Singles & Dating - 28 October 2006

my boyfriend is mad at me for not coming to america to live with him just yet. i needed to get more ready, money and things. BUT last night sucked. he called me early on to say that he was going to have a problem for a while, no matter what i say, but everything would be ok. then he went out drinking with his cousin and he drank like 10 bicardis to 'forget about what's going on with us' he said he was talking to a girl at the bar with his cousin, and she wanted to give him her number. and he did think about doing it, even though he says he never would have hooked up with her. he did give her his cousin's number apparantly. he told me about this girl, and asked if he'd upset me. i said no, not really, but he went on about it. how he's waited 2 years to be with me and it would be so easy 2 just start going out with someone. but he said he loved me and only wanted to be with me. after this he went driving home. he never drinks & drives, he told me he was going to & phoned when he got back

2006-10-28 22:14:48 · 10 answers · asked by sleepyme 1

Ok, this sadly is a serious question. I was out drinking with my ex boyfriend (of one week), we were together for two years. His friends and my friends were there. Out of the blue He told his two married friends that I would suck there ***** for free, he says this is just a joke and I need to chill out, but I was totally offended by this. He says that I need to relax; I think this is a sign of absolutely no respect for me. Who agrees? Or disagrees?

2006-10-28 22:14:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-28 22:13:05 · 8 answers · asked by Casey 2

Last night my girlfriend asked me the following question. If we where in a club together and I went to the toilet. When I came back a guy was asking her for her number. What would I do. I had had a lot to drink last night and I didn't answer the question. What is the best way to answer it. Thanks for the help

2006-10-28 22:12:46 · 23 answers · asked by ken030782@btinternet.com 1

2006-10-28 22:11:56 · 2 answers · asked by we_will_never_die_alone_666 2

why is it that if i meet a girl i really dont like, i am myself i have all my wisdom, i think straight. but i met this girl and all that flew out the window cause i really like her so far, why is that.

2006-10-28 22:10:52 · 3 answers · asked by DUSTY 3

2006-10-28 21:45:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years. He has cheated on me, lied to me, and recently decided he doesn't want children, and I do... I'm 36.
We split up earlier this year, and have been back together for about 3 months. He's been trying really hard... but I just can't get my head around all the lies and cheating, and that he slept with someone else whilst we were engaged.
Also, when we had our 'split' I started building up a nice easy social life with really nice people. I've been enjoying 'hanging out' with them, they're fun and laid back and easy to get on with.
And to be honest, I'd rather be with them than with him.
My ex has however tried so VERY HARD to make things right... but I have so many bad thoughts about the past.
So last night I finished with him, and I feel awful about it. It ended badly, and out of the blue (for him), but I've been so unhappy and just want to start afresh.
I am a softy I admit... but is it normal to feel guilty for ending it?

2006-10-28 21:45:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend says he is a virgin. He is 39 years old. He and I have been dating for 2 years. I am 27 years. When we made love the first time I bled alot. Being the first time for me. But even he got a boil and the skin around his P**** tore and he also bled a bit. He met a skin doc and had to apply ointment. I got alot of friends who discourage me and tell me he is not a virgin. But he doesnt mind. He says he is and if he wasnt he would have owned up. He is smart and cute and and is from a small town in the mountains all his life. He speaks to women and says hi and bye but he says he never got involved with girls. He was very slow and tender when we made out first. It was hard to see he was faking it, coz I have had small time flings with alot of men before meeting him. It doesnt matter, but its ingrained in me that all men are never virgins. I do have my own opinions, but I just want to know the chances of a man being a virgin and if that can possibily be true. Not that it matters...

2006-10-28 21:44:48 · 4 answers · asked by Cassiopeia 1

i like to move it, move it? i like to move it, move it? i like to MOVE IT?!

2006-10-28 21:40:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I trully feel like these days that I may very well be single for the rest of my life. You know how it is, when you really like somebody and they either play you behind your back, or in your face. It kills your faith in the fact that you may find the supposed "ONE" one day. And what makes it hurt even more, is when you see happy couples that have been together for months upon months, years apon years. It really makes you envious. Im tired of it, im about to just turn into one of those people who have sex with whoever they want no strings attached and just move on with my life. Love is Dead. but of course im only sayin this because im soo frustrated, and angry. Can any of you relate to how im feeling? by the way im 20.

2006-10-28 21:36:29 · 8 answers · asked by Yahoo 3

reply me. im for chat.

2006-10-28 21:36:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-28 21:34:39 · 11 answers · asked by maconsolviaa 5

alright so I met this girl... she was engaged but her and her fiance broke it off... they were still seeing each other but then I came along. We have stayed up all night talking and we have kissed and been really close. She tells me that she has these feelings for me but always returns to her fiance.... they have a lot of classes together and she claims that she needs his help so she can pass the classes... and she has had a 5 year history with this guy.... what do you think everyone ditch her or stick with it?

2006-10-28 21:32:18 · 8 answers · asked by Casey 2

2006-10-28 21:30:22 · 6 answers · asked by seangalolo 1

i m very fat so ithink that's why she ignores me? i m in love since 2 years , she also knows this. it is one sided love. i have also given her slam book 2 fill before leaving my old high school in which she is studyng now, but she did not accepted it. some of my competers has also told 2 her parents about me. tell me what should i do? i can't think about any other girl.

2006-10-28 21:23:53 · 20 answers · asked by kanveer 1

what general qualities do girlz want in their hubbies(boyfriend/husband), i mean most of the time a guy wants to impress them with his love by doing things out of the way & ends up annoying them. so what do women / girls want in their man..?

2006-10-28 21:23:02 · 13 answers · asked by karan s 3

ive liked this guy on and off since we were like 6 or something. then last yr i didnt like him that much, then i liked him again and stuff like that is wot im going through since i was 6... we used to ''go out'' , wel thats wot we called it. anyway.. this summer that past i didnt like him atol. now though i like him again and wonna do something. we were sitting on each other and stuff and it was quite romantic but the problemo is that these two other girls that are friends of mine like him too and i dont want to hurt them...? wot shall i do?
xx thnx for the answers....? Tia L xxx

2006-10-28 21:22:15 · 8 answers · asked by TMFULP. 3

he is 21 and i think something was supposed to break but nothing happened . he has av foreskin and you cant see any of the head .does this have anything to do with it. why did he not produce sperms ?

2006-10-28 21:20:35 · 25 answers · asked by geebabe 1

I have dicided I have been stressing out on finding love and have decided to stop. Because it does not matter that I am 24 and still a virgin and have never had a girlfriend. Their is a whole world of oppertunities out their. If I am lucky and love finds me then great. But if it does not it does not. I mean their is nothing wrong with being Single and a virgin at 24 is their. Anyway do you think it is a good idea to stop looking for love and let love find me.

2006-10-28 21:10:06 · 22 answers · asked by ? 1

Im just worried that when i take off my heels, he will think im way too short and it maybe impractical later on in life.

2006-10-28 21:08:03 · 25 answers · asked by Zora G 1

That alot of people that answer are very rude and unhelpfull. I mean dont answer if youre gonna be like that. Anyone else notice this?

2006-10-28 21:05:38 · 6 answers · asked by KGcutie 2

but not really. i just want to have sex with her and thats it

2006-10-28 20:59:51 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have made all efforts to understand the cause. It seems he is upset with his job and is not willing to commit abt future now. he used to care about me till he had to change his job and city because of me.his parents have an idea of our relation from 2 years.

2006-10-28 20:59:16 · 14 answers · asked by whisper v 2

i love her a lot and i kno she loves me.is this a sign or anything

2006-10-28 20:58:56 · 27 answers · asked by neal 1

How do I play it cool but keep showing interest. I introduced myself to a guy last week. He was always looking at me but seemed caught off guard on my approach. This week I acknowledged him with a wave and he called me over by asking me about what I thought of a class. We talked for like ten minutes. I asked me questions about which teachers I had and talked about himself a bit and made a couple little jokes, teased me a little over being freaked out about some class and gave me advice as he's a grade above me. How can I tell if he likes me? And what should my next move be, talk to him the very next time I see him or just casually say hi and not approach him for a couple days? i don't want to seem obsessed or anything.

2006-10-28 20:58:55 · 2 answers · asked by Stephanie 2

I also can't keep up a conversation for more than a few minutes. The only good qualities I can lay claim too are kindness and a calm temperament. I am also smart and articulate in face to face communication. Is it hopeless? I am 19 and am totally pathetic. I don't have low self esteem. Im just realisitic and I can tell from girls reactions to my earnest efforts that they are totally turned off by me.

2006-10-28 20:58:55 · 35 answers · asked by kindadumbkindaugly 1

A guy that said he likes me said his 15 when I asked his age and I said his to young for me even though we look simular in age 18-19 then changes to say his 18 saying thats what me and my cousins say when we meet girls then I asked to see ID he didn't have his wallet so we decided will call his sister to find his real age he called and spoke to her and the sister said his 18 should I belive his 18 age.

2006-10-28 20:57:18 · 17 answers · asked by Ashanti 3

Can the gal be sure that looks wont matter in the long run and she wont stray after marriage?

2006-10-28 20:52:21 · 14 answers · asked by FreeFly 1

A guy I like gave me his business card with his business phone on the back, and he wrote his home and cell numbers on the back as well. So should I call his home phone number because he wrote it first on the back of the business card? Which number should I call?

2006-10-28 20:52:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous