Singles & Dating - 28 October 2006

Ok so I know all of you are gonna say "No don't have sex with someone you don't know" but I want to ask anyway.
I met a guy over yahoo chat, I really like him and I'm going to be meeting him in a few weeks. We've had cyber sex a few times and I would like to have real sex with him when he gets here. My only problem is that I'm a virgin (he knows)and am very self concious about my body. I trust him completely to treat me right... but I don't want to get going with making out with him and them him not wanna have sex with me because of my body. Please someone give me advice!!

2006-10-28 17:05:30 · 12 answers · asked by Vickie 1

my livein bf of 3yrs has this old gf that will contact him from time to time(email,my space,cell phone,,,)and he wil respond back.they have quite a past together both were first love dated on and off for the last 20 yrs.She manged to get him to cheat on his first wife and leave his wife and child.every yr she finds some way to contact him it maybe more but thats all i catch and it's not just a hi how are you.You can tell she still has an interest in him in the things she says.the problem i have my bf never tells me when she contacts him i allways have to find out the sneaky way he also goes out of his way to make sure i don't find out.My question is once a cheater always a cheater?Also i can tell from the things he has said to me he really cares deeply for her its just not one night stand my god he has even talked about her in his sleep.i can tell by the things she has said to him she feels the same way is not more.So why have they over 20yrs never been able to stay with each other?

2006-10-28 17:04:23 · 15 answers · asked by sue_mkr 1

when their GF ask who are u sleeping with behind my back? every guy i dated all hit me, & cheated, all my uncles did this to rgeir wives, my dad & brother did the same. I'm sick of people telling me not all men are evil/bad, when I have never met one that wasn't?

2006-10-28 17:02:19 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay heres my problem.i had a crush on this guy at my work but he had a girlfriend so i never really thought about it like that.then all of these people kept telling me that they thought he liked me and i just brushed it off.then he got my phone number and started texting me and we hung out with a mutual friend and flirted and had a great time then we hung out alone and we ended up kissing more than once.we talk on the phone,text message constantly and its basically like we are on the verge of dating.he tells me that hes tired of his girlfriend and wants to be with me but hee just has a complex about breaking up with her.i really want to be with him. should i give up now or fight until i get what i want?please im so confused

2006-10-28 17:01:39 · 9 answers · asked by wordboo3 1

last few boyfriends were on the chubby side, except my ex that was el-salvordian. is this a sign???

2006-10-28 17:01:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

so there is this guy that im crushing on and he is SOOOO CUTE, but he is always working and then when he comes home he goes out with his friends so i never see him. and when he is home he is always in his house. what should i do should i just give up and find someone else? i need help!

2006-10-28 16:59:39 · 11 answers · asked by jenny w 1

Im almost 17 and she is 16. She broke up with me because I cried and I could not help not to because I knew it was going to happen. She said that she would probably be with me if I changed. So should I change???

2006-10-28 16:59:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-28 16:59:23 · 7 answers · asked by jlothecat 1

Ok here the deal my bofriend an I HAVE BEEN SPLIT UP FOR ABOUT A MONTH AN HE STILL CALLS ME AN AN I HAVE ASKED HIM ABOUT A GIRL I KNOW HE IS TALKING TO ME AN HIM WERE TOGETHER FOR A YEAR AND HALF AN WE DO LOVE EACHOTHER SO WHY NOT BE HONEST WITH ME .I THINK I BEEN WITH HIM LONG TIME I DESERVE THE TRUTH WHY DO MEN DO THIS.

2006-10-28 16:54:23 · 8 answers · asked by Jluckie28 2

A) Guy with spike hairs kind of badboy look that gives u this feeling when you see him for the first time ?
OR
B) A cute guy that gives you a sweet feeling when u see him for the first time ?

2006-10-28 16:54:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Girls, what are your ring sizes? I'm trying to figure out my girlfriend's ring size cause its the first ring I've bought her, and its for our 1st anniversary coming up in a few months. She's about 5 1, 5 2-her fingers are kind of short, but they're pretty slender. The next best thing i know to do is ask her mother, but I think it would be awesome if I could figure it out and surprise her. any girls fit this description that are willing to give me their ring sizes?

2006-10-28 16:54:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend always acts upset or whatever because i hardly ever kiss him at school, and hes always like "You always kiss me at your house or mine, why not at school" And now i feel horrible, should i go up to him monday morning at school and give him the best kiss ever? Or what? How should i do it? thanks

2006-10-28 16:54:00 · 2 answers · asked by *Chelsie* 3

Ok guys/ladies, My name is Hoa, an average asian guy who believes he's in love with an african american girl. I know that we might have some stares and what not, but I really don't care what people think as long as I'm happy. I control my life, not strangers. It started of being an internet fling, but then things just intensifies even more by each coming day. I just wanna know what all of you peoples opinions on an interacial relationships. Thanks in advance!!! -Hoa

2006-10-28 16:51:14 · 19 answers · asked by sidekickLX! 3

For no apparent reason, just walks up to you and says, can I get your #?

2006-10-28 16:50:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-28 16:49:04 · 28 answers · asked by Bender 6

reply or im me

2006-10-28 16:48:26 · 15 answers · asked by raj s 1

I broke up with guy b/c he's long distance and always busy. I wish I hadn't b/c now I'm lonely and sad. If I call him, it will make me look desperated b/c he tried to get back with me, but I wouldn't. Then, if I don't call, he'll think I'm over him and I may never talk to him again. We have had a good relationship for four mths. Do you think he'll call me??? It's been one day.

2006-10-28 16:47:31 · 11 answers · asked by precious girl 1

I've been going out to bars a lot lately and I remember a co-worker telling me about this other girl that we work with, and to just forget about her. She is only into money and will never date a dude from work . We make OK money but nothing to write home about.

I then drew the conclusion that the majority of women only care about money, and mentioned it to another femake co-worker. She flipped out. I was just being honest. I suspect it's because she's only into her guy for the money. She used to live next door to this dude and now he has his own business -- that does well from what I gather -- so now she dates him despite admittedly never feeling anything for him in the past.

I heard a woman can sum up if a guy is sex material within 10 seconds. So which is it? this doesn't add up.

2006-10-28 16:47:18 · 14 answers · asked by CheckTheCoolWax 2

i have a lot of friends and a lot of them r guys, pretty much all of the guys who know me call me by my last name ( if u heard my name with out seeing me u would think i was a guy) i am worried that they think of me as, just 1 of the guys...which might make it hard 4 me to get a bf. what do u think?

2006-10-28 16:46:20 · 4 answers · asked by C B 1

i jst called dis guy and asked him if he really likes me he said yes den i said prove it he ask me how.....wut should i tell him ???i no im crazy by askin dis quest..but dats who im

2006-10-28 16:44:05 · 2 answers · asked by malinka 1

Almost every guy that I have liked for the past few years has been a bad boy. I have gotten my heart broken by players, I've went out with two different guys in gangs ( I didn't know at the time), and I can't say much for my current crushes because they are in gangs also and they smoke weed. Lets get this straight. I am a good girl, I have never been in trouble in school, I am a good student,I have never done drugs or anything illegal, and I have a good head on my shoulders for the most part. My only problem is that I am attracted to the bad boys and thats not good. What should I do?

2006-10-28 16:44:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex boyfriend says hi to me sometimes on msn. Thus, I know that he reads my msn quote and looks at my display pic. What quote should I write down to get his attention? I don't want something obvious like "I love Jack" haha, Just something that would make him wonder and very curious, so maybe something subtle but coy. Oh and I don't really want it to be about some guy, it can be anything, maybe so that he knows I'm succedding in life, which I am! All suggestions are welcome:)

2006-10-28 16:42:06 · 10 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1

2006-10-28 16:40:58 · 11 answers · asked by 100% TOP NOTCH 2

what happened? how old were you? be specific

2006-10-28 16:40:05 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4

I met this good-looking guy at the library at school (college) Thursday night. I went up to talk to him, and we talked for a few minutes. It seemed like we were into each other, but he didn't ask me out. The next day I called him to ask him out. He said yes and we made plans to have dinner Tuesday night. He gave me his number (without me asking for it) and I gave him mine. We agreed to see each other Tuesday and didn't say anything about calling each other. I want to call him, but I don't want to seem too agressive (after all I was the one to do the asking out). Should I call him to talk, or just wait until we see each other? I guess I am afraid that he might forget that we have a date. Advice?

2006-10-28 16:38:02 · 14 answers · asked by Emily O 1

2006-10-28 16:35:07 · 22 answers · asked by Hacker 3

im just upset. I feel stupid. I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year. He wanted to do things and my mom walked in on us, I didn't even want to do anything. She knows i had my shirt off. I was so upset and embarrased. And my boyfriends at a halloween party right now, while I sit at home in a crappy mood. I thought he cared more.

2006-10-28 16:34:49 · 7 answers · asked by Lindsay 2

I am 26 years old. I haven't had a date in over a year. I haven't had a girlfriend or gotten laid in 6 years. Wow. I'm almost as bad as a 26 year old virgin still living with his parents. The really scary thing is, prior to that last time, I was getting more sex than I could handle. Yikes.

Pretty lame, isn't it?

2006-10-28 16:34:48 · 10 answers · asked by NateTrain 3

so i'm 28 and my g/f and i broke up last saturday. we hadn't talked all week until last night, she called me. we made some small talk for a few minutes and that was it. so then this morning she calls me again, same basic talk as the night before. then tonight she calls - comes over, all we did was watch a movie (the green mile, which is pretty damn good) then after the movie talked about us i guess, not to many real big things but at least we talked about it, then she went home. i'm all confused and don't know if she wants me back (i got dumped) and is afraid to say or what is going on? any ideas?

2006-10-28 16:34:38 · 12 answers · asked by poo hat 3

what do yo ugo for in girls looks or personallty?

2006-10-28 16:32:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous