I just started dating a really great guy. We've known each other for a year and 1/2 and have kept in contact really well. We've emailed and talked on the phone all the time. We just started dating (about a month) and it's starting to get a little serious. He lives in northern california and I live in southern california and I want him to move here. The problem is, if he moves here, he wants to live with me. Im excited about it but also scared. Is it too soon? I know my parents wont like it as well. I want to move in with him but I'm not sure it's the best idea. He wants to live with me because it is reallly exspensive here, he wont know anybody else, and I will be at his house ALL the time anyway, we really like and care about eachother, and my lease is up so I need to look for a new place. So, what do u think?
2006-11-08 08:47:29 · 5 answers · asked by GK2006 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know if it matters but I'm 24 and he's 27.
2006-11-08 08:51:39 · update #1
I do know him really well. We have stayed at each others houses for week long visits. I met his family and he met mine. My parents LOVE him and so do I.
2006-11-08 09:04:24 · update #2
I think you should do it. If you trust him and really like him why not. There are a lot of things we can get scared of doing but when we do it, we never regret doing it. Try it for a while and see what happens. Your parents should support you.
2006-11-08 08:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not do it because, I know have been e-mailing him a lot and talking to him. But honestly do you really know him? He could be lying to you and be using this as an excuse to take advantage of you. If you are scare I suggest not doing it because that is your gut feeling telling you not to. If he wants to move and get his own place that is fine you can still go out and you could get to know him better. You can move in together after you are married. And if he moves in and things don't work out it would definitely cause problems.
2006-11-08 16:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it unless you're at the very least engaged.
Women somehow always end up on the dirty end of the stick when it comes to co-habitating.
And you should think why your parents would be upset - is it that they have been around a while and would know the downfalls?
You should really consider it.
2006-11-08 16:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing beats moving in with eachother. You can see the "real" him.
Good luck
2006-11-08 16:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well ... if you want a relationship with him .. you should do it
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2006-11-08 16:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋