Ok guys/ladies, My name is Hoa, an average asian guy who believes he's in love with an african american girl. I know that we might have some stares and what not, but I really don't care what people think as long as I'm happy. I control my life, not strangers. It started of being an internet fling, but then things just intensifies even more by each coming day. I just wanna know what all of you peoples opinions on an interacial relationships. Thanks in advance!!! -Hoa
2006-10-28 16:51:14 · 19 answers · asked by sidekickLX! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH YEA...IM IN MY GIRLFRIEND'S ACCOUNT!!
2006-10-28 17:01:08 · update #1
OMFG, I'm in her acocunt...so shhhhhhhh ok??? thxs
2006-10-28 17:05:22 · update #2
It's good you have an upbeat attitude about this! Good for you...that wasn't a bad way to say it okay..lol It's good though. At least you don't care what people think about you! I think it's really sweet that a guy would date a girl out of his race! You'll be the center of attention. Don't let anybody put you guys down!!! Don't listen to them! they're just jealous because they're such loners and they all say crap because they don't have anything else to do in their dumb lives! lol Have a great time with eachother
♥ soo cute! I"M SURE YOU GUYS WILL MAKE IT THROUGH
2006-10-28 17:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by annetteXskye 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a product of an interracial relationship, but why are you limiting yourself? You really have narrowed down the spectrum out there especially since the older the man the more likely he's in a relationship already no matter what race he is. What do you do in your spare time? Do you enjoy doing the same things as these men that you are attracted to? Are you knowledgeable about the activity to the point where it's impressive? A longterm relationship isn't just based on the physical, you have to have similar interests. Regardless, I think you should always take time out for yourself so keep casually dating. I know this sounds bad, but if this demographic is truly the one you are targeting, you have to look in the mirror to see if you are the type of woman these guys go for. Maybe you could dress more conservatively or wear different hairstyles. Even working out will make you feel more self confident around these men. But to me it sounds that these men you are attracted to are being as close-minded as you are.
2016-05-22 04:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i am all for it as long as someones happy then it is okay and it doesnt matter.Some of the older people in communties today are the ones that are not okay with the interacial couples well at least the people who are stuck in their old timey ways but todays youngers adults are okay with it because they have never been around racist communties
2006-10-28 16:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude it don't matter as long as y'all are happy. Everyone is dating everyone else these days and people are people so why should race even be a factor at all? Have fun bubba and see who ever you want regardless of race. Life is too short to worry about things like that.
2006-10-28 17:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by Hendo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
God created all men equal. For you to love and respect other people of other races shows your maturity on the subject. Go for it. But also, prepare your family and friends before you drop a bomb on them if they may have some issues with it. Be respectful of other people who might not be as mature as you are.
2006-10-28 16:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by lilwalker02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, on finding love and happiness. You should live your life to the fullest and stop worrying about what a couple of single and narrow minded people have to say and think. Race shouldn't matter when you love someone. I like interracial couples because they are bold and strong because they think outside of the box. Love is love no matter what color you are, have fun and be happy.
2006-10-28 17:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what makes you guys happy. The world is very tolerant, although you will probablly come in contact with weirdos who will look. When You date outside your race, remember, people will act differently, but its not always bad. They just learning too. Most people will just nod and go about their business. Why do you care anyway? You are in love.
2006-10-28 16:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by precious girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as the couple love each other and treat each other well, it doesn't matter what the ethnic mix is. Love is universal and ultimately you should live your lives to the fullest and not worry about what other people think--the important thing is how you two feel about the relationship.
2006-10-28 16:56:55 · answer #8 · answered by fropvd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A male, going by the name of Miss Cara, with a female avitar? You have issues...
2006-10-28 16:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i've most date people outside of my race. the first time i did it i was self-conscious, like people were looking at us all the time. but then i realized that it was me looking at all of them. once you are comfortable with the situation you absolutely do not notice other people or care what they think. i think it's great. i hope things work out with you and this girl!
2006-10-28 16:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by ca belle 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋