I have dicided I have been stressing out on finding love and have decided to stop. Because it does not matter that I am 24 and still a virgin and have never had a girlfriend. Their is a whole world of oppertunities out their. If I am lucky and love finds me then great. But if it does not it does not. I mean their is nothing wrong with being Single and a virgin at 24 is their. Anyway do you think it is a good idea to stop looking for love and let love find me.
2006-10-28 21:10:06 · 22 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely. When you least expect it, it will happen to you.
2006-10-28 21:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is much better to stop actively looking. If you try too hard, you will put out all the wrong signals to girls and it will be a turn off. If you just focus on being yourself and having a good times with your friends, you will come across to women as being more relaxed and fun, and they are more likely to be attracted to you anyway!
I was a virgin until the age of 21, way later than all of my friends. After that I was never so hung up about it and I became more chilled, and then I started getting asked out all the time!
You should be proud that you didn't lose your virginity in some drunken moment anyway, I am, as I know lots of people who had sex at a young age and regretted it later. There's no rush. Enjoy life.
2006-10-29 06:01:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sophie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress can be an evil thing. Pamper yourself and take some time out.I think it is a good idea to stop looking for it. But don't keep it totally out of mind. When you go out, have some fun looking, be your self but don't get hung up if you don't find someone.
2006-10-29 04:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by Zippy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you putting yourself out there? Do you go to a variety of places to meet girls?. Do you have friends that could hook you up with someone? Many people feel that you meet someone when you least expect it. Don't give up, but don't make it the only priority in your life. Excel at what you are good at and everything else should all into place.
2006-10-29 04:15:15 · answer #4 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry mate i know it says girls only but had to answer,
i was a player a few years back and then for some reason just stopped. i started dating normally and was mainly single, anyway 12 months ago i was single, not looking, and then i met the most amazing girl in the word fell head over heels,
point is when i had girls all over the place i was always looking for the next best thing, i stopped looking and the most amazing girl in the world found me, engaged after 3 weeks and living together in 5 weeks, one year on she still makes my heart skip a beat
2006-10-29 04:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by orfeo_fp 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely! That is such a great attitude! Don't worry about it...24 is still so young! Concentrate on yourself, making yourself happy, living for you, and the rest will follow. Best of luck!
2006-10-29 04:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right about not stressing. My husband was almost as old as you are when he found me. Just don't give up, and become blind to noticing a girl that does like you. I had a hard time getting my husband's attention because he had given up. Everyone knew I liked him except him. I'm glad his cousin decided to meddle and TELL him that I liked him, then coax him into asking me out. :O)
2006-10-29 04:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Looking for love can be stressful and that alone can turn women off. Always dress appropriately, be yourself, and don't be afraid to talk to women but with no agenda. It doesn't hurt to go to places where you will meet ladies. Good luck.
2006-10-29 04:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop looking it will find you!
there are guys that are older than you and are virgins - I know couple of them and belive me they are much more interesting than those who are getting laid all the time and did it for the first time at the age of 16!
just enjoy yourself, be selfconfident. if you do- sooner or later you will face a girl who won't be able to resist you. good luck!
2006-10-29 04:19:14 · answer #9 · answered by ywe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi ya as long as your happy with being a virgin don't let any body up set you...just relax and have fun, its not the end of the world....... there is love out there for every one just be patient.. keep smiling
2006-10-29 13:54:41 · answer #10 · answered by dawn t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is nothing wrong with that at all, it is your choice and that does not make you any less of a person.
i don't think that you should stop looking for love, because there are many out there looking for someone like you. i hope you do find what you are looking for.
2006-10-29 04:16:03 · answer #11 · answered by Ms. L 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋