will let him know that. Nothing cheesey please... and it should be a good song. I like 30SecondsToMars and things like that. We went out a year ago but we broke up, just because we never say each other and I felt pathetic. but now I feel really stupid. And he's afraid to talk to me in person for some reason, but we talk every day online. He just doesn't realize how much I still love him. oh, and he has a girlfriend, too. please help me!

2006-11-08 08:51:54 · 7 answers · asked by Dea. 3

that having S.E.X and making Love are to completly different things and be honest

2006-11-08 08:51:46 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

yesterday i had just gttn off work i was tired and just am now gettin over a cold, it was kinda nasty out and we needed something fromt eh store given its not far way but i didnt feel much like wlaking and my BF got mad at me cuz ia sked him to drive me( i dont have a lisense) he got mad cuz i didnt wanna walk and called me a spoiled brat

2006-11-08 08:50:44 · 17 answers · asked by Lilmisssassy 4

Theres this guy i like and i think he likes me because he usally lets me cut in the lunch line at school. And one day i was just 2 people away from him and he grabbed his friend and came over to me, so i don't know what to do i think he likes me and my friend thinks so too. He came looking for me one day at my friends locker, and asked who my teacher was. HELP ME! (please no joke's)

2006-11-08 08:50:16 · 5 answers · asked by I think im in love<3 1

2006-11-08 08:47:46 · 14 answers · asked by guyfreefun 2

2006-11-08 08:47:44 · 22 answers · asked by Another Addict 2

well my b/f and i were involve in a shoot out like 2 months and half ago.....well we were in his car in front of my house talking then i notice this guy getting close to the car then i notice he had a gun on his hand he just started shooting at the car like crazy......well what trying to say that since that day my b/f dosent want to go out that much since from that terrible experience he got shot 6 times...2 on each leg and 2 on his back ....and he dosent gang bang u get me right he aint no gangster and dosent look like one....but anywayz since then he has change alot he is not the same confident guy from before. i get sad to see his fear of going out i want to help him out to be my same b/f from before how could i help him when i have the fear he has......

2006-11-08 08:47:42 · 6 answers · asked by yessika_213 1

I just started dating a really great guy. We've known each other for a year and 1/2 and have kept in contact really well. We've emailed and talked on the phone all the time. We just started dating (about a month) and it's starting to get a little serious. He lives in northern california and I live in southern california and I want him to move here. The problem is, if he moves here, he wants to live with me. Im excited about it but also scared. Is it too soon? I know my parents wont like it as well. I want to move in with him but I'm not sure it's the best idea. He wants to live with me because it is reallly exspensive here, he wont know anybody else, and I will be at his house ALL the time anyway, we really like and care about eachother, and my lease is up so I need to look for a new place. So, what do u think?

2006-11-08 08:47:29 · 5 answers · asked by GK2006 3

keep flying off the handle 4 no reason

2006-11-08 08:47:16 · 10 answers · asked by kerry j 1

What do you all think is going on in the mind of a woman who has been with a man (through thick and thin) and he ups and engages a woman he has just met a year ago?

2006-11-08 08:46:25 · 10 answers · asked by stella 2

Girls I am not a pig I just want to be able to help her out and satisfy her. I would love to hear your ideas. I don't necessarily mean sexually either.

2006-11-08 08:46:23 · 16 answers · asked by dork 1