Singles & Dating - 29 October 2006

no matter what i say I'm wrong. He can do everything for friends and his ex-wife's family but I'm always last.He spends time at the bar and thats o.k.He yells when I try to get my point across because he doesn't want to here it.And he say's he's not changing we have been together 2 and a half years.

2006-10-29 15:54:16 · 39 answers · asked by mmechelke 1

I am trying to write a letter to my boyfriend who I think could be cheating on me, or having an interest in the possiblity. I have found some things that I feel constitute this behaviour. We are currently living together and he always tells me he loves me. I don't want to sound like a ***** or insecure, I just want to know whats going on....any suggestions?

2006-10-29 15:53:59 · 15 answers · asked by chickypie 2

I look for it almost every day.....the more extreme the better. Any people out there want to admit this as well?

2006-10-29 15:52:54 · 19 answers · asked by AL 2

I want everyone to answer so I can add them all up and divide them by the number of answers, and then I'll post the average height of Yahoo Answers people (by man and woman).

2006-10-29 15:52:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are guys really too scared to call a girl up and ask her out?? wat up wid writing letters and all the he said she said crap? And what does a guy want in a girl?? what attracts them? is it just being skinny??

2006-10-29 15:51:54 · 10 answers · asked by gangsterfied_holly 1

Me and some girlfriends were at a bar, and here walks in a common man, ok im an attractive female, im not being conceited but i have recieved many compliments for it and this man walks right next me without catching a glimpse. My friends and I try to make a scene which usually helps with the attention but nothing, i dont know what to do. I heard he has just moved to the area and comes to the bar regularly, I dont know if im being silly, but i have never walked up to a man they have always come to me, how should i handle this, and why cant i get over my fear.

2006-10-29 15:51:40 · 12 answers · asked by watermelonlvr 1

on the weekend at a special function, i let him know that i love him yet he never ackowledges what i do for him and how i love him. I called him selfish and inhumane and he called me a drunk like my stepmother and that i ruined his night. The next day i called to apologized and he said that we have differnet perspecives and that in 3 years we have talked to each other a total of two weeks. He is work obsessed and i need to let him go. Please help and did i do the wrong thing by telling him how i felt even though the timing was really bad?

2006-10-29 15:51:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

he walk away from me so easily when we have a problem. why doesnt he try and compromise things. and why is it his way or not at all. thats not love. is it? what is he trying to prove and why does he lie and not do the things my way sometime. why is he always gawking at other women. these kind of things hurt. but he says he loves me and want to be with me. can someone help me understand his motives. i treat him very well and dont deserve to be done like this. and on top of that i noticed that he is extremely nice when we havent had sex in a while. what is going on here. plz be truthful even if it hurts. tell me what do you see from what i told you guys. thank you.

2006-10-29 15:50:39 · 8 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4

Be realistic

2006-10-29 15:50:33 · 13 answers · asked by ANyone but you 2

So, I don't know if he really likes me or not. He's said that when he breaks up with his girlfriend he would date me, but he said this about 3 months ago, and still nothing. He comes to my work to see me and talk with me, and he calls me "his girl" (of course I always correct him and tell him I'm not). Does he only want to cheat on his girlfriend with me or does he really like me?

Honestly, I only attract guys with girlfriends. No joke.

2006-10-29 15:50:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Talking to my ex tonight she said she would be upset if there was someone else because we wouldn't be the same anymore. We still do the same things we did when we were together. Just don't say we are in a relationship anymore. I don't understand why she is like that. She broke up with me. So why would she find it so hard that I am with someone else. She is not interested in anyone. Trust me I know. I just don't see her point to having to know what I do all the time and who I am with. Why would she need to know everything? She just is so confusing with the things she says, and I really think I should just end all contact.

2006-10-29 15:48:57 · 20 answers · asked by john 2

2006-10-29 15:48:15 · 13 answers · asked by Eileen S 1

I need help with a girl that i like and i am sure that she likes me. We always have a good time when we talk. And i have the sense that she likes me. What do I do?

2006-10-29 15:44:50 · 9 answers · asked by gng022091 1

We dated for about two years in college, but we broke up OVER 5 years ago, and the last time I talked to him was 2 years ago.

But then I saw him at our mutual friend's wedding last weekend, and all of the sudden all my old feelings rushed back to me. I felt all the love and heartbreak all over again, as if it was just yesterday that we broke up. This came as a COMPLETE SURPRISE, because I have a boyfriend whom I thought I was totally in love with! And I thought I was completely over my ex!

What the heck? Is this normal??

2006-10-29 15:44:41 · 7 answers · asked by cajun m 2

This is a serious question, I'm just looking to see how deep in love people can honestly fell for someone.

So deep that you'd jump in front of a bullet for them .... Or just to the point where you'd yell duck.

2006-10-29 15:44:26 · 14 answers · asked by ill_state00 3

ME AND MY BOYFRIEND IS GOING THRU PROBLEMS AT THIS TIME,AND WE BROKE UP ONE NIGHT,BUT WE GOT BACK 2GETHER THA SAME NIGHT IN 15-20 MIN'S B-CUZ ONE NIGHT I SEEN A CUTE BOY WALKING DOWN THA STREET AND I WUZ STARRING AT HIM IN FRONT OF MY BOYFRIEND AN I KNOW THAT HE IS VERY JELIOUS SO HE GOT MAD AN WE HAD AN ARGUMENT AN IT LEAD 2 US BRAKING UP,BUT THA SAME NIGHT HE 4GAVE ME AN WE GOT BACK 2GETHER.BUT IM VERY INSECURE AN I WANNA KNOW DO U THINK HE LUV ME LIK HE SAY HE DO???

2006-10-29 15:43:19 · 13 answers · asked by SEXY LUV!!! 1

2006-10-29 15:43:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are some signs a guy will give off when he likes you?

2006-10-29 15:42:58 · 4 answers · asked by Stephanie 2

2006-10-29 15:41:30 · 1 answers · asked by Visal G 1

Two months ago, I met a guy at a party. We had a great first date a week after we met. Towards the end of our date, he asked if we were going to get together again. I said maybe because I didn't want to put myself out there. I think he was confused by that comment because he called me when he got home that night to ask if we were going out again. I said, "Sure, why do you ask?" He said he wasn't sure because I said "maybe".

We had a second date planned for last week but at the last minute I had to cancel it because of my family. I think he understood but was disappointed. We made plans for Thanksgiving weekend and he made a comment, "Wow, that's a long time to wait to see you."

We like each other but I'm so busy! Seriously, I don't want him to lose interest. I called him tonight to make a date for this Friday and he wants me to find something for us to do. How can I let this guy know that I'm still interested?

2006-10-29 15:40:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

he said he likes you and want you to be his girl, then he asked you out. you'r not interested (not playing hard to get) frankly and you politely told him but he insist on having you.( it's like a burden to you) even though there's no threat of rape. so what can you do to ward him off as his becoming so embarrassing?

2006-10-29 15:39:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to do something nice for my boyfriend to show him how much I care, and I don't want it to be the same old, 'just tell him' or 'write it in a letter' or something generic and simple. I don't have a whole lot of money so I can't buy him anything, and I'm tapped for ideas

2006-10-29 15:37:51 · 12 answers · asked by Bee 2

2006-10-29 15:37:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do independent, self reliable women, whom happen to be a bit on the feminist side, (not a lesbian) find attractive and interesting in a man. Besides being myself can anyone offer some good advice?

2006-10-29 15:37:26 · 11 answers · asked by ANyone but you 2

2006-10-29 15:37:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 15:35:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everytime a relationship ends I blame myself no matter what happens because I think things turned out the way the did because I wasn't pretty enought,or attentive enough or just not good enough in general.I don't see how it could always be my fault but it just feels that way.Whenever a guy hurts me I don't confront him because I'm just too proud to even acknowledge that he was able to hurt me so I walk away and if it's something small I don't even mention it to him.Why do I have such trouble admiting that I actually care about someone and that they can hurt me?

2006-10-29 15:35:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 16 n studyin in one of de top colleges of Bangalore. I used to have lots of GIRL FRIENDS in my younger ages n now i've non.
I get lots of letters, phone call, n also direct proposals from degirls n i don't know how to react or to find my dreamgirl.
Can anyone help this poor boy.

2006-10-29 15:34:35 · 2 answers · asked by Kiru 2

the only person i love hates me and i dont know what to do because i dont want to hurt anymore!

2006-10-29 15:30:13 · 21 answers · asked by Flame Alchemist 2

all of your friends have that special someone that they really really really love and you are stuck all lonely
i dont want to grow up and like live wit 50 cats!!

2006-10-29 15:28:39 · 9 answers · asked by taytay 2