Singles & Dating - 2 November 2006

My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years. We go to different college's, but the are only 5 minutes apart. It seems like lately all that we do is argue about nothing when we see each other. It has been building up for a while now, and just a few days ago we decided to go on a 2 week break. So far the break has been really hard for me. I love her to so much, I just don't know what to do. Can you help???

2006-11-02 05:06:42 · 7 answers · asked by 21snilloc 1

My BFF is pregnant and I always hear her say how great their relationship is. He's a nice guy and they're always all "mushy" with each other. She found out she was pregnant a few days ago and is scared to tell him. She feels like the relationship is too weak to introduce a baby into it, she isnt financially stable and she doesnt want a baby. The big thing is they had a "birth control talk" a couple weeks ago and assured him everything was ok since she's on the pill. She SWEARS she took them like she was suposed to and didnt miss any. She thinks he'll feel like she's trying to trap him into the relationship. They've been together for less than 2 months (they're both 22) . Do you think she should include him in the decision or just have the abortion without ever mentioning it to him. I think if she really wants to kill the baby, thats her personal decision- which i disagree with, but she at least tell the guy. What are your thoughts on this and have you ever dealt with anything like this

2006-11-02 05:05:47 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it normal for a couple whos been dating 5 months, that the guy just wont call for 2 or 3 days and then say oh yah, ive been busy or some excuse like that?

2006-11-02 05:05:36 · 20 answers · asked by Freaked out 3

ok so i thought it would be nice to introduce the boy i was talkin to to all of my friends ya kno i knew his well i brought my friend there and the boy i was talkin to said he had no interest he wanted to be with me well the next day i got o fone call sayin my friend was seen goin into his apartment with just him and he lives by his self what should i do?

2006-11-02 05:05:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 05:04:25 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got the most amazing letter today off my boyfriend but enclosed was a cheque he sed it was for me to use as i wished the thing was i felt guilty having to accept it i asked him why he did it and his reply was i wont you to be happy and use it on yourself please can you help me on this 1 am i being selfish hellllllllllllllllllllp

2006-11-02 05:03:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a senior at high school and I honestly dont feel like doing anything. ive never liked to do school work and just let my grades be average. but its gotten worse. i have to many big projects comming up and i have one due tomorrow that i didnt even start. i dont know whats going on and i really dont feel like doing anything but i want and need to graduate!!
hope u know what i mean. has anyone ever felt like this? how did u handle it or how should i??!?!

2006-11-02 05:03:14 · 15 answers · asked by Suzie R 1

I am not sure that I am in love or not. He is one year older than me. I love to kiss him and we have so much in common. The bad thing is that he calls my home phone nonstop. I am bestfriends with his sister which is hard. I have known him every sence I meet my friend. Please help me.

2006-11-02 05:03:11 · 6 answers · asked by Saunda B 1

what happens when a guy comes to know that the girl he likes has an exboyfriend who is trying to get back with her? does he get jealous? what happens to his feelings?

2006-11-02 05:01:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am his wife and i know he's been trouble and would like to see why?and how more time will he get out of this

2006-11-02 05:00:24 · 4 answers · asked by Kay B 1

tongue when kissing on a first date....because i did thats how i got my beautiful beau who i'm with now, he said that i suprised him in a good way...so was that forward of me to do what i did?.........i know many of you will not agree with this....but you know sometimes you have gotto grab the bull by the horn so to speak, otherwise you could be waiting forever.....let me know your views all the same....

2006-11-02 04:59:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

what are good qualities that you look for in a guy?

2006-11-02 04:59:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need a friend who lives in lebanon a girl to talk and to go out is that too much asking ?

2006-11-02 04:59:27 · 2 answers · asked by choice 1

2006-11-02 04:58:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

tongue when kissing on a first date....because i did thats how i got my beautiful beau who i'm with now, he said that i suprised him in a good way...so was that forward of me to do what i did?.........i know many of you will not agree with this....but you know sometimes you have gotto grab the bull by the horn so to speak, otherwise you could be wauiting forever.....let me know your views all the same....

2006-11-02 04:58:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i havnt been dating a guy long but he tells me he loves me, how can i tell if he really loves me or is just playing the field?

2006-11-02 04:57:30 · 4 answers · asked by kycat0744 1

This will be our first time meeting!

2006-11-02 04:56:27 · 7 answers · asked by Careatha 3

i am shy have a big nose but aint that bad if it wasnt for my nose . how do i ask a girl out, if she looks too good for me, i just wanna have fun and have casual sex

2006-11-02 04:56:22 · 7 answers · asked by mka m 1

My boyfriend wants to get married but I'm not 100% sure I want to marry him. I mean he is a great guy don't get me wrong but he is being a little too hasty about marrying me. We talked about it and I expressed my deepest feelings, he said that I was just nervous about the commitment. We've known each other for about 7 months is that long enough? I am soooo confused I want to make him happy but I don't want to be making a mistake. Or am I being too childish by delaying the wedding day?

2006-11-02 04:54:24 · 33 answers · asked by Donria 1

i'm pretty sure i know...

2006-11-02 04:54:04 · 22 answers · asked by crazy_lil_thang709 1

my hs love dumped me 4 months ago. Even though, getting back with him right now is unimaginable. i still think about him.

i still wear the charm heart he gave me. he told me to keep it.

i once removed it but only to notice of feeling more empty day by day without it. i don't think about the charm. but when i look in the mirror or look at my necklace, my mind screams to me something is missing, while my heart aches and speaks as if it feels "it's empty right here.:

eventually, i put it back on. it felt good.

i wonder am i waiting for him to return sometime during my life or is it something else i can't see?

2006-11-02 04:53:28 · 16 answers · asked by blinded_by_you01 1

I used 2 take things slow with my ex(when we were together)we'd cuddle,hug,hold hands that kinda thing.he never had a g/f or kissed ne1 b4.I kissed him on the cheek one day. then a couple nights after we kissed(he was the aggressor).Things got overwhelming,we both got overly excited.I did touch him down there but didn't take it out. It got to the point I had 2 tell him we weren't going to have sex.so we agreed not to.I'm not too experienced with taking things slowly but I want to.he knew that.I think he got blue balls.he acted kool about not doing it. I just wanted him to love me first.it was too soon.when he took me home he was spazing out saying he didn't know what he was doing,that his mind was racing a mile a minute and that he was confused. So if I gave him blue balls,and that's the reason why he didn't give me a real answer to why he stoped calling me.what can I do 2 make him feel better?all I want 2 do is cuddle and kiss.I just need 2 relax and kiss slowly/gently.what do u think

2006-11-02 04:51:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-02 04:50:17 · 18 answers · asked by coulson 2

now lets say hypothetically we were in a relationship and after we did the act you noticed i threw the condom on the floor and never picked it up would you be offended by my act or would you just be like so what?

2006-11-02 04:49:01 · 31 answers · asked by Serve God rely on Me 3

Don't they learn a single thing?
Even a mule will not fall into the same pothole twice...

For example:
Girls knew, when men tried to court her, they would be super nice to the girl... just to get her love and attention...
And girls know, after 3 months or after marriage or after the 1st sex... it will all change 180 degrees (most of the time)...

Girls knew it... but yet... they always made the same mistake over and over again...
It seems that "Men give loves to get sex and Women give sex to get loves." is so so true...

SO... my question is that:
1. why can't women learn while a mule can?
2. it's a bit harsh, sorry... but... do women have brains?
3. when it's too late... they chose to stick with it... what the hell is wrong with that??? any answer for it???
4. Finally, why girls always fall to the men's trap???

aLL and aLL, sorry if it's a bit harsh... I just need to try to make sense of it all...

2006-11-02 04:48:35 · 9 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3

Is it ok to flirt casually with others or flirt with touching involved when you are in a relationship, and why? Then how about if the boyfriend/girlfriend is around to see it?

2006-11-02 04:47:45 · 11 answers · asked by lol 1

Okay so here's the story:
My friend likes this guy and I kinda started liking him because we have two classes together. He and I study for most of our tests together.I see him in class staring at me and when I look at him he looks away. Another thing he does is look at me and then I look at him and he smiles at me. I blush and turn away. I ALWAYS CATCH HIM LOOKING AT ME.Does he like me? I know that my friend has liked him for a while. Would it be wrong if I went out with him?

2006-11-02 04:46:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wonder what could b the point of them staying 2gether. i dont interfer, but asking u fine people cause im just curious.

2006-11-02 04:43:58 · 10 answers · asked by jos q 1

2006-11-02 04:43:55 · 2 answers · asked by joshb2k4 3

i am 20 and havent been to any parties or any college fun stuff, i find my self lonely sometimes, i want to have a frind who thtat i can hang out with, i like to go on dates and just kick, but am very shy

2006-11-02 04:43:18 · 23 answers · asked by mka m 1