Can the gal be sure that looks wont matter in the long run and she wont stray after marriage?
2006-10-28 20:52:21 · 14 answers · asked by FreeFly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just that you are asking tells me you need someone nice looking. Keep checking prospects until you meet someone who does NOT make you wonder and have questions.
2006-10-28 20:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by busybody12 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to other ladies who had been married with pre- arranged nuptials, they had learned to love their spouses in the long run while their relationship getting longer and longer no matter how not good looks their husbands. This sitiatuation had accepted by many wives. They chose the financial and emotional aspect rather than physical appearances of guys. This is because they preferred to have a husband with stable job and good personality rather than a husband with good looks and philanderer without jobs.
But if a guy was being forced to a relationship to marry what he does not like, The relationship will not stay longer and the possibility to a broken family is inevitable because the guy can't be forced to love some body he hates no matter how good appearance the girl. In other words, girls learn to love because they have a soft hearts and guy have hard-heart...
2006-10-28 21:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried more about the guys looks then how he is going to treat you for the next 50 years then maybe you don't love this man. If you are not attracted to the man inside then maybe you need to rethink the relationship. Also' Re think yourself and what is important to you.
2006-10-28 21:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There aren't any certainties in life. With a marriage, you just have to trust that you are making the right choice. If you have extremely strong doubts, then don't get married!
2006-10-28 20:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are straying before the facts are in, so don't cash your chips yet. Find the guy you want to stray with in a big way.
2006-10-28 20:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're either committed or your not.
A relationship built on looks will fall apart.
In the end you'll both be wrinkly and saggy...
if you want somone there to hold your hand when you can't walk then i suggest you marry the person, and not their looks.
2006-10-28 21:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks don't last. You're marrying the person. There is no guarantee- you just have to work on the marriage.
2006-10-28 20:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship based on looks, money, and sex will not last. People change as they get older in those 3 categories.
2006-10-29 01:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are so worried about his looks, can you honestly say that you love him for him? i mean looks aren't everything. i have dated totally hot guys and some not so hot. usually the latter of the two will treat you like a princess whereas the hottie acts like you owe him something to merely be in his presence!!!
2006-10-28 21:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by tsdomann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 12:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋