my boyfriend is mad at me for not coming to america to live with him just yet. i needed to get more ready, money and things. BUT last night sucked. he called me early on to say that he was going to have a problem for a while, no matter what i say, but everything would be ok. then he went out drinking with his cousin and he drank like 10 bicardis to 'forget about what's going on with us' he said he was talking to a girl at the bar with his cousin, and she wanted to give him her number. and he did think about doing it, even though he says he never would have hooked up with her. he did give her his cousin's number apparantly. he told me about this girl, and asked if he'd upset me. i said no, not really, but he went on about it. how he's waited 2 years to be with me and it would be so easy 2 just start going out with someone. but he said he loved me and only wanted to be with me. after this he went driving home. he never drinks & drives, he told me he was going to & phoned when he got back
2006-10-28 22:14:48 · 10 answers · asked by sleepyme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At least he told you, unless it's blackmail.
2006-10-28 22:18:51 · answer #1 · answered by Alicat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He makes you jealous, he is missing you, but dint get pressed into a decision you are not ready for.
Why does he expect to move to him. Did you discuss the possibility he comes to your country?
If you go there be sure you can sustain yourself and always keep some money for the flight home
2006-10-28 22:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by Starlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to make you jealous, which by doing so, he will get his way and you will move faster....If he doesn't understand that you need more time to get ready, and get things in order, than he doesn't really care...he is just thinking about himself....Its hard...but you need to move on..and find someone who understands and doesn't think "its all about me"...he needs to grow up..what happens if you move...and you don't have the money and such...and he breaks up with you...than you are stuck...if he really loved you...he wouldn't be telling you about this girl...that he won't hook up with her...ok..if he didn't think about hooking up with her..why would he tell you about her in the first place..?......
2006-10-28 22:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes playing games with you he may be saying all this to you to try and get you to america so you can keep an eye on him
as for moving dont do it if your not ready i mean your giving up most of your life to live with him and if hes acting like that towards you then you should consider ending the relationship
2006-10-28 22:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like your bf doesn't know how to deal with the situation at all... I know lots of people that would get pissed just to forget about a problem that is really bothering them.
But, the fact that he decided to tell you all about, looks like he REALLY CARES about u.... Maybe he just wanted to check you reaction to this...
Anyway, try to avoid thinking that he could just start going out w/ someone new.... When u love someone, no matter the opportunities that you get to go out with someone else, you just won't....U already know who you want to be with.. no matter the distance.
Good luck!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-28 22:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by shining_froggy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life. It sounds like your boyfriend is going to be out of site; out of mind. Saying that you love someone is easy...meaning it is a whole other story.
2006-10-28 22:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by redcoat7121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is in the USA where are you????
What is upsetting him?????
Its very hard to wonder about fidelity if you have good reason.
Depends what you want to do go to usa get married have a kid or two and most probably be in a domestic violence situation.
2006-10-28 22:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by Mosez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can see whats happening here.... hes playing games with you and a rather cruel one at that. you didnt tell him the answers he wanted to hear about america so he is punishing you.... i see this all the time. just play along :-) and smile
2006-10-28 22:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying to make you jealous,
2006-10-28 22:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by orfeo_fp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋