I broke up with guy b/c he's long distance and always busy. I wish I hadn't b/c now I'm lonely and sad. If I call him, it will make me look desperated b/c he tried to get back with me, but I wouldn't. Then, if I don't call, he'll think I'm over him and I may never talk to him again. We have had a good relationship for four mths. Do you think he'll call me??? It's been one day.
2006-10-28 16:47:31 · 11 answers · asked by precious girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't panic, one day is nothing silly! He probably hasn't had time to think twice about the whole thing yet. NO-ONE falls out of true love overnight. But since you were the one who insisted you did not want to go back, I guess I would probably call and tell him how you really do feel. BUT do you truly feel that way? All in one day? Maybe you should give yourself some time, sounds like your a bit insecure. Maybe you need to be working on that. I just want you to be happy in the long run! Good luck!
2006-10-28 16:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I don't really think long distance relationships work but long-distance friendships are easier. I think you should give him a call and tell him that even though you are no longer in a relationship you would still be interested in being in friends and talking on the phone. I would strongly suggest that you don't get back with him, long distance are tough and make you unavailable to date when you could be looking for someone who lives closer to you.
2006-10-28 16:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes long distance relationships can either make a couple grow stronger or grow apart if it grows stronger then it s worth holding on to but even if its seems like your growing apart thats not always the case if you call what you say can true but not always you if you wait to see what he'll maybe he'll come to realize that he lost something precious and make the call
2006-10-28 17:17:07 · answer #3 · answered by phillyz finest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you broke it off with this guy for a good reason. You deserve better. Lonely is a natural feeling. Love yourself. Find activites for yourself. Involve yourself with groups or a group. Join a bowling league. You may still feel lonely, but find things to occupy your mind. Thank God that It is blessing you with good things right now.
2006-10-28 16:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT KNOW U WILL HAVE TO WAIT AND SEE IT HAS ONLY BEEN ONE DAY I WOULD UNDERSTAND ITS BEEN FIVE DAYS.INPLUS IF HE TRILLY CARES HE WILL CALL U DONT CALL HIM CAUSE THAT PROBABLY MAKE U LOOK KIND OF DESPIRATE BUT IF HE DOESNT CALL YOU IN THE NEXT 3 DAYS THEN I WOULD SAY FORGET ABOUT HIM UR TO GOOD FOR HIM THERES MORE FISH IN THE SEA.
2006-10-28 16:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by ~ *Shawty* ~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might call you, but he's still going to be far away and always busy. Get some hobbies and meet new people.
2006-10-28 16:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should first make up your mind as to weather or not you want to be with him, it isnt fair to him for you to break up with him and then get back together. so really think about what you want, and if you get baack together with him let him know you were'nt thinking and you want him back. otherwise just leave him alone.
2006-10-28 16:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Four months - one day? Pain seems eternal.
2006-10-28 16:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call, him, youre toast if he gets a new girlfriend :'(.... dont waste time! If you love him, you'll call :P
2006-10-28 16:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for someone else.
2006-10-28 16:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by Brad F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋