Im almost 17 and she is 16. She broke up with me because I cried and I could not help not to because I knew it was going to happen. She said that she would probably be with me if I changed. So should I change???
2006-10-28 16:59:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO!!!!!!! She should want to be with you for who you are, not for who you arent. You cant just change your personality for her, and she shouldnt be selfish enough to expect you too!
2006-10-28 17:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to change for no one. What do you think will happen everytime you get into a relationship and your girl doesn't like something you do. If your feelings for someone makes you cry then you have the right to express your feelings the way you want to and if you feel the need to cry then do just that. Your to young to let someone dictate how they want you to be. Who is to say that you will be together a year from now, and guess what you changed for what.
2006-10-29 00:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by sharon wisechips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should definately not change ur self...if she doesnt like u 4 who u r then she isnt worth u. If shereally loved u she could push aside the small details and focus on good assets
2006-10-29 00:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by metalik_shoper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! That's a good thing! Hardly any guys show emotion. I'm impressed. There's something wrong with that girl though. Why the hell would she leave you just for that!? Crazy, I'm telling you.
You shouldn't change, wait for some girl who won't leave you for such a thing, that's so stupid! I know I wouldn't leave u if I were her.
2006-10-29 00:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't change.If she can't accept you for the way you are thenshe don't deserve you.She'll be looking back and realize how much she really messed up.And by then, you will have moved on to some one who accepts you
2006-10-29 00:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of change is she talking about? are you drinking doing drugs? if it is that kind of change, I agree with her, but don't change your self for some one else, change for your self, and nothing wrong with showing feelings, everyone has them, especially after two years
2006-10-29 00:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by kat_lucas60 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont change --- well change the bad habits you have -- but no you are not immature
perhaps you have outgrown her?? and need to find a more mature person
2006-10-29 00:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still young and your girlfriend doesn't understand that it is an honor to have someone who is able to express himself. Especially a young man. Find someone who is able to accept you for who you are, not what they want you to be.
2006-10-29 00:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by lovinp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only immature if you stick with a girl like that.
2006-10-29 00:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by BluntTruth 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO way!
Never change for anyone, Be yourself, she is hte one that needs to change!
Find another girlfriend.
2006-10-29 00:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by vanessamustteach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋