the only person i love hates me and i dont know what to do because i dont want to hurt anymore!
2006-10-29 15:30:13 · 21 answers · asked by Flame Alchemist 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well now she says that she didnt mean that she hated me, but was angry at the world, and that she does love me, but she doesnt know if it is soul mate love or if she loves me more as a brother
2006-10-30 12:45:43 · update #1
im sure this person doesn't wanna get ur hopes up then break ur heart. she's prob really sad that u think she hates u, and just wants a friend. try to think of her more as a friend if u can.
2006-10-31 11:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by ~*[{BasKeT CasE}]*~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I'm amazed because I just got over a relationship which I was sure she hated me. Your significant other may not hate you but hate the relationship. With that you need to be happy. Your obviously not happy and probably deserve it. I say get out. Its 110 times easier said than done. For example myself, I took down all the pictures, took her off my myspace, erased her from my phone, all the texts on my phone, moved out and moved on. Almost acted as if she never existed. Hey you gotta do what you gotta do. Its rediculously hard but in the end you will find happiness.
2006-10-29 23:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by mikeywk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got to move on. Talk to your friends about it. Get everything off your chest. You can't make someone love you in return. What sometimes works is pretending that you DON'T need them then they'll start to wonder what the heck happened. Get a life, be confident, be independent, stay busy and this person just might come around. If you are a girl, guys love a girl like this.
2006-10-29 23:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he really dont hate u....i guess he is just afraid to get hurt again...i really dont know the reason why is that but maybe he is just not ready to commit himself to a serious relationship...if u love him just be happy on it and be thankful that u feel love than hatred.. be glad that u love him cos thru him u found out how beautiful and colorful the world is....
im sure u find the right person who truely love and appreciate u in the right time...good luck and enjoy the life that u have...
time will come that u find love....
2006-10-29 23:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by capricorn girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Deal with the rejection. It is a long, sad, and lonely process, but well worth your effort.
For in doing so, you will become aware that you are a strong enough person that you don't "need" a specific person. And that strength will make it easier to find healthy friends and lovers who won't take advantage of you, and your vulnerability.
2006-10-29 23:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by peacedevi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, good one.
What did you do? Is there any possible way to mend the situation?
If all else fails,**** it move on.
And try to learn from your experience, don't forget your boundaries. And for the love of your self don't kiss A**.
Go smell some flowers you might feel better :)
2006-10-30 00:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Butterfly274 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are using strong words, hate is powerful action of feelings.
Why are you submitting to such abuse. You may have low self esteem you definitely need to rise to your ambitions. Do not contact this person.Occupy your time, This individual needs to show you that they appreciate you. When you do hear from this person they should not be asking nothing of you. They should willing to give, not Sex if it is apart of this relationship. Stand your ground sweetly don't be angry. Gods blessing if it is for you.
2006-10-29 23:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by shetterfly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's really only two choices: 1) stop loving them entirely or 2) love them more...if you love them more, then learn to forgive them...realize, hatred is a waste of time...always, stay true, tell them your truth no matter what and always quickly admit your mistakes, even to yourself...if you he or she can't accept you, then forgive him or her, and move on with your life...also, always forgive yourself and be kind to yourself...realize, it takes time for people to realize special treasures and gifts in life. perhaps, this person is not ready to wake-up to that fact, each have there own pace...continue to live your life's pace and don't worry about the past or the future, just worry about the now.
2006-10-29 23:43:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life. That's what I did even though I still loved her. You will find some one else to replace the love you have for him. Believe me it will happen.
2006-10-29 23:33:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell them what you feel and why you feel that way and why they make you feel the way they do .. and that person can either decide to listen to you or to remain hating you but if you know you gave it your all and did everything in your power you could there should be nothing to hurt about because then it is no longer your loss it is theirs
2006-10-29 23:35:12 · answer #10 · answered by kruiz1100 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋