2006-11-02 05:04:25 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really love the person it should make no difference! My mom was married at 18 and he and my dad have been together for a very very long time and still are! It all depends on if you are ready and think that you are really in love with that person!
2006-11-02 05:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends how long you have been with your boyfriend. My sister got engaged after 6 months when she was 18, the relationship lasted 3 years and they have now both gone their seperate ways. I think 6 months was too soon personally. If you feel that you are truely ready then go for it but you have the rest of your life for engagement and marriage so dont rush into things!
2006-11-02 13:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by becca j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you're not in doubt and because you're asking this question. Its probably not good to be engaged at 18. You haven't experienced real life yet. You need to be stable and able to live on your own before you get engaged. To make sure, that when two people come together, they can take care of each other, and they are mature enough to take care of each other.
2006-11-02 13:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by computer_glitch_uhoh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Engagements can last years so I see no harm in being "engaged" young. Married at 18 is a little different.
2006-11-02 13:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can be but don't jump into the marriage. I would stay engaged until both have finished school including college. Know what you want in life as a person with or without a partner then go from there. Good luck.
2006-11-02 13:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by Jezzies Mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, take it from me, a 21 year old: I wouldn't feel comfortable being engaged at my age because I KNOW I'm not mature enough to handle a serious relationship right now, for a number of reasons. Work on yourself before you rush into a relationship. At 18, your life is just getting started. Don't rush to grow up. You have your whole life to do that.
2006-11-02 13:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by rach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that. My guess is that if you have to ask your probably not ready. I'd make it a long engagement. Just remember you never know if you can be with someone until you live with them. I would make sure you can live with that person for like a year, before you get married.
2006-11-02 13:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by lovemykalli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not right or wrong age to be engaged. You'll know when it's right, if it feels right then do it but if you have to ask then maybe your not ready. Your not married yet so think about it hard before it happens do rush things and make sure it's what you want.
2006-11-02 13:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be engaged at age 30. You are too young to get married. Have fun while you are young. You won;t regret it. Most people that marry young end up regretting it later. Read all of the sad people's stories in here that are married. Most want out of marriage. Dont do it.
2006-11-02 13:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there nothing wrong with it just let the person know that you want to finish school and do everything the right way fast, (job after school,somewhere to stay and up all the way on your feet) cause you don't need no down falls that will make your marriages end quickly, but good luck
2006-11-02 13:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by CHINADOLL901 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋