Ok here the deal my bofriend an I HAVE BEEN SPLIT UP FOR ABOUT A MONTH AN HE STILL CALLS ME AN AN I HAVE ASKED HIM ABOUT A GIRL I KNOW HE IS TALKING TO ME AN HIM WERE TOGETHER FOR A YEAR AND HALF AN WE DO LOVE EACHOTHER SO WHY NOT BE HONEST WITH ME .I THINK I BEEN WITH HIM LONG TIME I DESERVE THE TRUTH WHY DO MEN DO THIS.
2006-10-28 16:54:23 · 8 answers · asked by Jluckie28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's trying to get a little on the side. If you broke up, he's not your boyfriend anymore. If he's still calling you, it's because he wants to have sex with you... but he doesn't love you, otherwise he wouldn't have broken up with you.
Don't talk to him anymore. There's nothing there for you but broken hearts.
2006-10-28 17:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are really immature! He probably doesnt know what he wants. I bet he wants to be single, with you and at home with his mom all at the same time. Give him space and keep your options open. If he keeps you waiting around too long to figure out what he wants you need to move on.
2006-10-28 16:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by jeweledfruit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we don't want to hear it. we believe that all women will overreact the way that our moms do when we get a speeding ticket, a bad grade, do something stupid (as within our nature), etc. if you can come up to him and show him that his answer won't cause you to yell at him, ignore him for the next however long. show him that you can hear him out and everythings fine, then he just might open up to you. peace
2006-10-28 17:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by Vninja 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well because they dont want to hurt u so they try to fix the problem themselves and that just makes it worse. my ex and i had been going out for 7 months already but he started lyking my friend but instead of telling me as soon as he started lyking her he kept it a secret from me and he made it worse cause i knew he was gonna break up with me but he just made me even more neverous.
2006-10-28 17:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by janet556 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit taking his calls until he can honest with you
2006-10-28 17:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they feel that they have power over you and can control what goes on. if you love him let him go. if he loves you then he will come back
good luck
2006-10-28 16:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by aint_ez_lovin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think he is, then he probably is. He is male.
2006-10-28 16:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by Joe B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him about it.
2006-10-28 16:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋