okay heres my problem.i had a crush on this guy at my work but he had a girlfriend so i never really thought about it like that.then all of these people kept telling me that they thought he liked me and i just brushed it off.then he got my phone number and started texting me and we hung out with a mutual friend and flirted and had a great time then we hung out alone and we ended up kissing more than once.we talk on the phone,text message constantly and its basically like we are on the verge of dating.he tells me that hes tired of his girlfriend and wants to be with me but hee just has a complex about breaking up with her.i really want to be with him. should i give up now or fight until i get what i want?please im so confused
2006-10-28 17:01:39 · 9 answers · asked by wordboo3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You haven't crossed any point of no return. He wants you. Fine... but he can only have one girlfriend. You wouldn't want him to be your man if you knew he cheated on his girl would you?
You wouldn't want anyone to steal your man from you would you?
All righty then. Do unto others and all, OK. Break it off until he's single, but don't be the reason he becomes single.
2006-10-28 17:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any respect for yourself, wait until he breaks up with his girlfriend.
If he's willing to hang out with you, talk/text you and kiss you while he's still with his girlfriend, I'd bet he'd be willing to do those things with someone else while he's dating you.
Is that how you want or deserve to be treated?
Is that how his girlfriend would want or deserves to be treated?
It sounds to me like, as much as you like this guy, he's not much of a catch. If he's tired of his girlfriend he needs to end the relationship BEFORE pursuing anything with you. If he truly likes you he'll realize that you and his girlfriend deserve nothing less.
2006-10-29 00:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by devils'littleangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE careful, It sounds like hes trying to have you both! HTere are many guys out there, you shouldnt try to get soemone elses guy. IF he really liked you and only you, trust me he would break up with his girlfriend. Also, if he cheated on her with you, he will defitnetly cheat on you with someone else.
2006-10-29 00:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by vanessamustteach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would put it on hold for right now.it sounds like to me that he wants to play with you and the other girlfriend.when a guy says that he has a complex about breaking up with his girlfriend,that usually means that he don't want to.so if i was you,i would hold off for awhile.
2006-10-29 00:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by possum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I where you, I'd find out who his other girlfriend is and bring him up casually in a conversation. If she is really into him and would basically die to be w/ him, DUMP HIM!
2006-10-29 00:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wanted to be with you he would be --- hes using you to boost his ego
he is cheating on his girlfriend and would do the same to you
perhaps look for someone new that will want to be with you only
2006-10-29 00:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not waste your time on the run around...trust me guys will drag you as long as you let them
2006-10-29 00:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by wndy_soto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you want to do ... because that is what you are going to do anyway!
2006-10-29 00:13:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill him
2006-10-29 00:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by te quiero tanto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋