I have made all efforts to understand the cause. It seems he is upset with his job and is not willing to commit abt future now. he used to care about me till he had to change his job and city because of me.his parents have an idea of our relation from 2 years.
2006-10-28 20:59:16 · 14 answers · asked by whisper v 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is between the two of you. you should talk to him about it. is it the job & the city that he hates or you... or all of it? you need to talk to him about this....
2006-10-28 21:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get his parents involved to do what exactly?? if im reading this right - he moved city and changed job to be with u? and now hes unhappy with both the city and his job? u know the situation - is he a horrible person, or is he worth the effort? if he is worth it, than consider moving back where u came from - or to whereever he thinks he will be happy. he moved for u after all. leave his parents out of it tho - unless u think he is seriously depressed or unstable.
2006-10-29 04:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by bettie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it takes 3 weeks to wear a piece out, sometimes 60 yrs.... but when it done its done. At that point it doesn't matter who you involve he is still gonna be sick of waking up to the same ole mug. Better start looking for closure and move on hun or you're in for a miserable ride.
2006-10-29 04:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in this case I would suggest you to give him the best support. He'll definitely be angry on you specially. Bcoz he loves you a lot. Tell me something, when you are angry for some reasons, do you shouw your anger to outsiders whom you dont know or you show it to your near ones?? Therefore he is in a deep mental pressure, just be at his side and empathize but dont sympathize. If you show you sympathy, he'll be more angry inspite help him out getting a better job, or maybe takiing out interviews for him, etc.
2006-10-29 04:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by Upal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it. Just sit him down to a nice dinner, then when you have his complete attention, tell him you want to have an important conversation. Then tell him to explain why he's making these decisions and then tell him it's important to you to understand what his thoughts and feelings are. Understanding each others' character is a basic relationship goal and desire. We all deserve to understand our significant others' behavior and our feelings depend on experiences and their comprehension. In other words. "His behavior effects you negatively and you dont like how the relationship is going."
2006-10-29 04:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by Re Fined 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you want this to be a pattern for the rest of your life with him. If you can't work it out between the two of you then perhaps it isn't fixable. If he is not happy because of his job etc he is a grown man and needs to fix it himself.
2006-10-29 04:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by Justme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually i dun get parents involved. Maybe you can explain to him that you find that attitude unacceptable. Check to see if hes remorseful bout it. If he didnt find anythin wrong with what he said/did, move on. You would continue resenting that bout him in the future if you dun and gonna lead to lots of arguments.
2006-10-29 04:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look its nothing wrong with the relationship. but so far u know the cause, which is gis job. if u can encourage him in his job or tell him to change it. i think everything will go well then.. and i dont think his parents should know they coud make the situation much worse..
2006-10-29 04:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by Tritroy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to get his parents involved? Aren't you old enough to sort out your own problems? Break up with him already and move on. Sheesh, it's not that hard to figure out!
2006-10-29 04:11:32 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His parents won't be able to keep him from acting rude to you.Is there any way he can go bad to his old job or get another job?
2006-10-29 04:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are an adult, there should be no reason to involve anyone outside of the relationship, with the exception of trained professional (therapist,psychologist).
2006-10-29 04:06:56 · answer #11 · answered by godhainder 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋