Ok so I know all of you are gonna say "No don't have sex with someone you don't know" but I want to ask anyway.
I met a guy over yahoo chat, I really like him and I'm going to be meeting him in a few weeks. We've had cyber sex a few times and I would like to have real sex with him when he gets here. My only problem is that I'm a virgin (he knows)and am very self concious about my body. I trust him completely to treat me right... but I don't want to get going with making out with him and them him not wanna have sex with me because of my body. Please someone give me advice!!
2006-10-28 17:05:30 · 12 answers · asked by Vickie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok so thank you for everyone who has answered already. I do love him. we have known each other for a long time and talked on the phone and on cam alot. I am ready to lose my virginity thats not my problem. And I would never just have sex with him like the first day he's here. We've talked it over alot but I'm still worried he might think I'm not beautiful.
2006-10-28 17:13:57 · update #1
im gonna sound like some adult here even though im a teen but open your eyes girl.......you wanna have sex with some guy you barely know.....even if you chatted or cybered with him you still dont know him....he could be a pedophile.....have you seen that dateline show..........if you wanna get to know him then do that and have dates and stuff and get to know him but not right away
2006-10-28 17:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't even met him yet, so relax. See how things go. There's a huge difference between having cyber sex and real sex. You two might get along well through the internet, but might not have any chemistry face-to-face. If you don't feel completely comfortable doing it and you need to question, "Should I or not?", then don't. You'll just regret it. Besides, you want your first time to have some meaning.
2006-10-28 17:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to have sex with a stranger? Sex is supposed to be between two people in a committed relationship. Your virginity is a precious thing. Don't give it away to just anybody. Wait until you are with someone you are in a committed relationship with before you loose your virginity
2006-10-28 17:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jaedyn=God has heard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not have sex with him immediately. you have to get to know him better. what if he has some sexual disease? you do not want to catch that, do you? besides, sex is always better if you love each other already. you can do all sorts of things to each other without feeling disgusted. anyway, i hope you don't lose your virginity on someone that you barely know. your virginity is the best gift you can give your husband.
2006-10-28 17:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by Arie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, chatting on the net is very different from chatting face to face. You hardly know the person and yet you've already made up ur mind to have sex with him. Get to know him more through face-to-face interaction and if you still are attracted to him, then go ahead. If not, please don;'t put your self at risk !
2006-10-28 17:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do that, you will most likely be sorry in the long run. It will ruin your life. God created sex for a husband and wife to connect in a physical and spiritual level. I guarantee you that you will not marry him and he'll probably be gone in a couple months.
2006-10-28 17:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by codonshifter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think u should, actually I don't even think u should go to meet him, but if you truly believe u can trust him, then just please be careful.... But get to know him in person before u choose to have sex with him or not... People usually aren't what they seem to be online. Whatever u decide though, be careful & good luck =)
2006-10-28 17:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by hiding_hatred 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how u manage the day with him. if you feel secure and wish to treat him with ur sexual feast, go on. but be sensitive that nothing harm happens to you as you will regret and weep later thinking of that harsh moment. think 100 times and jump.
2006-10-28 17:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT!!!!
YOU WILL REGRET IT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!!!!
FIND A MAN THAT YOU LOVE - DATE HIM FOR AT LEAST 3 MONTHS! KNOW THROUGH EXPERIENCE THAT YOU CAN TRUST HIM AND HE LOVES YOU BACK!!!!
I'M TELLING YOU- IF YOU DO THIS YOU WILL REGRET IT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!!!!! Did I mention that it's a bad idea? Oh yeah, I think I covered that.
2006-10-28 17:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it - enjoy yourself
2006-10-28 17:30:27 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋